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Witches - spell help

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lastminutetrip · 14/08/2025 11:09

Hey, looking for some advice as in all the years of spell work I have never had this happen before.

i did a spell on the full moon, all very well intentioned, to help me save money. I lit a candle in a special place to me, set my intention, and the candle blew out quite quickly. It was near a window, so I took it to mean spell completed ie wish made.

i took the candle home and lit it again later on the lionsgate portal night to strengthen my resolve. The wax kind of dripped on to my finger and burned me a lot. I’ve never had that happen before. I looked it up and some say it’s a warning (what can it be warning me about, it’s literally just to make me save money 😂) or - very differing view - the spell needed some kind of karmic or energy payment from me, and I “paid” with the burn to add strength and resolve to the spell.

any thoughts? I’ve done this a long time and never cast bad or ill intentioned spells so I don’t know what this was about! Has someone hexed me?

blessed be x

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GAJLY · 14/08/2025 13:57

Not really sure why some people on here are so offended by someone enjoying spellwork?! I would never be so rude to someone just because they want to set good intentions in their life with a few spells. It's good to set intentions out loud, they have more chance of happening (pending on our karmic path). Lots of people are deeply religious and they cannot all be right, but I'm not going to question something that makes someone feel happy.

Sweetpea333 · 14/08/2025 13:58

What utter twaddle!

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:59

Heresmycontroversialopinion · 14/08/2025 13:17

My only experience of witches is watching Charmed. I thought witches couldn't cast spells for their own gain. Can't you witches light a candle and turn Trump into a fish or something useful?

No. Don’t be silly. Rtft.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Whattodo1610 · 14/08/2025 14:00

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:57

Sure, bye bye then and enjoy your afternoon.

I will thanks .. unless of course, witches have cast a spell on me 🤔

Whattodo1610 · 14/08/2025 14:02

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:59

No. Don’t be silly. Rtft.

Yes @Heresmycontroversialopinion stop being silly .. said by someone who believes casting spells actually works outside Harry Potter universe 😉

IAmQuiteNiceActually · 14/08/2025 14:03

Crikey OP you're brave posting this in Chat! It probably doesn't mean anything much....I wouldn't worry about it.

I'd recommend a book called Becoming Rich by Genevieve Davis. It's manifestation with action.. ie if you take action, the universe will help you along. (Yes I see the eye rolls and don't care.). All her books are amazing, particularly Becoming Genevieve.

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:05

@Heresmycontroversialopinion My only experience of mice is watching Tom
and Jerry.

I would not however be surprised if it turned out that mice do not frequently outwit cats and play cruel tricks on them.

Please try to recognise that entertainment shows may exaggerate, misrepresent or entirely invent things in the name of entertainment.

C8H10N4O2 · 14/08/2025 14:06

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:39

Ahhh I see. So you believe in the wisdom passed down to you in simplified form by the scientific community at a point in time in history, that’s fine.

I’m happy to let you have this belief because it comforts you in an uncertain world. It allows you to feel a measure of control - it gives meaning to your actions and reaction, a way to interpret the word around you.

I personally don’t believe it is that simple. I don’t believe that this stuff about being scared of sabre tooth tigers is “the whole truth”. I believe there is more to understand about the brain and about evolutionary biology. I believe that as a layperson reading an article in a scientific journal, probably am not seeing “the whole picture”. I’m happy to live with the uncertainty.

There are some entirely unshakeable scientific “truths”. But a lot of the rest is uncertain. We accept the current “truth” . We accept things we are told, that we haven’t experienced or researched. We modify our beliefs when the scientists come along and say, “hey guys you know that thing we told you for the last few decades, well guess what something incredible we have tweaked that belief based on new research”. We accept that wisdom, like people used to accept the Truth of the bible as interpreted by their churches and clergy.

We are all in search of truth and meaning.

You can have your truth. Please may I have mine?

Oh for goodness sake its not “wisdom passed down in simplified form” its gathering of identifiable evidence and distinguishing between clear evidence of fact and indicative evidence with a probability (eg evolutionary biology is a scientific field of study and evolutionary psychology is largely bollocks which often confuses the two).

If you and others find that a hobby/belief system gives you a social life, community and is useful to structure your ethical framework then great - use it. Core ethical values/rules in most faiths distill down the same way, just in different packages. If a candle helps you concentrate, relax or focus on addressing changes you wish to make - again fine, use it.

When you go past that and start ascribing supernatural interventions to common natural phenomena (candle drips, window draughts) and worry about them, seeking “explanations” on social media you have taken it past a social value and harmless fun into harmful superstition.

“What does it meeeeannnn” time would be better spent as “get out the spreadsheet and check the bills” or even “start cutting the coupons”.

WillYouShutUp · 14/08/2025 14:07

Juniperberry55 · 14/08/2025 13:46

This whole thread reminds me of the tim minchin storm song/beat poem. Feel like some of the people in this thread would enjoy it. Look it up on YouTube.

