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What do you think of people with colourful hair? As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair

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StonePaperScissors · 06/07/2025 09:02

I always had my hair in a natural brown until last year and I started getting it bleached and highlighted to get some fun bright colours in my hair. I don't want to be known so I won't give my hair colours away but I did a new colour recently and I love it.

I get two reactions.

  1. where people love it
  2. they hate it but mabe they won't say it but their tone and attitude - I sense something.

For me I think there is too much madness in the world and I am not hurting anyone and I need more bright and cheerful in my life.

Some people probably think I am a clown or something. I don't know. I really love colourful hair.

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hijabibarbie · 06/07/2025 12:57

In healthcare, it's considered akin to a warning like how the most poisonous animals in nature are brightly coloured as a warning to others

Nanny0gg · 06/07/2025 12:59

I usually don't like it because it doesn't look in good condition.

If it's shiny and look like 'hair' I don't mind so much - although I don't think it looks 'professional'

But so often it looks like purple cotton wool I don't see the attraction

DiggingHoles · 06/07/2025 13:00

Noshadelamp · 06/07/2025 09:46

Wow pp are so rude and judgemental. No need to be so nasty.

I'd rather a lovely friend with pink hair than half the pp on this post.

People are simple posting what they privately think. If you have bright hair and they judge you, they would normally never tell you, they would just keep their distance. They would be polite to you in person, but you'd never get to know them or visa versa.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

lidlcheesetwist · 06/07/2025 13:00

Double degree educated, professional job holder, and homeowner here with a sleeve tattoo, nose ring, and (dyed) bright orange-red hair that fades to a pale copper when in need of a touch up. Not a man hater (happily straight and married to my husband), but definitely a feminist (of the GC variety) probably would be called far left by some but definitely the materialist kind - ie, TW are NOT women in my book!

RedRec · 06/07/2025 13:01

Flashout · 06/07/2025 10:32

hebden bridge?

Yes 🙂

Cailleachnamara · 06/07/2025 13:03

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 06/07/2025 09:13

I don't care what people do but whenever I see someone with bright hair I think "I bet he/she thinks transwomen are women" and write them off for that.

I am in my 60s and still occasionally like to have my hair bright pink. I absolutely do NOT think that transwoman are women. What an utterly bizarre assumption.

mumofsixfluffs · 06/07/2025 13:04

I dressed a bit different in teenage years, following trends but did them my way. When I got a job customer facing it was not acceptable to be so different but I did have normal hair colour as was in school and then working. In my mid 50’s I’m employed in a non customer facing role so at last I can colour my hair as I wish. I’m not political or queer, I’m me. I’m totally astounded at so many negative responses

What do you think of people with colourful hair?  As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair
What do you think of people with colourful hair?  As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair
What do you think of people with colourful hair?  As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair
What do you think of people with colourful hair?  As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair
What do you think of people with colourful hair?  As in different colour hair - pinks, greens, blues, purples, - big bright colourful hair
henlake7 · 06/07/2025 13:05

Id be jealous TBH. Id love to dye my hair a weird colour but I cant because of work.
I cant believe some of the extreme opinions on this thread though!
It wouldnt occur to me to associate colourful hair with anything other then someone wanting to dye their hair blue or pink or purple. Maybe might make judgements about someone if they had a whole 'look' going on but most of the people I see with colourful hair are just dressed in regular clothes, doing regular things.
I dont think its as anti-conformist and revolutionary as some people seem to think!😄

Thingsthatgo · 06/07/2025 13:10

Wow! I am so surprised at the replies on here. I live in Brighton, so everyone has multi coloured hair here!
in the 90s I knew a girl with beautiful blonde curls - she died just a few curls in rainbow colours, to this day it is the most exquisite hair I have ever seen. As it washed out they all went pastel hues and I have never been more envious of anything in my life!

