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Anyone worked for someone famous?

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FishOnTheTrain · 24/04/2025 01:53

I’m working in a company for an influencer/z list celeb. She’s well known in a certain group of people and hangs around with some pretty famous faces. She has her own fashion company.

I don’t report into her, but work closely with her and she is an utter bitch. The way she comes across on social media is so…different. Her intern films her for content daily and she puts on such a smiley show. When the camera is off, she’s rude, demanding, bitches about everyone in the team, including members of the team that go above and beyond to make her business a success and make her happy…I could go on.

she contradicts herself constantly, making me feel like I’m going mad. I know if I died tmrw she wouldn’t care. She cares only about herself and her success. She’s not even nice about her husband, who is such a lovely guy.

I want to get out this company asap. It’s just difficult to know where to go and what to do next so in the meantime…has anyone else experienced similar?

I have lost all respect for this woman. She is awful and everyone that works for her knows it.

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Bobandbear · 25/04/2025 18:52

Mary46 · 24/04/2025 15:43

Anyone ever met Stacey she seems lovely on Loose Women

@Mary46 I’ve worked with her, she’s just as lovely in real life and kind and appreciative of junior members of staff.

CleaningAngel · 25/04/2025 18:55

SnoopDougyDoug · 25/04/2025 15:57

The current lady rothermere (jeongnshun lee) or the previous one (bubbles)?

No idea the one that's been advertising 4 times a year for about the last 10 years!!

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 25/04/2025 18:55

Miffyhasbigears · 25/04/2025 07:33

This has always been my experience, I hate to say. I'm always surprised by sisterhood comments on MN, I don't find women supportive at all. My 2 daughter's experience has been the same, you are either in the clique or fair game.
I'm not an "all about the men" type of person, as quite frankly they can be horrific too, but generally they are upfront about it.
Not sure whether it's a ND thing as the girls in my family are all a bit quirky, me included, but women are ruthless towards anyone who doesn't quite fit, the gang mentality is awful. One of my daughters who is teaching says the playground behaviour extends into the staffroom and the nastiness is off the scale.
I have two good friends and I'm grateful for them, we have had similar experiences.
You see this type of behaviour often on MN.

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My experience also.
When I was 20 and a bit 'young and stupid' I worked for Xerox in telesales (😳🤦🏼‍♀️) and my supervisor, a woman, had a total dislike for me and I couldn't understand why. I thought she was really pretty, her make up was 👌🏼 she had a hubby, house, sadly had difficulty getting pregnant and I was compassionate to her. Although babies were far from my mind, I'm an empath and so I could feel her and now and again she let her guard down but generally she was not nice.
One of the guys said it's was because she was jealous of me! I was like not on your nelly, why the heck would she be jealous of me 🤷🏼‍♀️
But looking back, I see it

I was carefree with not much of a filter (I was diagnosed with combined ADHD last year) and danced to the beat of my own tune and people liked me for it.

She wasn't like that. But she wanted to be.

I remember getting my navel pierced and I showed the office manager who was this (I'm going to call a spade here) short fat gay man with queen issues who was mortified that I'd shown him 🤣🤣🤣 young and a bit stupid, see 🫣
I didn't know anything about office etiquette 🤭

ConstanceM · 25/04/2025 18:57

TheWombatleague · 24/04/2025 14:20

That wasn't his dog, that was his accountant.

Many people's won't get that but I do. 🐶

Slatkater · 25/04/2025 19:03

Ruby Wax appeared at a venue I work at. Can confirm she is a rude, selfish, spoilt, self indulgent cunt.

CleaningAngel · 25/04/2025 19:07

CleaningAngel · 25/04/2025 18:55

No idea the one that's been advertising 4 times a year for about the last 10 years!!

Sorry its viscountess rothermere (Claudia) that is the one alwsys advertising for grooms!! they own the daily mail newspaper.

fionarcat · 25/04/2025 19:08

I worked as a film publicist years ago and worked with a lot of US stars on press tours, junkets and premieres. My favourites were Julia Roberts, Sandra Bullock, Anthony Hopkins, Liam Neeson and Aidan Quinn. My ones to avoid were Kevin Spacey, Steven Seagal and Mark Wahlberg. Most of the directors were reasonable, nearly all of the producers were batshit crazy and every awkward entourage is awkward because of the star’s demands - the star must look down to earth at all costs.

DearDeadrie · 25/04/2025 19:08

QuiteUnbelievable · 25/04/2025 18:11

@DearDeadrie ❤️❤️ where eagles dare!!

