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Anyone worked for someone famous?

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FishOnTheTrain · 24/04/2025 01:53

I’m working in a company for an influencer/z list celeb. She’s well known in a certain group of people and hangs around with some pretty famous faces. She has her own fashion company.

I don’t report into her, but work closely with her and she is an utter bitch. The way she comes across on social media is so…different. Her intern films her for content daily and she puts on such a smiley show. When the camera is off, she’s rude, demanding, bitches about everyone in the team, including members of the team that go above and beyond to make her business a success and make her happy…I could go on.

she contradicts herself constantly, making me feel like I’m going mad. I know if I died tmrw she wouldn’t care. She cares only about herself and her success. She’s not even nice about her husband, who is such a lovely guy.

I want to get out this company asap. It’s just difficult to know where to go and what to do next so in the meantime…has anyone else experienced similar?

I have lost all respect for this woman. She is awful and everyone that works for her knows it.

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DottCom · 24/04/2025 20:23

Harpey · 24/04/2025 08:15

Many years ago I worked for a woman who is now a well known mental health guru. She was utterly toxic and a narcissist.

@Harpey I wonder if this is the same person I've had the displeasure of encountering (MM). Complete toxic narcissist, and I felt so sorry for the string of men she left in her trail. Appalling woman, yet she seems so sweet and approachable on TV.

Manymanyyearsago · 24/04/2025 20:24

I've NC'd for this. And yes, it was a long time ago. I worked with (not for) David Attenborough. It was when 'Wildlife on One' was being put together. Which was his earliest foray into the natural world. I used to organise the scripts for his voice overs. And turn the pages as he narrated, and just generally ran around looking after him. We are talking late 70s here. And yes, he was lovely, a real gent!

autumntimebrowns · 24/04/2025 20:25

@HeadNorth. Thank you. And all best wishes to you too. Xx

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 24/04/2025 20:26

pinkyredrose · 24/04/2025 11:55

Why did you feel the need to mention their looks? Surely we'd all look different after make-up artists and stylists have finished with us?

Because a lot of women feel they aren't good enough if they aren't like the celebrities they see in magazines, newspapers and TV - it can have a real impact on self-esteem. I've seen the reality of it and it's all clever photography and makeup artists! Even the billionaires who can afford the very best anti-aging lotions and potions age just the same in reality.

FridayFeelingmidweek · 24/04/2025 20:26

BoredZelda · 24/04/2025 13:04

That is utter bullshit.

The reason it happens is, when female celebrities are strong and assertive (as they have to be in a male dominated industry) they are Divas, they are bitches, they are difficult. Male celebrities are give more leeway, more benefit of the doubt and all they have to do it show a tiny bit of humanity and they are “so down to earth”

I worked at a couple of top level hotels/resorts which regularly had an array of famous people and the male celebrities caused more problems than the female ones (particularly for younger female staff) but largely, they were all decent people who just wanted to be left to themselves. Some had what seemed to be ridiculous requests, but management explained it to us, the silly little requests were things that were easy for them to check (e.g make sure you only leave the bathroom light on) because if the principle saw that was done, they could be fairly sure we’d read their brief properly for the things that did matter.

This is such a good post! The majority of negatives are about females - I think there is an unfair expectation on women to be overly nice, make an effort etc whereas noone notices when a bloke is blunt/not interested in conversation.

Society seems to feel women need to be ever so nice, grateful, humble and try to be everyone's friend.

That is NOT a dig at anyone posting (I love reading the gossip!) but it does highlight sone expectations around women that we would never expect from a male celebrity.

PluckyBamboo · 24/04/2025 20:27

My colleague's niece worked for the Royal Family. Said that Prince Of Wales is polite but quiet and isn't friendly with the staff, Princess of Wales is really friendly and likes to enquire about staffs family/kids/interests etc. The kids are very cautious about chatting to general staff for security reasons.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 24/04/2025 20:27

Hillary Benn was the MP for the city centre where I worked. I work for a large public body, and one day after when we were very newsworthy and we'd had a massive battering in the media, he came in the tell us what a good job he thought we were doing. He was authentically nice. I gone across a lot of MPs in my work. He was a nice as it seems his dad was..

TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 24/04/2025 20:28

justasking111 · 24/04/2025 20:16

I can confirm that the late Duke of Westminster was absolutely lovely.

I’m noticing a bit of a trend whereby well bred people seem to treat people well but footballers who tend to be from peasant stock, get all hoity toity when they get a bob or two…

Prince Harry excepted!

ClaudiusTheGod · 24/04/2025 20:28

Kellybonita · 24/04/2025 15:45

I definitely think most of us start out nice.

Then after we go through several life traumas we become colder and crueler.

After we go through deaths, break ups, stress. Most people are not extremely nice to strangers.

I feel I used to be nicer to restaurant staff for example.

After going through some huge traumas, I'm now more snappy and cold with people.

But that's because I'm suffering in my own mind. It's nothing to do with them.

Edited

Have you ever considered that the restaurant staff and other people that you can’t be bothered to be nice to may have also had difficult, sad and tragic events happen to them? And there you are making their life worse. Well done you.

Hottchoc · 24/04/2025 20:28

I've worked with a few, a random one but sticks out to me as the nicest I've met is Jon Bentley.

