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What’s the most annoying thing people do in supermarkets?

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purpledaze24 · 16/08/2025 10:18

LIGHTHEARTED. Don’t need any “well you should keep your child on a leash in the supermarket” responses 🤣

When I’m in the supermarket with my 4 yo he usually walks beside me while I push the trolley. Sometimes he does a little run in front of the trolley. I’ve noticed when he does this, sometimes someone further down the aisle will freeze and do this passive aggressive look as if to say, “well which way are you going, make up your mind!” He is nowhere near them and not affecting the direction they’re going in whatsoever! I’m talking 20+ feet away. Sometimes it’s this look of faux panic on their face as if they’ve just seen a bus that‘s about to hit them. He’s not a toddler and is fully aware of where he’s going but it’s like they think he’s going to roll into a ball like sonic the hedgehog, roll down the aisle and smash into their trolley. It’s so annoying!

Anywaaay, got me thinking, what’s the most annoying thing people do in supermarkets?

OP posts:
JadeSeahorse · 16/08/2025 16:22

CalzoneOnLegs · 16/08/2025 16:17

@JadeSeahorse whistling makes me almost want to cry it really affects me and it’s ALWAYS men, and always sporadic tuneless bursts 😡😡😡 the other day there was a whistler in Aldi who then proceeded to start bouncing one of the big beach balls on the shop floor. I felt sorry for his wife

Oh God, if I had been there the death stare would have been so bad he would have incinerated on the spot. 😳🔥👹🤬

Glitchymn1 · 16/08/2025 16:23

People placing their trolley alongside the produce so nobody can get to it until they’ve moved, which seems to take ages.
Magical options at the checkouts so they take bloody ages to pay and leave.

landano · 16/08/2025 17:11

GleisZwei · 16/08/2025 15:48

Surely it's personal choice though - getting annoyed by others making different choices, which are by no means unreasonable, seems pointless imho.

This whole thread is about the personal choices others make 🤣

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GleisZwei · 16/08/2025 17:13

landano · 16/08/2025 17:11

This whole thread is about the personal choices others make 🤣

It's more about personal choices that make life harder for others and/or are stupid/unsafe - entering a pin number isn't exactly one of those. 🤣

Gettingbysomehow · 16/08/2025 17:14

Walk into me like I don't exist. I went into the supermarket once dressed as a vampire right before a fancy dress party and still they walked into me. Maybe a lit Xmas tree next time and see if that works.

mathanxiety · 16/08/2025 17:18

Sorry, but people who let their small children run a little ahead of their trollies is a problem. A child's head/ eyes/ nose/ mouth are going to take the brunt of a collision with a trolley. Nobody wants to hurt your child and not everyone has the ability to maneuver a trolley around a small person whose movements are not necessarily going to be predictable. This is without the added wrinkle of a trolley with a wonky wheel that has a mind of its own. Please keep your child safely at your side. The supermarket isn't a place for running ahead or for small children to be allowed to make their own way up the aisles when there are others with hefty trollies using the same space.

Apart from that, adults who park a trolley in a stupid spot and block access to shelves or a refrigerated section, and adults who block aisles with their trollies while they have a good catch-up together.

iamnotalemon · 16/08/2025 17:23

People who eat or drink things before paying for it.

mathanxiety · 16/08/2025 17:34

PInkyStarfish · 16/08/2025 12:49

Men and women, usually women it has to be said, who are staring at a shelf where there are products of more than one variety and speaking to someone on the phone loudly in a whining voice,

‘They haven’t got cheese and onion, they’ve got cheese and tomato or just cheese on it’s own…..’

Then they proceed to block that area by swivelling their head and eyes all over the shelf as if the cheese and onion is going to magically appear!

I find it quite shocking that they can’t make their own decisions about which product to buy and actually have to phone someone.

It’s never over anything important such as a specific component, it’s always over something like what flavour yoghurt or snacks and they spend ages wondering what to do when faced with a product not being available!

I was behind one such pathetic woman once who was having a near breakdown because they didn’t have the fabric conditioner she usually buys so she was opening all the others and giving a running commentary to the person on the other end of the phone a description of the fragrance!

We have become a nation of indecisive people who can’t think for themselves and it’s so irritating when they clog up the aisles.

This sounds like an adult daughter of a very particular elderly parent who wants very specific items, sizes, flavours, or scents and whose nose would be put seriously out of joint if the shopper made executive decisions on the spot. Been there, done that.
Or possibly a carer doing a shop for a client.

Don't knock it til you've tried it...

placemats · 16/08/2025 17:34

R0ckandHardPlace · 16/08/2025 16:12

Or the opposite, the rude people like the couple in Sainsbury’s yesterday, who blocked the entire fish section while they did a bloody scientific study of every single piece of fish on display. I stood behind, patiently waiting to duck in and quickly grab a pack of smoked salmon. The husband had seen me, and after a couple of minutes gave his wife a nod to indicate I was waiting. She looked behind at me, scowled and continued her detailed perusal. Unbelievable.

That's not what I was describing in my original post. Simply put I've just got there before someone else, yet they feel the need to barge in. I'm here and I know what I'm looking for. Wait your turn.

Mostly get my shopping delivered, so apologies for those who need an online shop quickly, I've probably taken your slot - though it's always the cheapest one.

