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Illegal Immigrants In Hotels

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Goldengirl123 · 24/08/2025 10:42

What are your thoughts?

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Canderelgirl · 24/08/2025 12:00

InfoSecInTheCity · 24/08/2025 11:55

I find this to be such a hugely ignorant comment and one that demonstrates the complete lack of logical thought and understanding that goes into this issue.

If you were living with your family in a country where you were at daily risk of death through war, famine, religious persecution etc. You had extremely limited means and were desperate for a solution for your family. Would you scrape together any money you could get hold of , which of these would you send:

  • your teenage daughter
  • ypur young twenties son
  • ypur elderly father
  • your whole family including children

Bearing in mind the journey will include smuggling yourself in using dangerous transport routes, sleeping rough and in refugee camps, affiliating yourself with strangers and hoping they can be trusted.

I would not want to send a single daughter, let’s be honest the chances of her making it without being physically or sexually assaulted are slim, I would not want to send an elderly or infirm family member as they would be likely to struggle, so yes the best choice is the single male relative in his 20s.

If you were living with your family in a country where you were at daily risk of death through war, famine, religious persecution etc.

And you leave your vulnerable family is such dangerous place?

Problem with imagining is you imagine how you want to imagine.

My grandparents were in the same situation and did leave with entire family and they were not the only ones. All families in the region left together.

Parker231 · 24/08/2025 12:00

InMyHealthyEra · 24/08/2025 11:55

I’d like to see all of them deported. Even the genuine asylum seekers, they should have sought asylum in the first safe country they came into, not travelled onto the UK. Yes I understand many of them have English as a second language and outside of their own country it is their only other spoken language, many also have family already in the UK, whether that be legally or not but it doesn’t automatically give them the right to be here. We do not have enough property, jobs, schools, health resources for our own, never mind others coming from other countries.

They are legally entitled to travel through other countries before applying for asylum. In the uk being able to speak English and have family already here will count in their favour in their application for right to remain.

How would you deport them and still comply with the ECHR?

Newbutoldfather · 24/08/2025 12:00

The comparison of the current wave of asylum seekers to the Jews after the holocaust makes uncomfortable reading to a Jew like me. It kind of stinks of antisemitism.

The holocaust was a unique event in our own continent, the number of Jews was in the 10s of thousands (total) and it was very much mixed sexes and ages.

Despite many having a different religion, there was always a desire to integrate and pay back to society the opportunity we had been offered.

There was also a degree of guilt that we hadn’t bombed the extermination camps.

We cannot rescue the amount of asylum seekers that we have, let alone the potential amount who would seek asylum were all of them admitted.

Piggywaspushed · 24/08/2025 12:00

WearyAuldWumman · 24/08/2025 11:56

The local Holiday Inn Express was used to house asylum seekers. (It's now back to normal use.)

So far as I could see, they were all families - I believe that the fathers had worked with the British army.

That'll be the terribly poorly treated Afghan interpreters .

ETA - I'm not being sarcastic or ironic and realise some may interpret it this way. The risks these men took only for people to want to drive them back to a place where they will be murdered.

stayathomer · 24/08/2025 12:00

SquishedMallow

Maybe it wasn’t that simple, maybe this is where they were advised to go. Countries restricted and closed borders, they had quotas

ScarlettOYara · 24/08/2025 12:00

MargaretThursday · 24/08/2025 11:53

The "they're all young men" argument is trotted out regularly on our local FB.

They're not. Our local one is predominantly families and people still say that. What they mean is, if they see a young man near the place, they're clearly an illegal immigrant. If they see a family, well, they're obviously a local family that happens to be walking near.

And the young men? Well a fair number of our local ones do volunteering, including at the local foodbank, so they're seen because they're going out to do that. They don't have enough money to catch a bus, so they're walking the 3-5 miles.
They're very clear that they want to be putting something back in, and they're not allowed to work so they also want something useful to do with their time.

But if you believed the local gossip all the "hotel" (and if you got service like they're getting at a hotel then you'd be expecting your money back and an apology) is filled with young men who spend their entire day standing outside catcalling. Funny how I go past regularly and never see this, but it doesn't suit their narrative.

So there are young male migrants walking 5 miles to help out in a food bank?
Perhaps they're noting that the UK isn't without serious social problems. It's very positive that they're making such an effort to help.

SquishedMallow · 24/08/2025 12:01

stayathomer · 24/08/2025 11:59

Ps we’re lucky we are born into the countries we were born into/ into the lives we were born into, you could have been any one of the people in these situations, you were just born in a different country

Probably try to flee to the nearest safe country then in those circumstances instead of hopping in a rubber boat and leaving the shores of a safe country. Novel idea 💡

cumbriaisbest · 24/08/2025 12:01

They are unofficial refugee camps. Hotels were used deliberately to foster civil unrest.
SERCO make billions and abuse people.

