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Mandatory vaccinations to access nursery and school?

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rickyrickygrimes · 26/07/2025 07:46

I’m British but have lived in France since my youngest was 5 months old. Both my children had to have a full programme of vaccinations (I think it’s 11 in total) before starting nursery / school. I’m surprised to find out that there aren’t any mandatory vaccinations for children going into a group setting here in the UK and wondered how that would go down if it was required? Especially now that there seen to be rising numbers of children are not being vaccinated against serious illnesses such as measles.

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HappilyUrbanTrimmer · 26/07/2025 12:33

@TheNightingalesStarling I think that everyone should have to attend an appointment even if to just officially refuse, maybe with an official declaration you understand the risks of not vaccinating.

That sounds sensible to me. People should be free to opt out, but opting out should not be any less hassle than opting in so attending each required session at the right time should be mandatory, unless there is an already-diagnosed issue with vaccine allergies.

Our cat had a massive near-fatal allergic reaction to her 2nd set of vaccinations. The nornal policy wording for her health insurance says that the policy isn't valid if she doesn't have her annual vaccine boosters, but because of her medical history we have a written agreement that so long as she has an annual health checkup she is covered. Something similar for humans should be possible.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 12:38

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:22

your choice ( this excludes those who shouldn’t vaccinate for whatever because it’s not a choice then ) not to vaccinate against measles makes you partially responsible for the death of a child with measles

Under this logic, anyone who didn't fully isolate during the pandemic is partially responsible for the death of vulnerable people with COVID. I believe that, but no one wants to admit it.

I'm not arguing against the science, I'm arguing the obnoxious and arrogant way @MissScarletInTheBallroom is treating other people. They've resorted to bullying their way through a debate, and as such, has lost any credibility.

The key to increasing vaccination uptake is not through belligerence and superiority.

That is the worst logic I've ever heard.

Taking the simple step of having a long established vaccination against preventable illnesses doesn't cause the economy to ground to a halt and people to die for other reasons, which is what would have happened if everyone had completely isolated during COVID.

Sometimes society doesn't have the time, the patience or the resources to teach stupid people not to be stupid.

Sometimes it's quicker and more effective to just say, "OK, no vaccination, no nursery funding, no child benefit, no passport."

Petitchat · 26/07/2025 12:39

I asked if anyone on this thread knew someone who had suffered permanent brain damage from a vaccine?

Unsurprisingly, it seems no one does.

Hey ho, carry on.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 12:40

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:27

Said every despot in history.

'Wrong' choice and 'right' choice is just code for 'i am superior and everyone should agree with me'

Sometimes there is an obviously right choice and a wrong one. This is one of those times. I don't care what you think.

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:43

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 26/07/2025 12:32

You got it with the second sentence.

People who vaccinate their children are superior to anti-vaxxers. Vaccination is right and anti-vaxxers are wrong. 👍

You let me know when that attitude starts to be effectual in raising the vaccination rates.

jesihar · 26/07/2025 12:45

I agree OP

chosing not to vaccinated but wishing to send your child into an area where risk of exposure and infection is high. Makes little sense. Herd immunity only works where the majority are vaccinated. So in such a scenario, those who could not be vaccinated would be around only those who had been.

anyone else would not be able to access schools, nurseries. They would however, still get medical treatment when their child got sick.

good fiction book, the herd. Around parenting differences on vaccines and consequences.

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:45

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 12:40

Sometimes there is an obviously right choice and a wrong one. This is one of those times. I don't care what you think.

I imagine you stamped your feet when you said that.

sleepwouldbenice · 26/07/2025 12:45

I think it depends on which vaccines are deemed mandatory. Some are very much more effective than others. And the risks associated with the vaccine / non vaccine can vary by ages etc
Also i would then want to know the carrot has been extensively used. Education, discussion, addressing fears counteracting misinformation
But within these important contexts I would then support compulsory programmes/ exclusions

Perzival · 26/07/2025 12:46

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 09:13

Yes but when a child is punished for choices other parents have made (a child who cannot be vaccinated being punished for the choices anti vaxxers have made) there is no way to put pressure on the people with the power to do something about it, because it's not their child who is affected.

If they see their own families negatively affected by their selfish choice not to vaccinate, they might do better.

Perhaps being up to date with vaccinations could be a condition to the issuing of a passport. No foreign holidays for families who don't vaccinate their kids.

We could have a law that says that children over 11 can make their own choice about whether to be vaccinated and don't need parental consent, so that when they're old enough to have the opportunity to go on school trips abroad, they can take matters into their own hands if they don't want to miss out.

Edited

I'm not anti vacc (ex cabin crew and have had more than I can count). My ds1 is fully vaccinated and so is my husband. Ds2 isn't. He has severe autism and will need a general anaesthetic to get caught up.

We have had issues getting travel insurance. There is a clause in the majority of policies that states you are not covered if you haven't had all nhs recommended vaccines or vaccines that have been offered by the nhs inc covid. We found one insurer that would insure providing the paediatrician wrote a letter saying he was exempt due to his autism and severe learning disability.

I've found most people aren't aware of the clause when discussing it irl. In theory an insurance company could use it to void a claim as breaking the contract.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 12:51

Perzival · 26/07/2025 12:46

I'm not anti vacc (ex cabin crew and have had more than I can count). My ds1 is fully vaccinated and so is my husband. Ds2 isn't. He has severe autism and will need a general anaesthetic to get caught up.

We have had issues getting travel insurance. There is a clause in the majority of policies that states you are not covered if you haven't had all nhs recommended vaccines or vaccines that have been offered by the nhs inc covid. We found one insurer that would insure providing the paediatrician wrote a letter saying he was exempt due to his autism and severe learning disability.

