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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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chaosmaker · 13/07/2025 12:21

carers have to pay to be registered in wales now, too. not as much but still money we can't afford.

world population and people going on about 'replacement rate' when we've far exceeded it already.

money

Catwalking · 13/07/2025 12:37

Thinking it’ll be ok to go & live on another planet…
Religions.

Glowingup · 13/07/2025 12:40

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/07/2025 08:56

Nothing to do with the hospital, or even the baby, everything to do with being expected to recover instantly from what can be a traumatic event.

Well blame NHS funding issues for being discharged swiftly. Nobody is expected to go to work following birth, nobody. You’re not allowed to return until at least 6 weeks after birth even if you want to.

TheGrimSmile · 13/07/2025 12:50

SixtySomething · 12/07/2025 20:57

Because they have a close empathetic communication bond with their owners/ riders. They have ways of communicating pleasure , whinnying being the most obvious. I'm sure there sre many more ways they communicate their moods too. I believe they sre also super sensitive to the feelings of their riders.
This is all absolutely basic.
I don't think horse riding would be so popular if it involved cruelty.

I've had horses. Yes they can bond with humans. I still don't think they enjoy being ridden. Horses don't like having the bit put in their mouths - they hate it; they learn to tolerate it because they have no fucking choice. They certainly don't enjoy being strapped up to a cart and forced to stand around all day, taking people for rides. Not just horses- donkeys, camels, elephants. We should stop normalising riding other species. I say this as somebody who used to ride ponies and horses. They do not enjoy it.

InMySpareTime · 13/07/2025 12:53

CoubousAndTourmalet · 13/07/2025 11:03

Okay. Point taken, though the raised arms/interminable pause thing in drum solos is pretty irritating too...
Then again, there's keyboard stuff to factor in too, with 70's supergroups like ELP, Genesis and Yes... 😬

I see your guitar/drum solos and raise you….

Bagpipes.

No, just no. There’s no need for that sound.

Tryonemoretime · 13/07/2025 13:05

Catwalking · 13/07/2025 12:37

Thinking it’ll be ok to go & live on another planet…
Religions.

Agree to the first. Why on earth does anyone think it would be great to colonise another planet when we are making such a mess of our own?

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/07/2025 13:08

Glowingup · 13/07/2025 12:40

Well blame NHS funding issues for being discharged swiftly. Nobody is expected to go to work following birth, nobody. You’re not allowed to return until at least 6 weeks after birth even if you want to.

You're taking this very personally. I'm not suggesting that anybody has to go back to work. I AM saying that the lack of care available to new mothers is woeful.

daisychain01 · 13/07/2025 13:34

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/07/2025 08:56

Nothing to do with the hospital, or even the baby, everything to do with being expected to recover instantly from what can be a traumatic event.

Since when has a woman been expected to instantly recover from giving birth? Who is doing the expecting? Its a bit of a sweeping statement. Obviously in the context of UK as this is a UK based site, maternity rights for workers entitle a new mother to be paid to recover from birth and bond with your baby.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/07/2025 13:37

daisychain01 · 13/07/2025 13:34

Since when has a woman been expected to instantly recover from giving birth? Who is doing the expecting? Its a bit of a sweeping statement. Obviously in the context of UK as this is a UK based site, maternity rights for workers entitle a new mother to be paid to recover from birth and bond with your baby.

All I can say is that currently there are almost 70 people agreeing with my first post, so I would suggest that others also feel that care and support for new mothers is lacking.

Engagebrain · 13/07/2025 15:35

pelargoniums · 12/07/2025 21:15

Are you talking about horses or cheese on sticks

🤣🤣🤣

Engagebrain · 13/07/2025 15:40

Fetchthevet · 09/07/2025 16:00

Dancing

Yes! I always used to say in clubs, "imagine if there was no music playing and we're all just bobbing about on the dancefloor"🤣

KTMeetsTheRsUptown · 13/07/2025 16:40

Time travel

Livpool · 13/07/2025 16:56

Grammarnut · 09/07/2025 16:52

I agree. All that our bodies do should be accounted for in the work place and society. We are not men. We cannot behave like men, we cannot work like men. Until women's biology is accounted for in society and the economy just as men's biology is accounted for, there will be not equality for women.

Exactly!

