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Do you ever come home from a meal out

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princesspadam · 16/05/2025 19:55

And want to eat again?????

I’ve had a good intake today, porridge & fruit at breakfast
salmon & stir fry veg at lunch
just been out with a friend and had scampi & chips (literally 7 pieces of scampi)

come home and I’m trying to justify making myself an egg sandwich

I’m ravenous

OP posts:
Crushed23 · 16/05/2025 23:04

ThisPearlOP · 16/05/2025 22:21

It's like some people here never had a binge attack or never realized they ate scary much I mean yeah I get it that you can restrict or be on diet etc I do that as well whenever I can but it doesn't happen that there just is no hunger or you can just be like ok I will stop eating now even tough it tastes good again unless you are strictly dieting or something in wich case congrats but as far as eating goes there is no point where you cannot eat more for example at family gathering earlier this year I probably ate 10k calories I mean it. I am talking whole boxes of cookies and multiple casseroles, bowl after bowl baked potatoes etc but evntually you have to stop or people will say stuff etc and again this is what I was talking about unless something else stops you you cannot just decide against eating more !!!!!!

This is literally no human’s experience with food. We may eat different amounts, but everyone would reach a point where they can’t consume any more food.
That 10k calorie meal you had, could you have continued to 20k or 30k calories? Almost certainly not.

MrsEverest · 16/05/2025 23:05

Whorl · 16/05/2025 22:47

Really?

Do you never feel 'full', satiated?

I just eat until I've had enough and then stop.

Do you not do that?

This can't be a serious question.

Are you unaware of binge eating disorder?

You don't truly think everybody just eats to satiety then stops. Surely. You know there are experiences outside your own.

Crushed23 · 16/05/2025 23:06

CurlyhairedAssassin · 16/05/2025 22:48

Exactly. Starting to think there are a few Mounjaro marketing peeps or bots on here. Strangely written posts indeed...

Whoops, I fell for it.

I should have known with ‘plate after plate of jacket potatoes’. Jumped the shark much.

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TunipTheVegimal24 · 16/05/2025 23:27

Carbs only ever make you hungry 🤷‍♀️ And the more carbs you have, the hungrier you are, and the more carbs you crave.

Enjoy your sandwich! But if you are bothered by being hungry all the time and it's making you unhappy, you need more protein and fibre in a meal. If you're not bothered, then carry on living your best life!

PestoPasto · 17/05/2025 00:38

After battling an eating disorder in my teens and years of therapy I’m glad to say I eat until I’m full. When I’m hungry I eat again. I’m healthy BMI and very active.

If that hunger happened to be after I’d been for meal then I would eat again. I don’t understand all these people who say they couldn’t bring themselves too.

We eat out possibly twice a week and it completely depends what I eat and what time. If we ate at 6ish then I’m probably going to want a snack before bed. 8ish and I’ll be good. I’m not a dessert person and I wouldn't order something like pie/fish and chips like PP said.

There’s no shame in being hungry.

Soontobesingles · 17/05/2025 03:07

ThisPearlOP · 16/05/2025 22:03

ik I have felt stuffed nauseous before so??? I can juss keep eating. Like there is it where you have acid reflux between bites and can still swallow back and keep eating so does not matter if you "feel" sick you cannot just magically sense calories and know you are overeating and even if you log it and count etc that itself does not make you sick as well so that is no limit ever to eating

Since I had a baby I struggle with portion control - but there does genuinely come a point where I don’t want to and indeed cannot eat any more. I once watched a documentary called ‘why skinny people aren’t fat’ and it basically showed that there are many people who do not have the ‘off switch’ when it comes to eating and those people tend to be overweight, whereas skinny people can actually sense when their bodies are sated and struggle to eat more than they need (for example if ‘forced’ to continue after a filling meal they would literally vomit). As a formerly skinny person (I completely recognised what the doc what describing) who is now pushing overweight I feel age, covid and pregnancy hormones have definitely interfered with my ‘off switch’.

edit: I think that is what all the weight loss injections do, give people an off switch by changing their normal response to appetite. It’s also the reason almost everyone gains weight back after they stop using them - once your off switch is faulty it is impossible to ‘know’ when you have eaten enough.

BadLad · 17/05/2025 04:43

Every French restaurant I’ve ever been to has had that result. Both mouthfuls are delicious but I’m still starving at the end of the meal.

Scorchio84 · 17/05/2025 04:49

princesspadam · 16/05/2025 19:55

And want to eat again?????

I’ve had a good intake today, porridge & fruit at breakfast
salmon & stir fry veg at lunch
just been out with a friend and had scampi & chips (literally 7 pieces of scampi)

come home and I’m trying to justify making myself an egg sandwich

I’m ravenous

My Oh & I are pigs.. & it's even better when the next day there's left overs, sadly we don't eat the same so at weekends there's always batch & cheese for me

BigDahliaFan · 17/05/2025 05:37

On occasion I’ve come home and had toast….