I just looked it up and you’re right, i did enjoy it. Thank you

TheyCallMeStacey · 14/08/2025 14:07

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:39

Ahhh I see. So you believe in the wisdom passed down to you in simplified form by the scientific community at a point in time in history, that’s fine.

I’m happy to let you have this belief because it comforts you in an uncertain world. It allows you to feel a measure of control - it gives meaning to your actions and reaction, a way to interpret the word around you.

I personally don’t believe it is that simple. I don’t believe that this stuff about being scared of sabre tooth tigers is “the whole truth”. I believe there is more to understand about the brain and about evolutionary biology. I believe that as a layperson reading an article in a scientific journal, probably am not seeing “the whole picture”. I’m happy to live with the uncertainty.

There are some entirely unshakeable scientific “truths”. But a lot of the rest is uncertain. We accept the current “truth” . We accept things we are told, that we haven’t experienced or researched. We modify our beliefs when the scientists come along and say, “hey guys you know that thing we told you for the last few decades, well guess what something incredible we have tweaked that belief based on new research”. We accept that wisdom, like people used to accept the Truth of the bible as interpreted by their churches and clergy.

We are all in search of truth and meaning.

You can have your truth. Please may I have mine?

Please stop it’s embarrassing

NeverDropYourMooncup · 14/08/2025 14:10

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:39

Ahhh I see. So you believe in the wisdom passed down to you in simplified form by the scientific community at a point in time in history, that’s fine.

I’m happy to let you have this belief because it comforts you in an uncertain world. It allows you to feel a measure of control - it gives meaning to your actions and reaction, a way to interpret the word around you.

I personally don’t believe it is that simple. I don’t believe that this stuff about being scared of sabre tooth tigers is “the whole truth”. I believe there is more to understand about the brain and about evolutionary biology. I believe that as a layperson reading an article in a scientific journal, probably am not seeing “the whole picture”. I’m happy to live with the uncertainty.

There are some entirely unshakeable scientific “truths”. But a lot of the rest is uncertain. We accept the current “truth” . We accept things we are told, that we haven’t experienced or researched. We modify our beliefs when the scientists come along and say, “hey guys you know that thing we told you for the last few decades, well guess what something incredible we have tweaked that belief based on new research”. We accept that wisdom, like people used to accept the Truth of the bible as interpreted by their churches and clergy.

We are all in search of truth and meaning.

You can have your truth. Please may I have mine?

Try walking straight across the path of a full size fossil reconstruction of a sabre toothed cat in a dimly lit part of a museum - see what your nervous system does for you even though your 21st century brain, social constructs, education and the eyes in your head all acknowledge that it's absolutely impossible for it to be a threat. Don't know if it's still there, but it was downstairs at the Horniman Museum.

You'll feel the instincts and biochemical responses that have kept humans alive for millennia affecting your body, not cheng qi and sha qi.

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:11

Whattodo1610 · 14/08/2025 14:02

Yes @Heresmycontroversialopinion stop being silly .. said by someone who believes casting spells actually works outside Harry Potter universe 😉

This made me laugh! My little boy dreamed that he was Harry Potter last night.

I don’t think I have said ANYWHERE that I believe casting spells “works” in the way you mean it. What I believe is that the connections between humans and the natural world are capable of being more complex and more powerful than most of us assume. And I absolutely believe that the belief itself is what is critically important - the OP’s “spell” was asking for strength to change a personal behaviour. There is no reason at all that shouldn’t “work” if she believes it.

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:16

@NeverDropYourMooncup What really?! 😂😂😂

So are you ruling out the possibility that a lifetime of social conditioning (being told that big cats with claws and big teeth are scary and will attack you) couldn’t have a part to play in this?

Whattodo1610 · 14/08/2025 14:19

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:11

This made me laugh! My little boy dreamed that he was Harry Potter last night.

I don’t think I have said ANYWHERE that I believe casting spells “works” in the way you mean it. What I believe is that the connections between humans and the natural world are capable of being more complex and more powerful than most of us assume. And I absolutely believe that the belief itself is what is critically important - the OP’s “spell” was asking for strength to change a personal behaviour. There is no reason at all that shouldn’t “work” if she believes it.