Please throw us more 🌹

Not where eagles dare but goodbye Mr chips, they got my mum to sit as a focal point as the scene was Peter o'toole taking a classroom of children off, but in fact no children were there just my mum in a seat for his direction, every time he did his lines shouting my mum laughed, in the end they had to remove her.
Also Roger Moore was a total all round lovely guy to work with .

LovelyCupOfTeaThankYou · 25/04/2025 19:14

I briefly met King Charles many years ago. When he was married to Diana. Couldn’t get over how handsome he was IRL!

Tonkie18 · 25/04/2025 19:18

the stories are true about Jason Manford. Slid into my DM’s trying to ‘meet for a coffee’ while he was married.

Shane Richie is a dog who followed my sister home from a gig.

Ronaldo has cut me up at roundabouts and he stepped on my daughter’s foot without saying sorry.

Paddy McGuiness is rude and full of himself.

The only celebs I’ve met who are nice are the guys from the impractical jokers, Damon Albarn from Blur and the OXO lady.

My Mum was on Trisha and said she was nice. Apparently Lorraine Kelly was not, nor that woman from 10 years younger.

My Dad used to work with Patricia Lumley and Hugh Grant and said they were lovely and polite. Mohammad Ali let my dad take a pic with him boxing and was a ‘nice chap’. But my favourite was Ricky Hatton. My Dad went to the same local, they bonded over boxing and snooker and when he was in hospital Ricky sent him a copy of his book which I thought was cute.

Kirst84 · 25/04/2025 19:19

I worked for a TV channel & a few stand out lovely people were Dermot O’Leary, Darius Danesh & Lorraine Kelly.

Westlife were SO grumpy - I’m a fan so was gutted. They were on tour / tired etc but I was so disappointed ☹️

ACatCalledPuss · 25/04/2025 19:22

FamilyPhoto · 24/04/2025 12:12

My dad was a session musician in the 70s and 80s - most of the people he worked with were fine, BUT he didnt have a good word for Van Morrison.

That's funny because my friend's dad was also a musician at that time and worked with Van the Man and said exactly the same! Must be true then!

Leafy3 · 25/04/2025 19:27

Tonkie18 · 25/04/2025 19:18

the stories are true about Jason Manford. Slid into my DM’s trying to ‘meet for a coffee’ while he was married.

Shane Richie is a dog who followed my sister home from a gig.

Ronaldo has cut me up at roundabouts and he stepped on my daughter’s foot without saying sorry.

Paddy McGuiness is rude and full of himself.

The only celebs I’ve met who are nice are the guys from the impractical jokers, Damon Albarn from Blur and the OXO lady.

My Mum was on Trisha and said she was nice. Apparently Lorraine Kelly was not, nor that woman from 10 years younger.

My Dad used to work with Patricia Lumley and Hugh Grant and said they were lovely and polite. Mohammad Ali let my dad take a pic with him boxing and was a ‘nice chap’. But my favourite was Ricky Hatton. My Dad went to the same local, they bonded over boxing and snooker and when he was in hospital Ricky sent him a copy of his book which I thought was cute.

Joanna Lumley?

Darls3000 · 25/04/2025 19:28

Worked with loads over the years.
Holly - not nice at all. Cliquey and cold.
simon Cowell - very charming and polite.
sharon Osbourne- utterly utterly vile and mean spirited.
David B - hmm. Roving eye. Shifty and vein.
victoria - surrounded by awful people. Real food issues which makes her tricky. Drink problem too.
paddy McG - the worst talent I ever worked with.
davina - lovely and down to earth.
stella McCartney - ouch. Spiky.
jimmy Carr. - dark.
steve coogan - so charming. So sordid.
Gordon Ramsay - womaniser roaming eye for younger girls.
phil Schofield - unpleasant and sly
richard Madeley - yuck. Mean. Big ego. Boring as hell.
ainsley - uh oh. Another one for the ladies.
james corden - truly unpleasant and mean and fake.
Ryan Reynolds - rude and boring and very far from funny. Controlling.
Jack black - adorable.
Leo deception- overpaid and so inaccessible but polite.
liz Hurley - she was one of the no eye contact people believe it or not. Baffling. She’s C list at best.

Laura7010 · 25/04/2025 19:29

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 24/04/2025 07:07

My sister worked for Diana Ross' husband, and she used to come into the office often. She said she was lovely, very unDiva. Happy to make her own coffee!

This must be a different Diana Ross! When I worked in costume I had the misfortune of being her dresser. You weren’t allowed to directly speak to her and if anyone needed to it was through a curtain. She sacked
someone because she smoked. She is a massive diva

Tonkie18 · 25/04/2025 19:32

Leafy3 · 25/04/2025 19:27

Joanna Lumley?