YesterdaysFuture · 24/08/2025 12:01

Spidey66 · 24/08/2025 11:54

What gets me is that Brexit voters thought this would be stopped. Truth is, post Brexit we don’t get any EU support for asylum seekers once they’re here, so those who voted for it shot themselves in the foot if they thought it would resolve the issue!!!!

Brexit didn't change a thing, the EU didn't support the UK before Brexit, and before Brexit people were jumping on lorries at Calais. Since that route stopped it is now small boat crossings.

Basically I don't believe anyone who says we need to be in or out of the EU to fix it.

whatasillygoose · 24/08/2025 12:01

OneAlertOliveFinch · 24/08/2025 11:58

Yeah its terrible. Maybe you could offer a spare room?

What a great idea. Actually I already have and not just to the acceptable, white Ukrainian families.

I can send you some links about how to do this if you’d like.

Saeurcat · 24/08/2025 12:01

MolkosTeenageAngst · 24/08/2025 11:26

The women and children are either back home or, often, in huge refugee camps in countries bordering the ones they’ve fled from. The journey to reach the UK is long and arduous and full of risks, it will involve a lot of walking, being smuggled into the back of trucks, crossing water in dinghies. The people who facilitate these journies are criminals smuggling people across borders illegally, many people get scammed. You have presumably seen the news stories about people being found dead in the back of lorries or drowning due to a capsized dinghy. It is dangerous for anybody but women, children and the elderly are more vulnerable than young men. Women in particular will be more vulnerable to being trafficked into the sex trade whilst they make the journey or to being sexually assaulted by the criminals they would need to collude with to cross borders. It’s still a dangerous journey for a man but not as dangerous as it would be for a woman or child.

Once a person has claimed asylum they are able to apply to have their family join them, so it is generally safer for a family to send young man to make the journey and for him to then apply to have his family brought over safely and legally, via a normal plane or ferry, than for them all to attempt to enter the country illegally to claim asylum.

In terms of our homeless population, there are shelters and other types of emergency accommodation available for people who are on the streets. However, they will almost all have a strict no drugs and no alcohol policy and anybody in breach of this won’t be able to stay. Unfortunately the majority of people sleeping regularly on the streets have issues with addiction and as such aren’t eligible for accommodation, this is of course a problem in itself and I agree one that needs addressing, but it’s not as simple as just saying why isn’t help and accommodation available for people who are rough sleeping.

I’ve done some work in adult emergency housing centres and in prisons.
Emergency housing centres are WORSE than prisons, just a room, no amenities, men and women openly taking/smoking drugs and alcohol in communal areas and walking around like zombies - and it’s not the asylum seekers displaying this behaviour!

(not an argument with Quoted poster, totally agree with everything you said but just making an observation about the emergency accommodation)

PonkyPonky · 24/08/2025 12:02

I live in an area hugely affected by the Afghan resettlement scheme and it’s been hell to be honest. Personally I think our cultures are just way too different for harmonious mixing to be at all possible. Women have worked tirelessly in this country to be treated as equal and not ‘less than’. How can it be a good idea to flood the country with men who don’t agree with this and still believe women are second class citizens. I have huge sympathy for people from war torn countries, I just don’t see how we can help them without huge detriment to our own values. We are at breaking point with our services as it is. There’s no doctors appointments, no dentists available, social services are stretched beyond belief. I’d love to help every single person in the world that is suffering but I think we are simply full.

Goldengirl123 · 24/08/2025 12:02

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 24/08/2025 11:56

Guys guys the OP was only saying! Can't you just try to provoke a tiny racist rant on the chat thread without being jumped on anymore?! Woke gone mad. And OP does a lotta charridee work. Shame.

I honestly wasn’t trying to provoke racist posts. I really did just want other peoples opinions. Can’t we just have a normal debate without people getting personal?

Yes I really do fund raising for various charities. On my own!

Goldengirl isn’t because I think I am golden but because I am in my golden years

I made a mistake saying illegal immigranrs instead of asylum seekers. I do apologise

I have no problem with the Ukrainian women & children coming over as they have come over legally. Nothing to do with race or religion

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Clafoutie · 24/08/2025 12:03

Goldengirl123 · 24/08/2025 11:12

I welcome the Ukrainians as they are women & children fleeing the war. Not because of their religion or colour!!!

Many asylum seekers are young men fleeing war. Why are they different?