ThisPearlOP · 17/05/2025 09:41

Soontobesingles · 17/05/2025 03:07

Since I had a baby I struggle with portion control - but there does genuinely come a point where I don’t want to and indeed cannot eat any more. I once watched a documentary called ‘why skinny people aren’t fat’ and it basically showed that there are many people who do not have the ‘off switch’ when it comes to eating and those people tend to be overweight, whereas skinny people can actually sense when their bodies are sated and struggle to eat more than they need (for example if ‘forced’ to continue after a filling meal they would literally vomit). As a formerly skinny person (I completely recognised what the doc what describing) who is now pushing overweight I feel age, covid and pregnancy hormones have definitely interfered with my ‘off switch’.

edit: I think that is what all the weight loss injections do, give people an off switch by changing their normal response to appetite. It’s also the reason almost everyone gains weight back after they stop using them - once your off switch is faulty it is impossible to ‘know’ when you have eaten enough.

Edited

same I have also had this my entire life I remember family member saying slow down when I eat and I'm like really I wish I could stuff face even faster!!!! And I just wish I had known about calories etc as a kid!!!

FYI I am not eligible for anything like mounjaro and even if I were it is WAAAAY too expensive to even consider. Plus I would have to talk to someone like doctors etc about this what I have going on and that is also out of the question. I went in because of my anxiety once and I was put on very scary medicine which I stopped taking after less than 1 month because it only made the brain fog WORSE!!! I am sure not looking to go take ANY of these chemicals!!!

Realize that over eating happens to every one it is just the scale that really shock me of myself sometimes I am just shocked senseless about what I ate it's like I freeze and realize oh GOD and then suddenly I stop eating that is all!!

And as far as eating more goes I don't think it is known how much I can eat like it has never happened that I don't want to eat anymore but I had it where I ate so many baby carrots that my jaw hurt because I chewed so much all my face was sore that's when I stopped (about 3kg carrots) and I also had it where I ate so many olives (jars of green olives, one of my favorite :((() that after a while my throat and all felt sour I had basically had oily burps after like 8 jars or smth so YES it happens that something comes up and im like ok no way I "can" eat any more but I am sure if I forced it I could just keep eating and eating

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 17/05/2025 10:21

Only rarely. But I still remember going with a very gourmet-minded, ultra-foodie, Francophile BiL to a very swanky and expensive French restaurant where the portions were very stingy.

Once we were outside afterwards, that same BiL said, ‘Well, I don’t know about anybody else, but I’m going for a McDonald’s.’ 😂

FinallyHere · 17/05/2025 11:25

That feeling of being ‘ravenous ’ for me only seems to appear when my blood sugar is a bit out of whack, usually means that I’ve had quite a carbs breakfast (for example porridge and fruit) which would significantly raise my blood sugar. That is always followed by a drop when I feel a bit sleeply while insulin does its stuff and then my brain responds to the dropping blood sugar by telling me a really need to eat as a matter of urgency.

adding more good fats and leafy green veg to my diet keeps my blood sugar much more stable.

appreciate thus might not be the kind of response you were hoping for.

WavyRavey · 18/05/2025 09:34

CurlyhairedAssassin · 16/05/2025 20:36

I can't tell if you're joking. In case you're not, I think people on this thread must be going to different restaurants to me. Or maybe only having a light main course and no starter or dessert or extra sides. Or just getting a mcdonalds or something, which tend to make me feel queasy then ravenous 2 hours later. Or eating at 5pm or something? (we tend to eat out between 7 and 8)

I mean a big steak and ale pie, chips and peas, or battered fish, chips and peas is not the sort of thing that you'd need to eat dirty fries after when you got home, is it?

For me, apart from the nice food and the social occasion, one of the best bits of going to a restaurant is getting cooked for, fed, and arriving home feeling stuffed, or at least satisfied enough so that you don't even need to think about having to prep any more food.

He's one of those men that can eat everything in sight and not gain any weight at all, never quite known an appetite like it 😂

WavyRavey · 18/05/2025 09:35

Cherrytree86 · 16/05/2025 21:03

@WavyRavey

why??!

Cos he's always hungry again with about an hour and a half

Cherrytree86 · 18/05/2025 10:48

WavyRavey · 18/05/2025 09:35

Cos he's always hungry again with about an hour and a half

@WavyRavey

seems excessive
you food shop bill must be massive!

WavyRavey · 22/05/2025 13:02

Cherrytree86 · 18/05/2025 10:48

@WavyRavey

seems excessive
you food shop bill must be massive!

Been like it ever since childhood apparently, nope my meals actually seem to fill him up, no idea why!

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