That’s the one sorry just been rewatching AbFab 🤣

HawkeyePierce · 25/04/2025 19:33

I used to work in a venue that regularly hosted services attended by royals and politicians. The royals were all lovely, kind, caring and really interested in people. They would sit for hours talking to veterans. Eat very little and shake any hand put in front of them. This is right from the old queen down to minor royals like Kent’s and Gloucesters.

The politicians were a little more aware of themselves, but still polite enough. I’ve met a few others who have become famous for their efforts in war, like Johnson Beharry and Simon Weston and they were absolutely lovely people.

Makes you wonder why the Z listers need to be so vile.

mrsmiawallace3 · 25/04/2025 19:33

Angrygirl · 24/04/2025 15:37

Why would your ex-wife dying 25 years ago mean you need to argue with a shop assistant that you should get a £2 book for £1 in a charity shop despite being a millionaire?

Many of us have gone through grief and tragedy in our life, it doesn't give us a free pass to be continually rude to strangers decades on.

My elder brother was in Bob's class at school. He was equally mean back then . Also, Paula talked about what a relief it was to be with Michael, because she " Didn't have to earn a living..,"

Laura7010 · 25/04/2025 19:35

I worked in theatre and tv in my 20’s, met and worked with many. The most amazing was Richard Briers, flipping lovely!

I won’t list the not so nice ones, but there’s a reason I’m now a teacher and teenagers are easier to deal with than actors!

Rockmehardplace · 25/04/2025 19:40

Not really celebs, but my aunt works with the Duke of Westminster's daughter (well, sister actually, but daughter of the previous Duke!) and raves on about how lovely, humble, and kind she is, and does such a lot of work for disadvantaged people, despite crazy amounts of wealth.
I've met Henry Winkler and he's absolutely lovely, also David Williams, despite what is normally said on here!

latetothefisting · 25/04/2025 19:40

Kellybonita · 24/04/2025 14:13

Someone always pops on a thread to say that, whenever anyone dares to mention that women can be cruel.

I'm 40 . I've worked in many different jobs. In many different places.

The women have been the same in every job. I've seen groups of women gang up on , amd bully some woman in every job I've been in.

The female managers have always been worse than the men.

In my opinion, the bad side of men is they can be physically and sexually destructive.

The bad side of women is that women can be emotionally destructive. You never see men isolate and bully a man in the workplace I've seen women do it so so so many times.

when ever someone makes any generalisation about all women I wonder if they realise what it actually implies about them...

one bad group/experience- at work/school/hobby - completely reasonable. I'm not denying some women are unpleasant, just like some men are, and if there are a group of them who take against you it's understandable that can be an unpleasant situation.

But if it's every workplace and every group of women you've known in every context, or every female manager (or even just most of them), then maybe you need to look at the common denominator? Because that has really not been my experience.

(and that's not saying that you must necessarily be a horrible person, but that there is probably a reason for getting such a reaction. Could be that something about you makes all other women jealous, or could just be as simple as you had one or two bad experiences with groups of women at a younger age, then (consciously or not), went into a new job being wary of them, acted (again possible not consciously) in a way that showed that, which said women picked up on and therefore reacted to themselves.

Or, in a less convoluted description - some women announce loudly that they much prefer men's company to women's because women are so bitchy and then are shocked and surprised when said women roll their eyes at them and don't fall over themselves to be friends....

It's very weird - nobody would ever dream of making generalisations about all children or all asian people or all french people or all muslims - but all women is okay....

TheLilacLeader · 25/04/2025 19:43

I agree 100% with DeltaAlphaDelta79. I am a professional set designer and used to do lots with the up and coming plus the already made it's in the pop world. Best by far was Tina Turner, a true-ly genuine person. I won't mention the worst!

ScottBakula · 25/04/2025 19:45

@Leafy3 , I has a huge crush on Robson when he was in casualty and soldier soldier. 😍

Plutotheplanet · 25/04/2025 19:49

Technically I didn't work for him, but Lord Lichfield. I did work experience at Shugborough Farm in the 90's. Lord Lichfield lived in an apartment within Shugborough Hall. He liked to meet anyone who worked on the estate, which included me (even though I was only there for a week). I am ashamed to say, at 15, I didn't really know who he was. Despite this I was a little intimidated. He was very friendly and asked what I wanted to do when I was older(a vet at the time). He found out I liked horses and spoke about those. It was only on going home and my parents reaction that I started to appreciate who I had been talking to. Even then I didn't realise his links to the Royal Family. I look back and really appreciate that he took the time to speak to me (even if I didn't at the time). It's not everyone in his position that would.

QuiteUnbelievable · 25/04/2025 19:51

@DearDeadrie are you sure re photo Def looks like eagles and Richard Burton

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