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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:41

ChopsySue · 09/07/2025 17:39

I was talking to DH about this recently, I said who became the first landowner or first King, everyone was just a normal person and then William got ideas above his station and declared himself Royal?

I get very resentful about this,

BigMouthBigFacts · 09/07/2025 17:41

Waitingfordoggo · 09/07/2025 17:39

Keeping pets. I have pets and I love them but every so often I say to my husband: ‘it’s so weird that this dog lives in our house’.

omg this yes! And then I get freaked out that animals exist

ChopsySue · 09/07/2025 17:42

Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:41

I get very resentful about this,

Haha I know, if only we were born a few thousand or whatever years ago when people just made themselves Kings 😄

HRTQueen · 09/07/2025 17:43

drinking an animals milk that the mum has produced for her own baby/babies

I find it weirder than eating meat

and I love milk (cows) I try not to think about it but it is weird

MsNevermore · 09/07/2025 17:43

ChopsySue · 09/07/2025 17:40

😂 I love how there is essentially what was a wild animal in our house and we are happy just sleeping near it.

I guess it’s just an evolution of our ancestors keeping animals for a purpose other than to love them.

Historically, dogs were always working animals the same as horses etc
Then somewhere along the line, someone thought “actually, it’s quite cute and I think it might love me…..let’s let it live in the house”

I don’t think keeping pets is weird at all! Humans have pretty much always had animal companions around!
I particularly love the Egyptian worship of cats 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

zeddybrek · 09/07/2025 17:43

High heels.

MaryTheTurtle · 09/07/2025 17:43

Headlice
we all kill them when we, the kids get them so what’s the point of them
Who keeps a nit farm in their bedroom?

Lucielastik · 09/07/2025 17:44

Clapping 👏

Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:44

HRTQueen · 09/07/2025 17:43

drinking an animals milk that the mum has produced for her own baby/babies

I find it weirder than eating meat

and I love milk (cows) I try not to think about it but it is weird

It certainly isn’t natural, no matter what the powers that be would have us believe.

ruethewhirl · 09/07/2025 17:44

CiaoMeow · 09/07/2025 17:31

Sleep.

Wearing special clothes to basically black out every single night for hours.

And, if you have a sleep disorder and a snoring husband like me, the convention of couples sleeping in the same bed at all. Sh*gging yes, sleeping hell no, with few exceptions. (DH tends to agree, as my sleep disorder makes me just as annoying a bedmate as he is. 😄)

chaosmaker · 09/07/2025 17:45

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infanticide is killing babies not pointless cells ... it being legalised is definitely something to celebrate as the alternative is women taking the matter into their own hands and possibly dying or horrifically damaging their bodies.

The men have no physical repercussions of unwanted fertilised cells and if they did it would be legal to full term.

SprayWhiteDung · 09/07/2025 17:45

That money is printed (or often they don't even bother to do that now everything is digital) into existence because somebody has borrowed it.

That you can go to a bank and ask them super nicely, and comply with a whole load of their stern criteria, and then feel very grateful that your request has created money out of nowhere, ownership of which is then magically assigned to the bank (not to you!) and you have to pay the bank potentially hundreds of thousands of pounds over decades to borrow money that you didn't have, but neither did they!

BunnyLake · 09/07/2025 17:46

Manitou · 09/07/2025 15:44

Ha yes! With pineapple or a tiny pickled onion!

Cheese and pineapple - who on earth made that up!

I like a ‘cheesy pineapple’

WaryCrow · 09/07/2025 17:46

Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:24

WaryCrow, and who decided they owned it in order to sell it.

I can only refer you, and anyone else interested in the beginnings of modern economics eg @SprayWhiteDung back to the same book. There are others on the subject of course but ‘Owning the Earth’ is a good starting point.

As I said it’s the foundation stone of modern work patterns, following Enclosure, and sets the scene, attitude and cultures for the later issues I referred to as the ‘rentier economy’, too. Fundamentally it arose in England due to the conflicts arising from conquering the people here in 1066 with a bunch of rapacious takers (literally).