Disturbia81 · 06/07/2025 13:11

mumofsixfluffs · 06/07/2025 13:04

I dressed a bit different in teenage years, following trends but did them my way. When I got a job customer facing it was not acceptable to be so different but I did have normal hair colour as was in school and then working. In my mid 50’s I’m employed in a non customer facing role so at last I can colour my hair as I wish. I’m not political or queer, I’m me. I’m totally astounded at so many negative responses

Beautiful!

5128gap · 06/07/2025 13:11

ThreenagerCentral · 06/07/2025 12:48

I’m genuinely staggered by the prejudice on this thread, I can’t believe how judgemental you can all be about hair colour. I’ve got boring non colourful hair, but whenever I meet someone with colourful hair I’m predisposed to like them. They’ve decided to be different and do their own thing and I think that’s just brilliant.

No. Deciding to be different and do your own thing is the woman I worked with who had never changed her hairstyle and power suits and stilettos since the 80s. She likes the look and couldn't care less she's the only person still sporting it and everyone thinks she's dated and has no style. Rainbow hair colours aren't anyone's own thing. They're A Thing, a trend that you can't move for in certain circles. They may have been a bit different at one time, but they have strong associations of being part of a 'tribe' now.

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 06/07/2025 13:12

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/07/2025 12:24

Exhausting.

It is not exhausting at all, because it is a natural human reaction that we all have, even you, one that all people do, make an observation and judgement (whether positive, negative or neutral), it is fleeting and seamless, and they move on from it unless specifically asked to stop and think and share their thoughts.

What would be more exhausting is trying constantly every day to fight that natural reaction. If you think you don't judge you are not being honest with yourself.

Disturbia81 · 06/07/2025 13:12

DiggingHoles · 06/07/2025 13:00

People are simple posting what they privately think. If you have bright hair and they judge you, they would normally never tell you, they would just keep their distance. They would be polite to you in person, but you'd never get to know them or visa versa.

Thank god, nasty people.

AllTheChaos · 06/07/2025 13:13

This thread is fascinating! I had no idea that bright hair was viewed the way many people do! I have had on and off brightly coloured hair/ multicoloured hair for more than 30 years, am GC but yep also ND, this explains much about people’s reactions!

Beautifulspringsunshine · 06/07/2025 13:17

Candlemidnight · 06/07/2025 11:09

Wow. That's insane.

My brother (who is on the Andrew Tate train and a cunt) thinks alpha men (😂) should avoid women with funny coloured hair, tattoos, single mothers, etc. I dont give a shit about his or other small minded people's opinions.

Same calibre of people on here. Very disappointing.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/07/2025 13:18

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 06/07/2025 13:12

It is not exhausting at all, because it is a natural human reaction that we all have, even you, one that all people do, make an observation and judgement (whether positive, negative or neutral), it is fleeting and seamless, and they move on from it unless specifically asked to stop and think and share their thoughts.

What would be more exhausting is trying constantly every day to fight that natural reaction. If you think you don't judge you are not being honest with yourself.

There you go judging others and assuming everyone thinks the same as you - they don't. When you mature, travel, meet lots of different people, you'll realise that small mindedness holds you back. People aren't a collection of stereotypes soley attributed because of how they look. Free your mind and relax, you might make some friends. 💗

Beautifulspringsunshine · 06/07/2025 13:19

mumofsixfluffs · 06/07/2025 13:04

I dressed a bit different in teenage years, following trends but did them my way. When I got a job customer facing it was not acceptable to be so different but I did have normal hair colour as was in school and then working. In my mid 50’s I’m employed in a non customer facing role so at last I can colour my hair as I wish. I’m not political or queer, I’m me. I’m totally astounded at so many negative responses

Really beautiful 😍

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 06/07/2025 13:23

Beautifulspringsunshine · 06/07/2025 13:17

Same calibre of people on here. Very disappointing.

You are really saying people are the same as/similar to Andrew Tate because of their opinions (everyone is allowed their own opinions even if you don't agree with them) of bright hair colours?

That says so much more about you and your intellectual maturity than it does them.