I’d add that medical trials and treatments have all been based on, and tested for, males. Women’s health is woefully inadequate

Livpool · 13/07/2025 17:07

Glowingup · 13/07/2025 07:01

Except humans can easily survive without eating meat and a huge number of the world’s species do not eat meat so it’s not an “animal thing”. Plus if we want any chance of surviving as a species, excessive meat consumption isn’t the best idea. Also the average life expectancy in the Stone Age was due to high infant mortality rates and no medical care. It’s not like the body naturally packed up at 35.

We can survive but we have evolved as well as we have due to being omnivores. Lots of people seem to forget that we are animals, just dressed up

Jamjams · 13/07/2025 17:08

People using the phrase 'talk me down' when faced with a challenging but normal situation that's part of life.

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 13/07/2025 18:02

pelargoniums · 12/07/2025 21:15

Are you talking about horses or cheese on sticks

😂
Need that laugh emoji back!!

Justaspy · 13/07/2025 19:25

LillyPJ · 12/07/2025 18:34

Why is that weird? How else would you fund roads, hospitals, education etc etc?

Road tax covers roads, hospitals and education are so poor I don't think we are getting value for money.

LillyPJ · 13/07/2025 19:45

Justaspy · 13/07/2025 19:25

Road tax covers roads, hospitals and education are so poor I don't think we are getting value for money.

I disagree. And tax funds many other things that we all benefit from.

MibsXX · 13/07/2025 20:31

Pinkproseccolady · 10/07/2025 18:15

Vast amounts of food consumption and obesity.

Whilst more than a few of us are having to severely ration meals ..

IDontHateRainbows · 13/07/2025 22:00

Yes the concept of eating less food than is available intentionally and doing exercise for the sake of it at the gym must be an extremely weird concept to anyone born more than a few hundred years ago if they could have seen into the future.

KiriG · 13/07/2025 23:34

deeahgwitch · 13/07/2025 09:57

I’m with you there 😀

Clearly a great time to have a toilet break at a concert 🤣

Spiderx · 14/07/2025 00:29

And loads of metalwork pierced through your face and lips to make eating more difficult and sorry it doesn't look pretty ...pretty awful , yes !

caringcarer · 14/07/2025 00:58

Men dressing up in female clothing and pretending to be female and everyone is supposed not to notice the Adams apple and refer to them as her/she.

NewPersonHere · 14/07/2025 04:02

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/07/2025 08:56

Nothing to do with the hospital, or even the baby, everything to do with being expected to recover instantly from what can be a traumatic event.

Totally agree, one of my memories of leaving the hospital after my child was born, when I couldn’t walk unaided, was bleeding profusely, and was in a lot of pain, was seeing a man walking into A&E holding his arm.

Perhaps he had broken it, who knows, but the double standard really struck me. I think it’s ridiculous that women are sent home before we’ve had a chance to recover (if people prefer to be home then fine, but personally I’d much rather be in a hospital when I’m still losing so much blood).

Another one…we’ve accepted as a society that children no longer have a pediatrician as their regular doctor, and that they don’t have annual health checks any more. Not sure when it happened, but as a child 40 years ago we all had pediatric checks annually where they’d check height, weight, vaccinations, and any ongoing health issues.

whynotmereally · 14/07/2025 07:03

NewPersonHere · 14/07/2025 04:02

Totally agree, one of my memories of leaving the hospital after my child was born, when I couldn’t walk unaided, was bleeding profusely, and was in a lot of pain, was seeing a man walking into A&E holding his arm.

Perhaps he had broken it, who knows, but the double standard really struck me. I think it’s ridiculous that women are sent home before we’ve had a chance to recover (if people prefer to be home then fine, but personally I’d much rather be in a hospital when I’m still losing so much blood).

Another one…we’ve accepted as a society that children no longer have a pediatrician as their regular doctor, and that they don’t have annual health checks any more. Not sure when it happened, but as a child 40 years ago we all had pediatric checks annually where they’d check height, weight, vaccinations, and any ongoing health issues.

I’m 48, I never saw a paediatrician (uk) had some vaccinations but still got measles, German measles and mumps (I remember having mmr at 11 not sure if I had it before) I don’t recall any annual checks. I do remember the nit nurse in school though and the boys have a check that their balls had dropped!

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