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Hate how racist everything has become, and how quickly it’s happened.

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Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:13

I was just looking at facebook, and a ‘Sad face’ newsmaker article came up. Practically all the comments mentioned boats, asylum seekers etc etc. Its really getting me down.

Travelled to the south west last weekend. On the way down no flags on bridges. On the way back, in some areas, every bridge.

Its scary how quickly it’s all happening.

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SquirrelMadness · 25/08/2025 09:12

I find it so sad and so terrifying how easily people are manipulated into hating and demonising a small and desperate, scapegoat group of people. I do really worry about what's going to happen to the country over the next 10 years, I find it easier to just try to avoid the news and stop thinking about it.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/08/2025 09:13

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 09:03

unless you are one of the thousands of UK doctors to have just completed their F2 placement and are now unemployed as specialist training places are open to international applicants and UK applicants are not prioritised despite the hundreds of thousands we have spent training them.

I’ve only known 3 medical students. One decided that it was really not for him and is now working in the city as a medical analyst and the other two are working in Australia because they found the terms, conditions and lifestyle more appealing.
I’m extremely grateful that doctors from overseas are prepared to tolerate the NHS in its present state.

Thegreyhound · 25/08/2025 09:13

LivingWithANob · 24/08/2025 23:34

I wouldnt say its racist. I am not racist for saying - hang on it seems we cant support our own people in the uk (police/housing/healthcare etc), how can we keep springing money out for housing these people. It feels to me there is no plan and its just out of control. Im allowed an opinion on all this without being called racist.

The very phrases ‘our own people’ and ‘these people’ are othering and straight out of the racist playbook.

Mapletree1985 · 25/08/2025 09:14

It would be helpful to see the balance sheet - see the numbers set by side by side.

The boomers would argue that this care is something they're entitled to because they have paid into the system all their lives. The immigrants have not. I understand what you're saying, that the net cost to local government of caring for boomers is more than the net cost of caring for immigrants. I just think it's interesting that you choose people in care homes as the point comparison. Why not compare the cost of accommodating immigrants to the cost of educating children? Or maintaining infrastructure? Or the NHS?

The first duty of any state is to care for its own citizens.

noggla · 25/08/2025 09:14

The biggest racist problems are Eastern Europeans v Muslims. Have communities in the city where I live, where these people live and they do not get on with each other.

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HerewardtheSleepy · 25/08/2025 09:15

The progressive left with its love of "intersectional issues" and its need to police how people spoke and expressed themselves brought this about IMO.

They seriously did not even consider the possibility of a reaction nor, much more seriously, how it would play out when it came to the way in which people voted.

Result, the country is in deep shit and we are not, of course, alone in this as a brief glance at the US and the EU will show.

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 09:16

PrissyGalore · 25/08/2025 09:12

It’s not racism. It’s anger at how illegals come to the UK and are housed, fed and given healthcare when our own people are struggling to get these things. We need much tougher asylum laws-for example, giving someone asylum because of their sexuality is insane and open to abuse. The asylum laws were created out of the horror of the genocidal WW2 in our own continent.
people rightly wanted to show compassion but we’ve ended up with unintended consequences. The world is very different now. No one should be called racist for wanting strong borders. We looked at emigrating many years ago when the kids were little. We didn’t because dh was offered a fantastic job but I don’t remember thinking Canada was racist because you had to meet strict criteria to be allowed in. And I don’t think it racist to be expected to fit in with the social norms of the country to which you’re emigrating.

I’m yet to come across anyone who thinks any of the visas available for people wanting to migrate to the UK are racist.

Why is giving someone who is LGBT asylum insane? You are aware that during world war two LGBT people were in those death camps.

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RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 09:16

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 09:10

“Our own people” - I hate this term.

We are all human beings. We are all living together on planet earth. They are not a different species, they are the same as you.

In actual fact the people making your life worse are the millionaires and billionaires hoarding their money and wealth in offshore account not caring that others are homeless and hungry. Flying around in their private jets, to and from their air conditioned mansions, completely indifferent to their climate impact which will lead to the suffering and death of millions within a generation or two.

Are you or are you not a distinct group of people? We are not interchangeable little cogs you know.

Thegreyhound · 25/08/2025 09:17

Lifepuzzle · 25/08/2025 08:37

It’s a carefully manipulated distraction to hide the real, very dangerous economic issues

Absolutely this.
if every single migrant boat was turned back and every asylum seeker was deported the issues would still be shit housing, stretched services and massive social inequality. People are in a dreamworld if they think this is not the case.
There are people watching all this flagshagging and laughing all the way to the bank.

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 09:18

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Which migrants have taken your home, or a hotel?

You didn’t answer my previous question, as you only want people born in the UK to use the NHS would you support the NHS surcharge being removed, and would you refuse any NHS worker who wasn’t born in the UK to be involved in your care?