Honestly, I’m live and let live. I just genuinely can’t understand how anyone can believe in this stuff, truly believe that lighting a candle and what happens to it, is actually meaningful in any way. OP wants to save money - well just save, don’t light a candle about it 🤷‍♀️
❤️ to your little boy .. bet he was gutted when he woke up 🧙

UnctuousUnicorns · 14/08/2025 14:22

lastminutetrip · 14/08/2025 12:07

It is whatever you want it to be. The message is yours to take. I always take a single magpie as good luck even though the rhyme (which someone will tell me in a moment they’ve never heard and no one else on the planet ever heard and it’s all a part of my mental illness) says it’s one for sorrow: because think of all the days you don’t see one 🥹

This reminds me of something my nan told me when we were chatting. My nan died in 1987, so this was a long time ago. Anyway, there was a neighbour that Nan was very good friends with. Nan's friend once said to her, "if I go before you, Annie, I'll come back as a white cat". Years later Nan's friend did pass away, and a short time after, Nan was sitting in her living room. It was a sunny day, so the front door was open, terraced house where the front door opened directly onto the street. A white cat walked in and promptly sat on a chair in the living room, looked at Nan for a bit, then walked back out again. Nan said that she had never before or since had a cat or any animal do that. I always remember that story. My nan was as honest as the day so I know she wouldn't have made it up.

Another time I had been visiting the grave of someone who means a lot to me. Afterwards I was heading for the bus station to get my bus back home. Beforehand, I'd been strolling along by the river and had left it a bit late, so I was rushing and getting a bit flustered. An elderly woman with shopping bags stopped in front of me, blocking my path, so I was like, in my head, thinking, "Get out of my way, old lady; I'm going to miss my bus!", and getting even more bothered. Just then a feather dropped down right in front of me. It made me go "Oh!" and take stock. I did catch my bus okay in the end, and made sure I timed things better in future.

I don't care if anyone pooh poohs the above, I still remember it years later.

RimTimTagiDim · 14/08/2025 14:27

BunniB · 14/08/2025 13:51

Well actually my belief is that EVERYTHING I think is truth is belief. But I was trying to talk @IHateWasps language, because most people think some things are factually true (maybe things like gravity or physical existence).

It’s getting a bit philosophical.

But go on then, I’ll play. Give me some beliefs that you consider are not “woo”!

Why not just say "Actually yes, that was a leap. I should have said that IHateWasps doesn't have any religious or spiritual beliefs."

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 14/08/2025 14:29

This thread is cracking fun.

I don’t go onto witchcraft threads in Philosophy/Religion because they’re too stupid for words and, out of courtesy, because if like-minded people want to advocate burning their houses down by lighting sage or summon ‘forces’ by dancing naked by the washing line, that’s their business.

But once they jump the paddock and appear on Chat, game on.

That said, I did see a black cat on the street recently. So I did an incantation on the spot, with a small animal sacrifice, for forgiveness from bad energy. I made sure I was quite loud so the universe and Gaia could hear me.

The police later said I was upsetting the neighbour’s kids. As far as I’m concerned it’s my human right to worship but they still gave me a public order offence warning. Outrageous!

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:29

@C8H10N4O2 there’s a lack of scientific consensus regarding evolutionary biology with some arguing that humans stopped evolving in the last 10,000 years and others arguing evolution sped up 100 times in that timespan.
I find someone telling me in a 2 day course about stress in office life, that my stress is all to do with the amygdala and hormones very fascinating. And useful. But a complete answer? No.

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:31

RimTimTagiDim · 14/08/2025 14:27

Why not just say "Actually yes, that was a leap. I should have said that IHateWasps doesn't have any religious or spiritual beliefs."

Well, because you offered to spell it out for me… (no pun intended).

I thought I might challenge my own thought process. Perhaps not a popular concept on this thread.

UnctuousUnicorns · 14/08/2025 14:32

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 14/08/2025 14:29

This thread is cracking fun.

I don’t go onto witchcraft threads in Philosophy/Religion because they’re too stupid for words and, out of courtesy, because if like-minded people want to advocate burning their houses down by lighting sage or summon ‘forces’ by dancing naked by the washing line, that’s their business.

But once they jump the paddock and appear on Chat, game on.

That said, I did see a black cat on the street recently. So I did an incantation on the spot, with a small animal sacrifice, for forgiveness from bad energy. I made sure I was quite loud so the universe and Gaia could hear me.

The police later said I was upsetting the neighbour’s kids. As far as I’m concerned it’s my human right to worship but they still gave me a public order offence warning. Outrageous!

Oh gosh, you're so witty, original and hilarious!

RimTimTagiDim · 14/08/2025 14:33

BunniB · 14/08/2025 14:31

Well, because you offered to spell it out for me… (no pun intended).

I thought I might challenge my own thought process. Perhaps not a popular concept on this thread.

Come on, be honest. You aren't interested in challenging your thought processes.

PInkyStarfish · 14/08/2025 14:34

Save money by not buying candles, lighters/matches as they are not necessities.

Ownerofbagpuss · 14/08/2025 14:34

Lots of people may have beliefs we don’t share, however a respect that these beliefs may bring them comfort or strength should always be respected. As long as no one is trying to force their beliefs/disbeliefs on me, and not harming anyone, I don’t mind what people believe. Modern witchcraft is a nature based spirituality I believe, and most people I’ve met who are into this are lovely gentle folk with a respect for the planet and their beliefs are no more unbelievable than any other religious group.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 14/08/2025 14:36

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