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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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NameChangedOfc · 09/07/2025 20:33

Separating mothers from babies and small children.

YourChirpyFatball · 09/07/2025 20:34

Just Eat & Deliveroo driving around on electric bikes and scooters clogging up the roads, while delivering fattening food which we are remonstrated for eating.
Also the trust or blocking of thought about how hygienic the kitchens actually are.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 09/07/2025 20:36

@TheIceBear You can catch enzootic diseases from milk (e.g. brucellosis) and Johne's disease (a muscle-wasting disease that affects cows) is apparently linked to Crohn's disease.

@Stayingundermyblanket Cows also hate it when the clocks change. They like their routine, so getting up an hour later is a travesty, and trying to get them up earlier is even worse! Thus, we have to introduce it to them in half-hour stints, otherwise they can be extremely grumpy during milking!

TheeNotoriousPIG · 09/07/2025 20:40

TheeNotoriousPIG · 09/07/2025 20:36

@TheIceBear You can catch enzootic diseases from milk (e.g. brucellosis) and Johne's disease (a muscle-wasting disease that affects cows) is apparently linked to Crohn's disease.

@Stayingundermyblanket Cows also hate it when the clocks change. They like their routine, so getting up an hour later is a travesty, and trying to get them up earlier is even worse! Thus, we have to introduce it to them in half-hour stints, otherwise they can be extremely grumpy during milking!

*zoonotic. Sorry! My brain is too tired for this business!

MsNevermore · 09/07/2025 20:43

Strobbery · 09/07/2025 20:19

WTF? How/where does that happen?
Not doubting it BTW, just sounds outrageous!

So here in the US, collecting rainwater is technically legal at a federal level. But at state level, the regulation of it is different depending on state.
In my state, it’s perfectly legal to collect rainwater for use in your garden etc but if it’s being collected for the purpose of being used as drinking water, you need a permit - which doesn’t cost anything, it’s just a pain in the arse to do all the paperwork and wait for approval etc.
But in other states, you have to pay for rainwater collection permits - some depending on the intended use of the collected water, some depending on the volume of water you plan of collecting etc

It’s mental to think that some places regulated the the use of a resource that literally already falls onto your property - but if you want to catch it in an oversized bucket?! You need permission and may be expected to may for the privilege 🫠🫠🫠😂

pinkglitter12 · 09/07/2025 20:46

The royal family

MsNevermore · 09/07/2025 20:46

Pudmyboy · 09/07/2025 20:31

That butterflies are not called flutterbys, because that's really what they do,!

So many weird words for things that don’t make sense 🫠😂

We have fingertips but not toe tips?

Cow when it’s food becomes beef.
Pig when it’s food becomes pork.
But chicken is just chicken? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️😂

We park on a driveway but some roads we drive on are called parkways?

We can be overwhelmed or underwhelmed but no one is ever simply whelmed? 🤷🏻‍♀️🫠

The English language is a strange beast.

Themaghag · 09/07/2025 20:47

Strobbery · 09/07/2025 15:50

🙄

We wanted to. We fought for the right to do this and to be paid the same as men. It took a while.

You really think women should be kept at home and not allowed to work?

I don't think we ever signed up to carry the whole fucking load though did we? We hoped that men might see the advantages that come with having an equal partnership, but instead of stepping up, they've remained as stupid, selfish and useless as they ever were, as frequently evidenced by the many posts on these pages documenting their various shortcomings. Sadly, true equality is still another 2,000 years away - at least!

yakkity · 09/07/2025 20:47

Circumcision

Jennyathemall · 09/07/2025 20:48

Religion

101Nutella · 09/07/2025 20:48

Leaving your infants to cry (sometimes until they vomit) so they learn not to try and ‘control’ you with crying….when they have no other form of communication and it’s based on theory which has been largely debunked. I mean proper CIO method (not pick up/put down or a slight grizzle etc)

wild. How are we convincing parents to go against their basic primal instinct to go to a distressed infant?

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 09/07/2025 20:49

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:46

That women go through menstruation every month and give birth and breastfeed and yet we're just basically supposed to get on with full time work and everything else.

Generally you aren’t expected to work while giving birth. The rest is manageable for the vast majority of people, especially as most mothers of young kids either take time out or work PT for a while.

You seriously think periods make women in general less able to work?

bigkahunaburger · 09/07/2025 20:50

Daisyvodka · 09/07/2025 16:10

People being rude to you, expecting you to want them in your life despite how they treat you or expecting you to do things for them under the guise of 'but we are family' because a while ago a certain combination of people had sex which made you blood related and therefore they are owed a place in your life rather than it being earned.

Its pretty weird when you think about it.
Two people decided to shag and many years later you are expected to sit at Aunt Hildas birthday party despite the fact she's called you fat since you were six.