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 09:18

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/08/2025 09:13

I’ve only known 3 medical students. One decided that it was really not for him and is now working in the city as a medical analyst and the other two are working in Australia because they found the terms, conditions and lifestyle more appealing.
I’m extremely grateful that doctors from overseas are prepared to tolerate the NHS in its present state.

So you don’t know any F2 medics trying to get specialist training placements then? Why are you grateful for overseas doctors who apply for those placements rather than the thousands of now unemployed medics who have done eight years of training within the NHS before finding themselves rejected in favour of those overseas doctors?

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 09:19

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You want to send back all those NHS employees who weren’t born in the UK? Who will then staff the NHS?

Thegreyhound · 25/08/2025 09:19

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The men who hate women are everywhere and of every colour, creed and denomination. A very large amount of them are on these protests.

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 09:19

Remmy123 · 25/08/2025 07:48

It's not racist people are fed up - my mum lives near a migrant hotel and she feels unsafe now, stabbings, litter - groups of men hanging around no respect for women

she hates it as do I - neither of us are racist

A hotel in the quiet rural town near me was used as a migrant hotel for a year, and nobody even knew until about 10 months in! There were no issues.

I am not disputing your claim mind you, just giving an additional perspective.

Is it DEFINITELY just the migrants who are to blame for all of the anti social activity?

Trendyname · 25/08/2025 09:21

PaxAeterna · 25/08/2025 00:08

The UK are the 5th largest for asylum seekers claims in Europe and if you look at the numbers per capita, the UK has less than average asylum seekers numbers compared against the EU countries.

I agree with much of what you say but if you are repeating these myths then you are also part of the problem.

Per capita is not fair for a country like UK. It is a small country but densely populated.

5th largest in Europe for asylum seekers is pretty decent. It’s the countries like Poland which are unwilling to take in non white refugees.

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 09:21

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Someone just banged on my door. It was a bunch of migrants. The threw me out of my house and I am now typing this whilst sitting in the gutter. The whole street is being taken over. Someone call Farage and Yaxley-Lennon! Help!

Newbutoldfather · 25/08/2025 09:21

Being racist isn’t being patriotic, flying flags or even disliking very different cultures. Being racist is disliking a person because of their race.

We even teach ‘British values’ at schools which are things like tolerance, free speech etc. So, it is not unreasonable to expect immigrants to embrace these values.

The idea that being against open borders or immigrant hotels is racist is pushing the U.K. towards people like Farage, who is currently favourite to have the most seats in the next parliament.

These are complex issues and just slurring people as ‘racist’ and trying to censor legitimate viewpoints is destructive.

Piccolomaforte · 25/08/2025 09:22

While I’m sure there are some racists involved in this, I don’t see people displaying their patriotism as fundamentally racist. I see it as a protest over the huge influx of people from cultures contrary to our own, without any proper support given to integration or preservation of the country’s own culture or discussion about how medieval religions set back women’s rights and equality.
If we’re having to have discussions in places like Bradford about the horrendous impact of first cousin marriages creating extra medical demands in the system, we’ve failed in preventing some of the negative impacts of immigration. Its not okay to expect a nation to be happy that the fundamental fabric of its society is being changed without discussion.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/08/2025 09:22

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 09:18

So you don’t know any F2 medics trying to get specialist training placements then? Why are you grateful for overseas doctors who apply for those placements rather than the thousands of now unemployed medics who have done eight years of training within the NHS before finding themselves rejected in favour of those overseas doctors?

Because in the cases of the two I mentioned, they were exceptional and saved my husband’s life.

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 09:23

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 09:21

Someone just banged on my door. It was a bunch of migrants. The threw me out of my house and I am now typing this whilst sitting in the gutter. The whole street is being taken over. Someone call Farage and Yaxley-Lennon! Help!

Ah, how I miss the laugh reaction

underthecokesign · 25/08/2025 09:23

Supersimkin7 · 24/08/2025 22:35

Welfare migrants aren’t a race issue - except in London where the homes and services they take come straight from
the poor, who are mostly non-white.

If you cared about racism, you’d get how distressing it is to know Windrush families who took two jobs each see their grandchildren forced out of their hometown by lifelong workless asylum seekers… in the name of fairness.

Welfare migration is an insult to the once-immigrant working poor - who aren’t white.

You do realise a lot of 'lifelong workless asylum seekers' in this country are workless precisely because of racism, right? 🤔

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 09:23

EvilEdna44 · 25/08/2025 09:19

A hotel in the quiet rural town near me was used as a migrant hotel for a year, and nobody even knew until about 10 months in! There were no issues.

I am not disputing your claim mind you, just giving an additional perspective.

Is it DEFINITELY just the migrants who are to blame for all of the anti social activity?

No one knew that a hotel in a quiet rural town was no longer open to the public for ten months?

Coscc · 25/08/2025 09:24

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