BlankBlankBlank14 · 24/08/2025 12:03

Goldengirl123 · 24/08/2025 11:31

I do genuinely do fund raising for many charities

So what? Doesn’t make you a good person.

Bambamhoohoo · 24/08/2025 12:03

SquishedMallow · 24/08/2025 12:01

Probably try to flee to the nearest safe country then in those circumstances instead of hopping in a rubber boat and leaving the shores of a safe country. Novel idea 💡

so when war breaks out and the island of Ireland is faced with an influx of 60million Brits…… they just take us too do they?

DiscoBob · 24/08/2025 12:03

There's an asylum hotel near my house and I haven't even noticed. Other than there's always plenty of Deliveroo riders around so I get my dinner nice and quick.
I think the last government either deliberately fucked up by not clearing the backlog or were just inept at finding any way forward with it. So now this government are landed with a problem. I do not agree with Reform.

Ladamesansmerci · 24/08/2025 12:04

These threads are always full of some vile shit. I guarantee that even if we didn't have Asylum Seekers, the same people spewing the negative propaganda would also be the ones moaning benefit scrounging alcoholic homeless people are getting things for nothing. No one gives a single flying fuck about social deprivation and the complex factors causing homelessness, until it's used as an argument against asylum seekers.

SquishedMallow · 24/08/2025 12:04

whatasillygoose · 24/08/2025 12:01

What a great idea. Actually I already have and not just to the acceptable, white Ukrainian families.

I can send you some links about how to do this if you’d like.

Nice victim bashing re: the Ukrainians.

You do realise Ukrainian people are culturally similar and come from a first world country ? It's human nature to feel more affiliated to people culturally similar to us. Those were also mainly families. HTH

mumda · 24/08/2025 12:04

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 24/08/2025 10:47

Asylum seekers.

The last government allowed a huge backlog of asylum claims to build up which meant additional housing was needed.

Economic migrants.

Many of the non-channel route people are health migrants.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/06/21/asylum-seekers-allowed-stay-uk-high-blood-pressure/

If you want to the NHS to be the World health service then you'll have to fund it. I'm out of money.

dynamiccactus · 24/08/2025 12:04

A significant number of the illegal migrants are Afghans - why the heck are they are not bringing the women with them. They can't even get food if their menfolk leave them alone because they aren't allowed to go out! The men will do just fine once here but the women they leave at home will die. And even if they don't, they will have a truly miserable time.

However, although I think most of us would be very happy to accept Afghan women here, but we can't take all of them either.

Anyway there are no easy solutions. But providing a route for people to apply to come here legally would be a start.

Liverpool2025 · 24/08/2025 12:04

Goldengirl123 · 24/08/2025 12:02

I honestly wasn’t trying to provoke racist posts. I really did just want other peoples opinions. Can’t we just have a normal debate without people getting personal?

Yes I really do fund raising for various charities. On my own!

Goldengirl isn’t because I think I am golden but because I am in my golden years

I made a mistake saying illegal immigranrs instead of asylum seekers. I do apologise

I have no problem with the Ukrainian women & children coming over as they have come over legally. Nothing to do with race or religion

You realise there's a terrible civil war leading to millions of deaths of Sudan.

OP. Are you ok with Sudanese fleeing war or not?

SquishedMallow · 24/08/2025 12:05

Bambamhoohoo · 24/08/2025 12:03

so when war breaks out and the island of Ireland is faced with an influx of 60million Brits…… they just take us too do they?

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No! I expect they'll naturally and understandably have something to say about it !!!! (Like us at the moment with our catastrophic influx ) And we're not even the nearest country are we ?.....

wuminzo · 24/08/2025 12:05

The UK spends around £10 -15 BILLION per annum on Overseas Foreign Aid for developing countries.

I often wonder where that money goes, since this huge sum is in addition to every other country that contributes to this fund, the total must be mind boggling. I don't want to sound sceptical, but I can't help it - so if all that money is going to the very countries from which asylum seekers are arriving, why are things not improving for them?

The solution to asylum seekers may be twofold and could take some considerable time. Tackle human trafficking, and make sure Foreign Aid contributions are being used to improve the lives of people who feel they have to leave the beneficiary countries.

OneAlertOliveFinch · 24/08/2025 12:06

whatasillygoose · 24/08/2025 12:01

What a great idea. Actually I already have and not just to the acceptable, white Ukrainian families.

I can send you some links about how to do this if you’d like.

Ah yes. I believe everything on the Internet. Did you know I host 3 Ukrainian families, volunteer at my local food bank and have a room full of puppies for orphaned children to play with? :^)

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