And there are people out there who call you selfish if you go 'no contact' with family, despite the fact im 'no contact' with several billion strangers - people ive not met who I dont have a relationship with. You wouldn't get judged for not wanting to speak to your ex, someone you actively chose to date and have in your life. Yet its selfish to not want contact with someone you are societally forced to interact with just because two people decided they fancied a shag??? Its so weird when you think about it.

I cant tell you how helpful and profound this is for me right now!!! thank you.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 09/07/2025 20:50

Themaghag · 09/07/2025 20:47

I don't think we ever signed up to carry the whole fucking load though did we? We hoped that men might see the advantages that come with having an equal partnership, but instead of stepping up, they've remained as stupid, selfish and useless as they ever were, as frequently evidenced by the many posts on these pages documenting their various shortcomings. Sadly, true equality is still another 2,000 years away - at least!

All true, but that’s a different point to the potty PP, who is up there with a friend of my mum’s who didn’t think that women should be pilots because PMS made them mental.

ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor · 09/07/2025 20:52

Manitou · 09/07/2025 15:44

Ha yes! With pineapple or a tiny pickled onion!

Cheese and pineapple - who on earth made that up!

I don't know but I salute them. Fruit with savoury things is the absolute best. Watermelon with feta, honey on halloumi, apple sauce on pork, figs with blue cheese and parma ham. Lemon Chicken from the chinese takeaway. Heaven.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 09/07/2025 20:57

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:58

@Strobbery It's a con, didn't anyone tell you? There is no real choice for most of us. In the before times, we had to do all the child rearing, housekeeping stuff. We weren't able to work like men could. Now we HAVE to do employment outside of the home, and often most/all of the other stuff too. We aren't able to opt out if we wish to.

There is no "we". Women are not a homogeneous group when it comes to politics or most other things.

At no point did I say women should be kept at home and not allowed to work. As you well know. Go and jump down somebody else's throat.

There is no significant ‘before-times’ where women didn’t work, there was a brief period in the 20th century where lots of women where at home doing only domestic work, and also to an extent the 19th century for middle class women.

During a lot of this time housework was hard labour and people often had many more children than they did now.

For centuries and millennia before that, women did work, mostly agriculturally or in their family trade.

There is obviously a huge issue with fathers not contributing enough, but make that point, don’t make up fake history.

whoamI00 · 09/07/2025 20:57

Google, Amazon, Apple, eBay, Netflix, Nike, X, Facebook… the level of reliance on American digital platforms and brands is staggering.

bigkahunaburger · 09/07/2025 20:59

Lifelover16 · 09/07/2025 16:17

Working 5 days a week - who decided that was “normal” full time hours? Why not 4, or 3.5? Was it plucked out of thin air?

Yeah and also where did we get 40 hours from? Was that plucked out of thin air too? Id be interested to know historically how that has changed.

Zone2NorthLondon · 09/07/2025 21:01

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:46

That women go through menstruation every month and give birth and breastfeed and yet we're just basically supposed to get on with full time work and everything else.

And? Are you recommending some kind of confinement or over pathologising what most women experience

Ethelflaedofmercia · 09/07/2025 21:02

Hmmm. Men can abandon families and go on to have baby after baby, without a thought of the children he left behind and doesn’t provide for.

If they don’t provide for their children they should be imprisoned for child neglect.

Fingeronthebutton · 09/07/2025 21:02

Thegalluspigeon · 09/07/2025 15:43

Wtf is cheese on a stick?

Your obviously too young to have been to some awful parties in the 70s 😱

JHound · 09/07/2025 21:03

pinkglitter12 · 09/07/2025 20:46

The royal family

Oooh this is a good one.

Tabitha005 · 09/07/2025 21:04

SO many things:

  • religion
  • wealth inequality
  • housing inequality
  • racism
  • women being treated as second-class citizens (see also: low rates of conviction for rape, domestic violence, sexual assault)
  • over-reliance on fossil fuels
  • shit and ludicrously-expensive public transport
  • political process never actually achieving anything really groundbreaking
FoxglovesAndLupins · 09/07/2025 21:04

Lifelover16 · 09/07/2025 16:17

Working 5 days a week - who decided that was “normal” full time hours? Why not 4, or 3.5? Was it plucked out of thin air?

It used to be six days a week and that changed in the US, I think it was when Ford motors moved to 5 days. There are currently lots of pilots for 4 day a week working but I don’t see them getting much traction I think due to the world of tech meaning we have to be online all the time.

EggnogNoggin · 09/07/2025 21:05

That schools insist on branded uniform and encourage named school bags and post kids on their social media (so everyone knows John Smith goes to AnySchool and is in Mr Xs class in Year 4). And then they offer online safety courses.

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