I used to get on really well with a work colleague and we became friends out of work too
She's always pleading poverty,can't afford a pint of milk but can afford all her 'wants'
Anyway,she had a dog (that she claimed she couldn't afford to feed) and then fancied a cat so bought herself a kitten
Her mum said she'd pay for friend to go with her to see family but the pets couldn't come (this was a few years ago)
So she asked if I'd have the dog and I said yes as he's lovely and we enjoy having him
I said I'd buy his food and no money was to be exchanged-this was a favour (she'd found someone else to deal with the cat)
We picked him up,had him and dropped him off-all good
Fast forward the following year and she asked if we'd have him again-no problem
The year after,my adult ds had brought his dog (same breed) to visit us and she was admiring his dogs harness and lead that he'd bought from the posh and bloody expensive pet shop near my work
She asked if we'd have him again,we where delighted and had him for the 10 days she was away
We dropped him off and she was really off with us-i couldn't put my finger on why
I soon found out-she'd been going around everyone she knew,telling them that not only had we saved her a few hundred pounds in doggy care and fed him on our own money,but we hadn't bought him the harness and lead that ds's dog had and that her dog 'deserved it'
She fully expected me to dump almost £100 on an overpriced harness and lead to replace the shabby,falling apart and smelly one he had
I laughed and told dp we where never having him again (which is gutting as we do love having him)
Her face when she told me I was having the dog the first week of September (this was last week) and I said it was best not as it caused friction last time had to be seen to be believed
She can pay for her doggy care AND a new harness all by herself cos I'm not doing it!