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Hate how racist everything has become, and how quickly it’s happened.

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Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:13

I was just looking at facebook, and a ‘Sad face’ newsmaker article came up. Practically all the comments mentioned boats, asylum seekers etc etc. Its really getting me down.

Travelled to the south west last weekend. On the way down no flags on bridges. On the way back, in some areas, every bridge.

Its scary how quickly it’s all happening.

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Lifepuzzle · 25/08/2025 08:37

It’s a carefully manipulated distraction to hide the real, very dangerous economic issues

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 08:38

@Nestingbirds ”We will finally have a sensible, safe and fair immigration system that serves THIS country, and not the rest of the world.”

What do you think is not sensible or unsafe about the current immigration system in the UK? Which particular parts are unsafe?

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 25/08/2025 08:39

Mapletree1985 · 25/08/2025 08:13

The difference is the baby boomers have been paying their taxes, working, raising kids and contributing to the economy for all of their lives; they have a right to expect some kind of return at the end of those lives.

Should we throw useless, Alzheimer-riddled grandpa into the North Sea to make room for newcomers?

No, but we need to be honest about just how bad the situation will get before this boom passes. We will be skint paying for them. It is the adult social care bill that is crippling councils, it will get worse before it gets better. However, local Facebook groups and other social media are presenting the lack of council funds as down to those immigrants in the small boats.

they are relatively a small number of people. We’d fix a lot of problems by saying after 3 months of waiting for an asylum decision they could work and choose where they live (but pay their own rent if not in the hotels provided). But that would take away the asylum seekers as a political tool to distract from the real problems.

Makehaysunshine · 25/08/2025 08:39

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 08:27

The real question should be, why do they care about the safety of refugee males over that of local women and girls?

I just can’t understand it.

Well, the safety and rights of women in this country generally are hardly being protected, are they? The actual definition of a woman is being eroded away, and what could be the agenda behind that?

Marchitectmummy · 25/08/2025 08:39

Easipeelerie · 25/08/2025 07:28

I can’t believe I just read this on Mumsnet. This month’s fad of putting England flags up everywhere has nothing to do with our flag culture. It stems from racism and is designed to intimidate.

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Are you sure that's what it's purpose is, my understanding is if is to show a visual unity on wanting immigration issues to be discussed by our Government. People have felt / do feel muted and unable to talk about immigration particularly from those arriving in boats. If you read through this thread there are multiple attacks on anyone representing concerns, mostly personal attacks from posters. Not so much going in the other direction.

That is the outcome desired as I understand it, which going by the number of threads on here and media coverage it is working and is bringing about discussion.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 08:41

Iocainepowder · 25/08/2025 08:34

Lol. Because that would mean this didn’t happen.

Yeah when they say the majority of British men commit crime, they forget that white British men still make up the majority of adult males. In fact it would be a serious, serious issue if they did NOT make up the largest share of criminals.

But in fact, we do find that certain demographic groups commit a larger share of sexual assaults, per capita. That is the actual number to consider. Don’t let the lefties gaslight you on this issue.

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 08:41

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 08:38

@Nestingbirds ”We will finally have a sensible, safe and fair immigration system that serves THIS country, and not the rest of the world.”

What do you think is not sensible or unsafe about the current immigration system in the UK? Which particular parts are unsafe?

It takes too long, it is allowing too many to stay that have nothing to contribute to the country, and it is very very easy to circumnavigate and lie - or claim you are a child when clearly you are an adult male.

Cyclebabble · 25/08/2025 08:41

I am ethnically Indian. Where we are now is scary for anyone who is not white. I had an Aunty who was spat at last week and the level of verbal abuse experienced by the whole family is increasing. Most of my family work in the NHS as Doctors and Nurses and have done now for three generations. It is somewhat ironic that I see lots of comments about immigration causing problems with NHS appointments when our NHS is dependent of large amount foreign workers and beyond this is hugely ethnically diverse.

There seems to be a deliberate effort to “other” anyone who is not English. We have the same basic issues and challenges as anyone who is white and have lived harmoniously and productively in mixed communities for years. I often read online comments around there being no go areas for white people in the UK- Tower Hamlets is often used. Not true, but I do hear it stated. It would be a brave person of colour at the moment that would be opting to do some shopping in Epping I think.

RingoJuice · 25/08/2025 08:43

Makehaysunshine · 25/08/2025 08:39

Well, the safety and rights of women in this country generally are hardly being protected, are they? The actual definition of a woman is being eroded away, and what could be the agenda behind that?

The same people allowing unvetted migrants to come in without pushback are the very same that allow the trans agenda.

JamieCannister · 25/08/2025 08:43

Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:13

I was just looking at facebook, and a ‘Sad face’ newsmaker article came up. Practically all the comments mentioned boats, asylum seekers etc etc. Its really getting me down.