Juliejuly · 16/08/2025 17:46

I just wish supermarkets would bring back packers, like in the olden days of the early 2000s.
I’m sure it would improve customer flow, and entice customers in.
Kids running around, I don’t mind really but I’d probably stop still if I thought they could bump into me. And I like seeing parents chatting away to their children, especially as so many are probably working full time and it’s become a little bit of family time.

gamerchick · 16/08/2025 17:52

iamnotalemon · 16/08/2025 17:23

People who eat or drink things before paying for it.

Apparently on Mumsnet it's perfectly ok to do that, as well as feed snacks to kids to shut them up, before paying for them.

landano · 16/08/2025 17:57

GleisZwei · 16/08/2025 17:13

It's more about personal choices that make life harder for others and/or are stupid/unsafe - entering a pin number isn't exactly one of those. 🤣

You must have missed the ‘lighthearted’ bit.

Faffing about when you can just tap is an eye roll for me.

HelpMeGetThrough · 16/08/2025 18:00

Woman walking at a snails pace in front of me in the alcohol aisle. Speed up woman, I need booze!!!

admittedly, she did look about 145.

Moii · 16/08/2025 18:09

Kids in the shopping part of the trolley with shoes where your food goes, gross!!

Moii · 16/08/2025 18:14

MKDex · 16/08/2025 11:26

Oh and I know IABU but....
Posh people in the reduced section. You just know its so they can bargain brag later, but there will be someone else who really needs that reduction

Posh people can be skint, posh doesn't mean rich and rich doesn't mean posh, is Rooney posh?

Snakebite61 · 16/08/2025 18:16

purpledaze24 · 16/08/2025 10:18

LIGHTHEARTED. Don’t need any “well you should keep your child on a leash in the supermarket” responses 🤣

When I’m in the supermarket with my 4 yo he usually walks beside me while I push the trolley. Sometimes he does a little run in front of the trolley. I’ve noticed when he does this, sometimes someone further down the aisle will freeze and do this passive aggressive look as if to say, “well which way are you going, make up your mind!” He is nowhere near them and not affecting the direction they’re going in whatsoever! I’m talking 20+ feet away. Sometimes it’s this look of faux panic on their face as if they’ve just seen a bus that‘s about to hit them. He’s not a toddler and is fully aware of where he’s going but it’s like they think he’s going to roll into a ball like sonic the hedgehog, roll down the aisle and smash into their trolley. It’s so annoying!

Anywaaay, got me thinking, what’s the most annoying thing people do in supermarkets?

Taking a shopping trolley of stuff through self checkout. Being slow on self checkout.

JohnTheRevelator · 16/08/2025 18:18

Groups of people standing chatting in the middle of the aisles, and getting in everyone's way. People who walk in front of you and stop dead when you're looking at something on a shelf. People who put all their stuff through the checkout then spend 5 minutes looking for their purse or wallet. People who let their kids whizz around supermarkets on scooters. It's a shop,not a bloody playground!

ToadRage · 16/08/2025 18:21

My husband always used to get super annoyed about elderly/retired people shopping on a Saturday. His reason was they have all week to do it so they should do it on a weekday rather than adding to the crowds of working people who can only shop on a Saturday. He took his own advice, now neither of us work on a Friday we shop on a Friday.

JustWantsSomeSleep · 16/08/2025 18:25

For some reason seeing people - seems to be really common - haunched over pushing their trollies with their elbows. Why?!

Bernardo1 · 16/08/2025 18:26

whackamole666 · 16/08/2025 10:52

People who leave their trolley at the checkout then go back for more shopping ... I don't mean if they've just forgotten toothpaste ...... but people who carry on shopping and dropping into the trolley and going back for more.

I think it's a french thing ....

This.

BuggersMuddle · 16/08/2025 18:39

Free range toddlers (as well as being annoying, I worry they'll get hurt).

People who turn up mob-handed like they're there for a day out.

Groups of people dithering to chat / dithering in front of popular items & preventing other folks accessing them.

The single most annoying family I have ever seen had all of the above and it was also clear that at least one of the parents and both teens had stinking colds at best. (This was when a lot of people were still taking precautions due to high levels of Covid btw.)

Can't understand the thinking whatsoever, but then I dislike shopping so can't imagine anything worse than doing it with 2 grumpy ill teens and a free range toddler while also unwell. Madness!

tommyhoundmum · 16/08/2025 18:42

Stand with their arms folded in the way or ditto hands on hips

Pedallleur · 16/08/2025 18:56

Moii · 16/08/2025 18:14

Posh people can be skint, posh doesn't mean rich and rich doesn't mean posh, is Rooney posh?

Is that you Vardey? Remember, chat shit get banged!!

Also people using trolleys to barricade the reduced items section so they can get dibs on whatever is in there!

GleisZwei · 16/08/2025 19:06

landano · 16/08/2025 17:57

You must have missed the ‘lighthearted’ bit.

Faffing about when you can just tap is an eye roll for me.

No, I didn't miss anything.
Entering a pin also isn't 'faffing about'.

GleisZwei · 16/08/2025 19:07

Snakebite61 · 16/08/2025 18:16

Taking a shopping trolley of stuff through self checkout. Being slow on self checkout.

Our self checkouts allow trolleys - perhaps if they opened more tills people wouldn't end up using self service.