I've found most people aren't aware of the clause when discussing it irl. In theory an insurance company could use it to void a claim as breaking the contract.

Thanks for this, I had no idea about this and it needs to be more widely publicised.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 12:51

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:45

I imagine you stamped your feet when you said that.

I imagine you imagine a lot of things.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 26/07/2025 12:56

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:43

You let me know when that attitude starts to be effectual in raising the vaccination rates.

Vaccination rates go up splendidly when there’s an outbreak. Anti-vaxxers are down the jab clinic with their kids faster than you can say “tin foil hat”.

What I propose would do the same without the misery of the outbreaks.

Perzival · 26/07/2025 12:57

Petitchat · 26/07/2025 12:39

I asked if anyone on this thread knew someone who had suffered permanent brain damage from a vaccine?

Unsurprisingly, it seems no one does.

Hey ho, carry on.

Encephalitis/ encephalopathy is listed as a (rare) side effect of many vaccines. The likelihood is about one in a million (mmr for example but is a listed side effect in many vaccines) but if you or your child is that one....... vaccines can cause serious damage to some people which is why there is a vaccine damage compensation scheme in the uk. It happens rarely and is difficult to prove but it does happen.

I'm not anti vacc but just pointing out that it does happen in rare circumstances and is a listed side effect on many vaccines.

needtostopnamechanging · 26/07/2025 12:58

No wrong and right isn’t the same as I am superior

but there does seem to be a correlation between a superior attitude , being wrong and the accusing others of being superior. Interesting to watch

it’s like I have to get the accusation of superiority out quickly to try and shut the people up who I disagree with because there is no way I can argue my case from logic so I have to resort to emotion

Moonface12 · 26/07/2025 12:59

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 12:51

I imagine you imagine a lot of things.

Do you? Just the things you've been called out for? Or the things I agree with you on as well?

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 26/07/2025 13:01

Petitchat · 26/07/2025 12:39

I asked if anyone on this thread knew someone who had suffered permanent brain damage from a vaccine?

Unsurprisingly, it seems no one does.

Hey ho, carry on.

Yes, surprising on a MN vacc thread. Usually the anti-vaxxers have many, many friends with vaccine damaged children. Despite the impossibility of this.

Perhaps the anti-vaxxers are taking a new line, based only on ‘high-minded’ principles of autonomy and freedom.

ExploringDreams · 26/07/2025 13:08

I’m not anti vax. My dc are vaccinated.
I don’t think children should be denied an education because parents decided not to vax them.
They made a choice that they felt was right, whatever their reasons.
You may as well say people who’ve never paid tax shouldn’t be able to access education for their dc unless they have a certified reason.

soupyspoon · 26/07/2025 13:10

They wouldnt be denied an education. They would be denied a state education provided for by the tax payer who has a say in who their children mix with and what risks are present and as other posters have said, generally what is the right thing to do.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 26/07/2025 13:12

PersephoneParlormaid · 26/07/2025 07:47

It against their human rights, it won’t happen in this country.

Well it has actually ... all health care professionals had to have covid jabs or they could not carry on practicing or training.

Alondra · 26/07/2025 13:16

TheNightingalesStarling · 26/07/2025 08:14

Also, mandatory vaccination will limit the access of some vulnerable children to education. They need to kearn ration science and skills from qualified professionals not selected facts from their parents home education.

(Not all home edders!)

Mandatory vaccination doesn't limit access to childcare and schools for vulnerable children. If they can't be vaccinated, they'll have a medical exception and will be protected by the rest of school mates who have been vaccinated.

It's how vaccination works. Protect the majority so the minority that can't be vaccinated also get the benefit.

Morgenrot25 · 26/07/2025 13:17

worstofbothworlds · 26/07/2025 12:00

There is a genuine medical reason. If not enough people get them then children will die.

Eh?
I'm talking about certain conditions where actual medical professionals recommend later, or no, vaccination.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 13:51

Perzival · 26/07/2025 12:57

Encephalitis/ encephalopathy is listed as a (rare) side effect of many vaccines. The likelihood is about one in a million (mmr for example but is a listed side effect in many vaccines) but if you or your child is that one....... vaccines can cause serious damage to some people which is why there is a vaccine damage compensation scheme in the uk. It happens rarely and is difficult to prove but it does happen.

I'm not anti vacc but just pointing out that it does happen in rare circumstances and is a listed side effect on many vaccines.

It's a much more common outcome of catching measles.

SchoolDilemma17 · 26/07/2025 13:52

Some childminders don’t accept un vaccinated children.
mine doesn’t for example.

Also the law in Italy (you can’t go to state pre-school or school if not vaccinated).

blacksax · 26/07/2025 13:58

Vaccinations should be mandatory unless a doctor have identified a specific medical reason why someone should not be given a particular vaccine.

dynamiccactus · 26/07/2025 14:01

ThejoyofNC · 26/07/2025 07:53

You want to give the government the power to deny you tax payer funded services, based on their medical decisions? Absolutely not.

This. Also, it's not a good idea to push those children away from settings where people can keep an eye on them. I am not saying that all people who don't vaccinate are neglectful, that is patently not true (they may only refuse certain vaccinations anyway) and most look after their children very well, but there will be exceptions.

I don't know why people worry about other people so much. It's like people not wearing helmets on bikes (why does that affect you) and not going for smear tests (again, how does that possibly affect you)?

At population level vaccination is clearly the best option - it is expensive and inconvenient to deal with illness. At individual level, it's not always quite so clearcut - the existence of vaccine damage legislation is prima facie evidence that things can go wrong - such as the people who received the AZ COVID vaccine and had very serious side effects.