Travelled to the south west last weekend. On the way down no flags on bridges. On the way back, in some areas, every bridge.

Its scary how quickly it’s all happening.

The English and British flags are not racist.

Opposing mass immigration is not racist.

Opposing extremist Islamism is not racist.

Opposing the niqab is not racist.

Opposing asylum hotels is not racist

Opposing illegal immigration is not racist

Voting for a political party who are right of centre is not racist (and if it was all labour supporters would be racist)

Also, if you wish to reduce racism, OP, then ignoring the concerns of people who you (often) wrongly perceive as racist is not the way to do it.

I say this as someone who has not voted Tory, let alone UKIP/Reform once in 30+ years of voting.

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 08:43

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 08:41

It takes too long, it is allowing too many to stay that have nothing to contribute to the country, and it is very very easy to circumnavigate and lie - or claim you are a child when clearly you are an adult male.

Can you inform me which visa you are talking about? All immigrants have a visa, there are a few different ones. Which type is taking too long to process before being approved which then enables the person to enter the UK.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 25/08/2025 08:43

Thank god other people can see it. I’m genuinely scared of how blinded so many people are, by the concerted efforts of the main stream media, whipping them up into a frenzy. It’s like they lost any ability to use their brains.
It’s all “sTop ThE bOaTs” (which incidentally, is extremely easy to do, with the will to do it), instead of asking themselves, why the government hasn’t done so, IF “the boats” were so detrimental to the country.
Many of us, on this site, will be single parents, some of us old enough to remember when every headline was slating single mothers, as the biggest scourge the country had ever faced. We’ve seen the LGBTQ+ community pilloried. We’ve seen pensioners castigated for the triple lock, and claiming the heating allowance that they “didn’t need”. We’ve seen the disabled benefits slashed. We’ve seen every minority group targeted as scale goats …. And the ONE (and only) thing they have in common, is that they vulnerable and therefore easier to target as scale goats. IF the indigenous (I use the term VERY loosely) had a good standard of living, nobody would object to poor people being given the bare minimum. And that’s the problem. The standard of living for many, isn’t good, and that’s not a mistake, it’s deliberate. And we fight over the dregs, like rats in a trap, instead of wondering why we are there, and who is keeping us there. There’s a story about red ants and black ants, living happily alongside each in a jar, until the jar is shaken, and the ants turn on each other. That’s what’s happening right now. The jar is being shaken. Not by the ants, but by the people with, and seeking more, power.

Lilactimes · 25/08/2025 08:43

Dorisbonson · 25/08/2025 06:55

It's not just about the 50,000 in hotels. It's about the 1m+ that move here every year. If you don't get that then you don't understand.

Do you mean 1 million people who move her on UK work permit visas to do jobs @Dorisbonson ? And that these people are depriving Brits of that job?
Often as a business, when applying for a visa to work here you have to advertise and show that no one here wants or can do the job. If it’s a skilled job, that person is often benefitting that company, maybe even increasing its profits.
Or do you believe 1m people still coming in to our country via border entry and simply staying - even though we have tighter border entry since Brexit?
We have a lot of aging people in this country and a shrinking work force - it’s not a bad thing to have people willing to work from other countries as part of our tax paying workforce if they have come in on a working visa .
I am interested to know @Dorisbonson the make up of these 1m people?

Timeforabitofpeace · 25/08/2025 08:44

I hate it too . Blame Farage and the likes of the fake Tommy Robinson.

BeardofHagrid · 25/08/2025 08:46

Why on earth do you think a flag is racist?

Sherbs12 · 25/08/2025 08:47

Upupandaway10 · 24/08/2025 22:46

What on earth are you talking about - “a huge amount of money behind it”? By who? What conspiracy theory is this?

Do you not think ordinary working class people are fed up seeing or hearing
news stories or reports of illegal men coming into the country and getting put up in 4 star hotels for free. Don’t forget the crimes that are being committed as well that the public actually get to know about.

The wealthy owners of the media producing some of the news reports you’re referring to - you know, those who own/fund the likes of the Daily Mail and GB News. The millionaire leaders of Reform and their wealthy donors, hangers-on, etc. and their inflammatory, performative, irresponsible approach to politics.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 25/08/2025 08:47

Cyclebabble · 25/08/2025 08:41

I am ethnically Indian. Where we are now is scary for anyone who is not white. I had an Aunty who was spat at last week and the level of verbal abuse experienced by the whole family is increasing. Most of my family work in the NHS as Doctors and Nurses and have done now for three generations. It is somewhat ironic that I see lots of comments about immigration causing problems with NHS appointments when our NHS is dependent of large amount foreign workers and beyond this is hugely ethnically diverse.

There seems to be a deliberate effort to “other” anyone who is not English. We have the same basic issues and challenges as anyone who is white and have lived harmoniously and productively in mixed communities for years. I often read online comments around there being no go areas for white people in the UK- Tower Hamlets is often used. Not true, but I do hear it stated. It would be a brave person of colour at the moment that would be opting to do some shopping in Epping I think.

