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Friend not accepting she’s NOT doing 28,000 steps per day

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CyclingAddict · 16/05/2025 15:47

Just can’t convince her! Showed her that her app is picking up arm movement ..got her to move her arm whilst seated 😳 but she still insists she’s nearly up to 30,000 every day!

Just read on here that someone is doing 10,000 steps per day but this is really hard to achieve!

How do people squeeze it in alongside work/parenting/household stuff? I manage 5,000 steps in an active role ..nowhere near the recommended 🤨

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Bonkersdogmum · 16/05/2025 18:55

I’ve got a Garmin which are meant to be quite accurate and indeed with my activity I’d say it’s probably about right. I do around 12k a day on average - 15k if I’ve been a bit more active - and that usually includes a workout or a run. I do however take the actual figure with a pinch of salt. I’m a very active person so I know how much activity I’ve had - for example 4 mile runs.

28000 steps daily sounds insane - I have had this amount before but it’s been when I’ve literally been out on full days of walks during covid. I very much doubt anyone could get that many steps in in a ‘normal’ working day. So OP I’m with you on this one.

Definitely true that watch’s pick up arm movement - many a time I’ve had my ‘step goal’ completed (when I’ve already been close to it) when I’ve been driving!!!

Gda · 16/05/2025 19:02

20k steps tends to be about 13km for me, tend to hit it a couple of times a month. I really don’t think 10k is too hard to achieve for lots of people, lots of people walking to work, their dogs etc, I have a walking pad under my desk to slowly walk on throughout the day.

RareMaker · 16/05/2025 19:10

28k isn't impossible. I do 18-22k on am average day

Islandgirl68 · 16/05/2025 19:15

@CyclingAddict that is approximately 12/13 miles a day. If I walk to work it is 3 miles and roughly 6600 steps, so I average 2200 per mile and takes about 50 mins. Does she walk alot in her job as that is a lot of steps.

northernballer · 16/05/2025 19:16

I hit 28k on the days I do a 10 mile run and a dog walk, it is by no means average.

A usual day for me is between 12 and 16k, I think most people can hit 10k with a bit of effort.

HobbyHorse30 · 16/05/2025 19:18

You seem a bit over-invested in proving her wrong. I work in a sedentary role and manage 19k a day with a brisk walk at lunchtime and a ~7k run in the evening, as well as any pre- or post-work running about; 10k steps is relatively achievable if you’re as concerned about health as you imply when you talk about your friend’s “worrying” issues

melsid · 16/05/2025 19:19

CyclingAddict · 16/05/2025 16:09

She’s on her feet most of the day but in a smallish space
has a nap when she gets home
no running half marathons or anything

my active role is a three hour shift (I do other (sedentary work))

10,000 is hard! I walk most evenings for about 45 mins and probably only clock up 2,000 or so

If you walk for 45 mins to 1 hour then you def will be walking more than 2000 steps. Your step counter needs recalibrating

MrsSunshine2b · 16/05/2025 19:20

I work from home in a sedentary role and manage between 5,000 and 7,000 if I go for a decent walk after work, then around 8,000 on a weekend day as I've got more time.

10,000 is 5 miles and over 2 hours of walking. If you aren't on your feet in the working day, how are people fitting in 2 hours of walking, and still making dinner, putting the kids to bed and loading the dishwasher? Especially people that live in cities in the winter? Are people just out there trudging the streets in circles for hours in the dark every night, taking it in turns to watch the kids? Or does their commute involve a lot of steps?

I'm not sure 28,000 would be very good for your joints.

DeliaOwens · 16/05/2025 19:21

I act on the ‘do what I can and maybe a dash more’ school of activity and fitness.

The idea that 10,000 steps per day is the "magic number" for health is largely a marketing invention, not a scientifically established benchmark.

Origins: A Marketing CampaignThe 10,000-step goal dates back to Japan in the 1960s. A pedometer called the "manpo-kei" was developed by a Japanese company after the 1964 Tokyo Olympics. "Manpo-kei" literally means “10,000 steps meter” (万歩計). The number 10,000 was chosen:
because it’s simple, memorable, and marketable*

  • the character for 10,000 in Japanese (万) looks like a person walking, which helped with branding.

There was no scientific basis behind this number at the time—it was primarily a motivational target.

What Modern Science Says: Recent research shows that:

Fewer than 10,000 steps can still provide major health benefits. For example, just 6,000–8,000 steps per day is associated with a significantly reduced risk of early death, especially in older adults.
the biggest gains in health often come from increasing step counts in sedentary individuals—even moving from 2,000 to 4,000 steps a day can have clear benefits.
* intensity and variety (e.g., brisk walking, strength training) can matter more than hitting a specific step count.

-Why It's a Fallacy
Not individualised: People have different fitness levels, health needs, and lifestyles.
Creates unnecessary pressure: It can lead to guilt or discouragement in people who fall short, despite making meaningful progress.
Distracts from broader health goals: It overlooks other critical aspects of well-being like strength, flexibility, balance, nutrition, and mental health.