Fascinating subject.

pelargoniums · 09/07/2025 17:46

Waitingfordoggo · 09/07/2025 17:39

Keeping pets. I have pets and I love them but every so often I say to my husband: ‘it’s so weird that this dog lives in our house’.

Came to the thread to say pets!

Also – sorry to bring dog poo into a good thread – that we’ve all accepted as normal that dogs can poo everywhere as long as it gets picked up. But it leaves smears! The plastic bags dangling from trees! Stick and flick! I swear aliens will land one day and be like “…oh no baby, what is you doing”. See also cats’ right to roam and shit in flowerbeds.

greasyspooncafe · 09/07/2025 17:46

MiloMinderbinder925 · 09/07/2025 16:35

Children being given access to the Internet and apps rife with predators/porn/extremist content but kept indoors for their own safety.

^^^^ this 💯

Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:46

zeddybrek · 09/07/2025 17:43

High heels.

Yes and the belief that women’s legs look so much better in them.

BunnyLake · 09/07/2025 17:47

MaryTheTurtle · 09/07/2025 17:43

Headlice
we all kill them when we, the kids get them so what’s the point of them
Who keeps a nit farm in their bedroom?

Do vegetarians and vegans kill headlice?

ChopsySue · 09/07/2025 17:48

MsNevermore · 09/07/2025 17:43

I guess it’s just an evolution of our ancestors keeping animals for a purpose other than to love them.

Historically, dogs were always working animals the same as horses etc
Then somewhere along the line, someone thought “actually, it’s quite cute and I think it might love me…..let’s let it live in the house”

I don’t think keeping pets is weird at all! Humans have pretty much always had animal companions around!
I particularly love the Egyptian worship of cats 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

I know what you mean, I actually think in a way it feels very "human" like dogs and us were always meant to be 😍

Its not as well known but the Ancient Egyptians did have dogs too and whilst maybe not as worshipped as cats, they were also buried with their masters and were given cute names such as ’wise one’ and ‘brave one’

Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:48

WaryCrow · 09/07/2025 17:46

I can only refer you, and anyone else interested in the beginnings of modern economics eg @SprayWhiteDung back to the same book. There are others on the subject of course but ‘Owning the Earth’ is a good starting point.

As I said it’s the foundation stone of modern work patterns, following Enclosure, and sets the scene, attitude and cultures for the later issues I referred to as the ‘rentier economy’, too. Fundamentally it arose in England due to the conflicts arising from conquering the people here in 1066 with a bunch of rapacious takers (literally).

Fascinating subject.

Edited

It really is. I’m looking forward to reading that book.

edit, might be ‘out there’ but I believe everything that happened happened purposely.

RawBloomers · 09/07/2025 17:48

The nuclear family.

Though cheese on a stick is a close second.

CiaoMeow · 09/07/2025 17:48

Waitingfordoggo · 09/07/2025 17:37

See also: crying! Not only does a weird noise come out, but water comes out of your eyes- WTF?

😂😂😂

ChopsySue · 09/07/2025 17:49

pelargoniums · 09/07/2025 17:46

Came to the thread to say pets!

Also – sorry to bring dog poo into a good thread – that we’ve all accepted as normal that dogs can poo everywhere as long as it gets picked up. But it leaves smears! The plastic bags dangling from trees! Stick and flick! I swear aliens will land one day and be like “…oh no baby, what is you doing”. See also cats’ right to roam and shit in flowerbeds.

I would love an alien to come down as say "oh no babe what is you doing?" I think it’d be the best encounter I can imagine 😄

Ihateboris · 09/07/2025 17:49

Crankyaboutfood · 09/07/2025 17:34

Add factory farming, foie gras, veal, wearing fur, zoos, and aquariums to this list. Orcas at Seaworld. swimming with dolphins. etc etc There is so much cruelty.

So sad and depressing

Utterlyconfusednow · 09/07/2025 17:50

Ihateboris · 09/07/2025 17:49

So sad and depressing

Who thought foie gras was worth it. Just bloody vile.

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