I find this to be such a hugely ignorant comment and one that demonstrates the complete lack of logical thought and understanding that goes into this issue.
If you were living with your family in a country where you were at daily risk of death through war, famine, religious persecution etc. You had extremely limited means and were desperate for a solution for your family. Would you scrape together any money you could get hold of , which of these would you send:
- your teenage daughter
- ypur young twenties son
- ypur elderly father
- your whole family including children
Bearing in mind the journey will include smuggling yourself in using dangerous transport routes, sleeping rough and in refugee camps, affiliating yourself with strangers and hoping they can be trusted.
I would not want to send a single daughter, let’s be honest the chances of her making it without being physically or sexually assaulted are slim, I would not want to send an elderly or infirm family member as they would be likely to struggle, so yes the best choice is the single male relative in his 20s.