Conclusion 10,000 steps isn’t harmful—it’s just not a one-size-fits-all rule. A more nuanced approach is to focus on moving more, sitting less, and doing it consistently in a way that suits your body and life stage.

blacksantanapkin · 16/05/2025 19:23

The school run makes my steps add up as it’s a mile there and back twice a day so 4 miles of walking for me.

Ozzbozz20 · 16/05/2025 19:23

I work 12.5 hours in a senior nursing role in the emergency department with only 30 mins and another 15 mins of breaks a day. The rest is walking/ moving continuously. On those shifts I average 17-18,000 steps.

She is getting in some serious mileage to do that a day! 🤣🤣

oakley2010 · 16/05/2025 19:24

i have an office job but also a bunch of dogs so i do around 20k per day. that’s long morning walks and evening walks etc when i was marathon training i easily did 35k average a day!

Anon9898 · 16/05/2025 19:24

Here's mine for today. Work in a care home as a receptionist. Walk to and from work also.

Friend not accepting she’s NOT doing 28,000 steps per day
luckylavender · 16/05/2025 19:25

Dunnocantthinkofone · 16/05/2025 16:04

10,000 really isn’t all that hard if you are moderately active.
An hours dog walk plus everyday activities works for me.

28,000 however would not imo be possible without several hours exercise a day…..although my watch doesn’t pick up and count random arm movements 🤷‍♀️

Depends on your lifestyle

DataColour · 16/05/2025 19:27

I've done 25,000 steps today. Walked to work and back, plus a 5K run, and another evening walk to get a takeaway.
I usually do around this, but some days I don't run at all, some days a longer run, but it is rarely less than 20k steps.

AndImBrit · 16/05/2025 19:32

CyclingAddict · 16/05/2025 16:09

She’s on her feet most of the day but in a smallish space
has a nap when she gets home
no running half marathons or anything

my active role is a three hour shift (I do other (sedentary work))

10,000 is hard! I walk most evenings for about 45 mins and probably only clock up 2,000 or so

This doesn’t feel right. For me 10 minutes walking equates to about 1,000 steps. On a 45 minute walk alone I’d be close to 5,000 steps, and the days I work out of the house (in a sedentary role) I generally get to 7,000 steps without trying just from walking to and from the car/train station and nipping out to get lunch.

28,000 would take some concerted effort, but 10,000 is easily achievable if your job is done mostly standing.

AngelicKaty · 16/05/2025 19:33

@CyclingAddict Well the good news OP is that the "recommended" figure has been reduced from 10,000 to just 2,337 steps per day for improved heart health following a study in the European Journal of Preventative Cardiology.

FebruaryUsername · 16/05/2025 19:34

5000 is very low.. I can do 10000 on one dog walk and it's definitely steps rather than arm movement

Abbyant · 16/05/2025 19:34

Guess it depends on what she does. most of the nurses I knew from A and E easily hit 10,000 steps within a couple of hours 😂 I’m a District nurse so I’m lucky if I hit 5000 a day.

YourFluentUser · 16/05/2025 19:36

I do 10000 on an average day without even trying. 5000 seems very low!

Scottishskifun · 16/05/2025 19:36

As others has said it really depends on the sensitivity. Mine doesn't trigger by my arm moving/typing/drinking a cup of tea.
It sounds like hers might be a bit too sensitive.

I've done an hour long flat walk with the dog and the school run (walking 1mile each way) and that's 13,000 steps.

Mrsttcno1 · 16/05/2025 19:36

Depends on your lifestyle obviously but 10k is an absolute minimum for me, but then we have a dog so I’m out walking 3 times a day and I also run & walk to the gym/gym class. I work in an office but deliberately park furthest away to walk in, same at supermarkets etc, make the most of the steps. My weekend days can easily be upwards of 35k regularly if it was a long dog walk day, run day & shopping etc.

TourangaLeila · 16/05/2025 19:37

CyclingAddict · 16/05/2025 15:47

Just can’t convince her! Showed her that her app is picking up arm movement ..got her to move her arm whilst seated 😳 but she still insists she’s nearly up to 30,000 every day!

Just read on here that someone is doing 10,000 steps per day but this is really hard to achieve!

How do people squeeze it in alongside work/parenting/household stuff? I manage 5,000 steps in an active role ..nowhere near the recommended 🤨

10,000 steps is not hard to achieve if you put your mind to it.

Working at a desk is your biggest enemy here (I work at a desk so I know)

It's about 5 miles which I can easily reach on a non work day.

ArtfulPinkBird · 16/05/2025 19:38

I used to do 13,000 steps before 10am in a previous job (food retail management) so it's definitely doable if you're in a very active role. (Started work at 4 or 6am).

Cookielover64 · 16/05/2025 19:39

When I did the Yorkshire 3 peaks in 11 hours I'm sure that was "only" around 70k steps so she's doing the equivalent every 3/4 days? 😂