I just want to say “I’m sorry”. I hope you know that there are very many people who support you, and are glad that you and your family are here. Our voices are hard to hear at times, drowned out by the clamour published by the press, but we ARE here.

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 08:47

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 08:43

Can you inform me which visa you are talking about? All immigrants have a visa, there are a few different ones. Which type is taking too long to process before being approved which then enables the person to enter the UK.

You can google if you are interested, or use chat gpt I am not here to educate you.

If you think allowing the equivalent of the entire town of Leeds to arrive here year after year is good planning then I can’t help you.

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 08:47

Supersimkin7 · 24/08/2025 22:35

Welfare migrants aren’t a race issue - except in London where the homes and services they take come straight from
the poor, who are mostly non-white.

If you cared about racism, you’d get how distressing it is to know Windrush families who took two jobs each see their grandchildren forced out of their hometown by lifelong workless asylum seekers… in the name of fairness.

Welfare migration is an insult to the once-immigrant working poor - who aren’t white.

This is also a type of racism - the idea that white people are not losing out. White working class men are the most underachieving group in society; the most deprived communities are made up of this demographic. Indeed, the most deprived community in the UK is white working class - and in Farage’s constituency.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 08:48

Coscc · 25/08/2025 02:25

if I were to take my child to the park tomorrow and that’s what we seen I’d be talking about the British flag in a positive way and not even mentioning the real reason it’s being erected and what it’s in support of I’ll let her see it for itself when she’s older and when she’s trying to protect her children and grandchildren from the utter mess we are as a country. You could do the same I mean anyone could do the same and just talk positively about the flag and what it actually means to be British and how to celebrate and support it in our British country Great Britain.

I would be using it as an opportunity to teach my child about racism. I would explain how the flag has been taken over by despicable people who have no respect for traditional British values such as compassion or tolerance etc, and I would explain how they have turned our national flag into a symbol of hate and division. And I would emphasise that it is the duty of all decent people to work together to drown out the voices of that nasty, hateful few.

Daughterofthesea · 25/08/2025 08:48

i meant to quote someone in my post

Simonjt · 25/08/2025 08:49

Nestingbirds · 25/08/2025 08:47

You can google if you are interested, or use chat gpt I am not here to educate you.

If you think allowing the equivalent of the entire town of Leeds to arrive here year after year is good planning then I can’t help you.

I don’t need educating, I’m aware of the different kind of visas the UK has, how much they cost, the averaging processing time.

Which particular visas do you think are unsafe and take too long to process?

Leeds isn’t a town by the way.

PaxAeterna · 25/08/2025 08:50

Notsandwiches · 25/08/2025 08:08

I don't think most people are racist, no. However, large numbers of undocumented men who view unaccompanied women and girls as targets for their sexual attentions isn't on. When we apparently don't have money to pay benefits to disabled people and have housing lists with little hope of getting a house - I understand people's frustrations that we have money to pay for undocumented immigrants. Take a look at the money laundering going on on our high streets via Vape shops, Turkish barbers, car cleaning and nail salons - and all documented on BBC news. If we can't afford our own community, how and why should we afford these people who don't share our values and actually despise our kindness as weakness.

There is no evidence that women and girls are more at risk from these people.
Asylum seekers and refugees commit crimes at similar rates to the rest of the population.

Having spent a lot of time with asylum seekers and refugees, their values like most of the world’s values are about being safe and secure, being able to feed themselves and their families. It’s a difficult system to be stuck in so not many will be feeling much “kindness” . You honestly should get to know some asylum seekers and challenge your misconceptions about them.

Romeiswheretheheartis · 25/08/2025 08:50

PeonyPatch · 25/08/2025 07:33

This is what my DH and I say. We have moved into a new build estate of around 20/30 houses but a particular group of race all socialise with each other and haven’t integrated with the rest of us. I feel excluded on my own road.

My experience is the opposite. In the street where I live, in two incidences of Pakistani families moving in, at least one next door neighbour moved out because they 'don't want to live next door to people like them'. Not wanting integration can stem from the white English. I can't see the thugs protesting about asylum seekers being very welcoming to a non white family legitimately moving in next door to them.

Browniesforbreakfast · 25/08/2025 08:51

PaxAeterna · 25/08/2025 08:50

There is no evidence that women and girls are more at risk from these people.
Asylum seekers and refugees commit crimes at similar rates to the rest of the population.

Having spent a lot of time with asylum seekers and refugees, their values like most of the world’s values are about being safe and secure, being able to feed themselves and their families. It’s a difficult system to be stuck in so not many will be feeling much “kindness” . You honestly should get to know some asylum seekers and challenge your misconceptions about them.

This isn’t true though.