SmegFridge · 06/07/2025 13:27

Arseynal · 06/07/2025 11:44

Bit of a rose, peach or violet tint - no thoughts. It was very popular about 10 years ago over pale blonde or white hair. Can look amazing if done well.

Dark red - you want to have a “colour” but you have dark hair. Still popular amongst old ladies in my community but was popular amongst young people in late 90s. My mum has this look - she’s in her 70s but almost no grey.

Older women with green/blue/pink - Timmy Mallet adjacent is the best way of putting it that I’ve ever heard. Will likely be quite extrovert or “fun”. Likely to be left leaning and work in a non-corporate people focussed job. Will possibly be a lot more judgemental and less accepting than they think they are which would make me hold back.

Younger women with green/blue/pink - the conventional uniform amongst politically extreme identity obsessives. Often far left gender ghouls who self identify into sexual minorities and mental health conditions, use phrases like “pan-queer non-binary” and think they are saying something relevant, often carrying stuffed animals and using walking aids (also colourful). Intolerant. I’d be cautious. If you have paid even the slightest attention to the shattering of both the political right and the political left over the last 10-15 years then you can’t have failed to see the rise in this tribe as far left identiterians. If you aren’t particularly politically engaged then fair enough, you could easily pass them in the street as a bunch of fun loving kids. If you don’t think the way you cut/colour/style your hair, the way you dress and the make-up etc you either wear or don’t wear sends out social cues about your “tribe” then you have completely failed to understand that we are social animals. “I just wear what I like” without any acknowledgement that it’s exactly the same as what other people in your tribe also like i.e. it’s the fashion in your set, shows a staggering lack of self awareness - especially when it’s accompanied by assuming someone else is a mindless little sheep with a “greige” house. “I wear what I like - it’s just coincidentally the same as all the people I want to be liked by - you follow trends” is not the banging insult that people think it is. Having coloured hair is no more or less conventional than every other “uniform” out there. I was a huge goth in my youth - entirely conventional and an age appropriate exploration and pushing of boundaries. It was the most conforming period of my life - I think that sort of in-group conventionality really appeals to teens. There is a lot of safety in there. Obviously when I was in it I thought I was desperately unconventional and radical - just like everyone else.

This is pretty much how I feel about it, except I did all of the alternative looks in the 90s and early 00s, not just goth. 🤣

JustSawJohnny · 06/07/2025 13:34

OldMcDonaldHadABigMac · 06/07/2025 12:49

But a pretty accurate take.

OH NOOOOO! ETHEL'S HAD A BLUE RINSE!!

SHE MUST HAVE BEEN INFECTED BY THE WOKE MIND VIRUS!!!

😂

cariadlet · 06/07/2025 13:34

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/07/2025 13:18

There you go judging others and assuming everyone thinks the same as you - they don't. When you mature, travel, meet lots of different people, you'll realise that small mindedness holds you back. People aren't a collection of stereotypes soley attributed because of how they look. Free your mind and relax, you might make some friends. 💗

How patronising!

Many of us who have explained why we associate neon coloured hair with "progressive" TRAs who espouse the omnicause are mature, have travelled widely and have met people from all walks of life with a variety of opinions and beliefs.

Stereotypes aren't always a reflection of narrow minded prejudice; they can also reflect lived experience.

Viviennemary · 06/07/2025 13:35

I think on some folk it looks very nice if it's done well. So it depends

TubeScreamer · 06/07/2025 13:38

It’s not a look I like but it doesn’t impact me so I don’t really care two hoots.

henlake7 · 06/07/2025 13:38

hijabibarbie · 06/07/2025 12:57

In healthcare, it's considered akin to a warning like how the most poisonous animals in nature are brightly coloured as a warning to others

no...it isnt.🙄

Disturbia81 · 06/07/2025 13:42

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/07/2025 13:18

There you go judging others and assuming everyone thinks the same as you - they don't. When you mature, travel, meet lots of different people, you'll realise that small mindedness holds you back. People aren't a collection of stereotypes soley attributed because of how they look. Free your mind and relax, you might make some friends. 💗

Brilliant post ♥️