Foolsgold74 · 24/04/2025 20:29

BunnyLake · 24/04/2025 15:59

Not in my experience, they have been good natured and good humoured. Perhaps I have been lucky. My two female managers made me feel depressed and anxious.

2 out of the millions of female managers in the world is hardly a trend.

FridayFeelingmidweek · 24/04/2025 20:29

ASNQuery · 24/04/2025 17:10

i was told a story about Nadiya Hussein being a complete diva at a food festival. Really surprised but the events person couldn’t wait to get rid of her after the event was over.

Doesn't Nadiya have a severe anxiety problem/diagnosis? Might explain behaviour in public. She did an amazing documentary on bbc.

Coffeeishot · 24/04/2025 20:31

TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 24/04/2025 20:28

I’m noticing a bit of a trend whereby well bred people seem to treat people well but footballers who tend to be from peasant stock, get all hoity toity when they get a bob or two…

Prince Harry excepted!

Which "stock" are you from ?

oldmanandtheangel · 24/04/2025 20:32

Worked on James Whale's show
Lovely man, and always had my back

Pervertsex · 24/04/2025 20:32

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Tooty78 · 24/04/2025 20:32

@FiercelyFree

The Human League - all friendly and down to earth.

I worked with Phil Oakey, when he was but a lad of 19, and before he became famous.
Happy to confirm he is an absolutely lovely man.

TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 24/04/2025 20:33

Coffeeishot · 24/04/2025 20:31

Which "stock" are you from ?

Definitely peasant, or below that, if possible!

TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 24/04/2025 20:34

oldmanandtheangel · 24/04/2025 20:32

Worked on James Whale's show
Lovely man, and always had my back

Did he get cancelled?

FridayFeelingmidweek · 24/04/2025 20:34

LittleBitofBread · 24/04/2025 18:04

I know someone who had a relationship with him and he dumped her very casually and unceremoniously. She asked why he'd bothered with her as he clearly wasn't really into her, and he shrugged and said, 'It's nice to have someone around.'

John Humphrys was a cunt. Just like on the radio. Argumentative, surly, and combative for no reason.

Joan Bakewell was a joy: funny, polite, charming.

Paul Merton was shy, quiet, unassuming, but very passionate and articulate once he got going talking about comedy history.

I still can't believe the bbc etc continue to give Tennant a platform after his terrible comments on tv about Kemi Badenoch (I'm no Tory, but publically trying to silence a woman and then say she shouldn't exist is such clear entitled misogyny that i find it so odd it's been ignored.

Not surprised he's been described by some on here in such a negative way.

LillyPJ · 24/04/2025 20:34

justasking111 · 24/04/2025 19:53

I have a friend whose husband is also a private pilot and annoyingly discreet 🤣. He did say that the majority of famous faces are nice though.

Same here. My friend who's a private pilot said Chris de Burgh was lovely.

DorothywiththeRedShoes · 24/04/2025 20:34

TheDandyLion · 24/04/2025 10:45

I worked for a famous therapist quack who has made millions on selling bullshit theories. When projects started to show no conclusive evidence to support her methodology she sacked most of those staff and replaced them with sales people instead just to keep flogging her books, shows and online courses. Her episode on Diary of a CEO was just pure bogus.

Would love to know who this is, can we have a clue?

katseyes7 · 24/04/2025 20:36

*Lazlothevampire *
I met both Liam and Noel Gallagher a few times (all l will say is that my ex lived near Liam and 'knew' him) and l agree with you.
Liam is the polar opposite of his public persona, he's very kind and generous, down to earth, and very funny. And absolutely adores his mam, who is the loveliest lady. She even sent me Christmas cards and a get well card when l was ill.
Noel could be fine or (shall l say) 'reserved' depending on the day. Maybe depending on how much his brother had wound him up that day as well....

ChainVaper · 24/04/2025 20:38

Eddie Marsan - Really normal and lovely unassuming guy

Aiden Gillen - Lovely ! Very friendly

DreamTheMoors · 24/04/2025 20:41

Odiebay · 24/04/2025 14:34

I live by rowan atkinson. Such a recluse. Always nice enough but would rather not be talked too!

Jeremey clarkson .. said to me "I assume you want my autograph" and got offended when I asked who he was 😂

Ant and Dec... Dec was lovely but seemed to be over nice to make up for how rude ant was!

Cat deely.. very stressed and shouting all the time

Alan Carr.. lovely lovely lovely. Could talk to him all day!

Graham Norton. Quieter than I thought he would be but very warm and sweet!

Taylor swift, super nice. I was expecting the worst but she talked to me for at least 15 minutes between shoots. She kept coming back saying " I was just thinking about what you said" and carried on the conversation. She gives you a lot of attention and looks you right in the eye when talking so made me feel a little on edge 😂. She seems incredibly intelligent as does her publicist. Can't remember her name but she was fab!

Miley Cyrus - very nice but strictly professional. Sensational voice live.

Ariana I met recently and honestly she just seemed sad. Couldn't relate to her at all and was nice enough but felt very fake/acted.

Little mix - perrie was really loud and nice, jade did the majority of the talking but seemed the most grounded, Leighanne was sweet and shy but then suddenly seemed loud and had big ideas 😂

Anna kendrick- nice and polite. Didn't talk much but seems well liked

I saw a clip of Rowan Atkinson on Graham Norton a day or two ago relating an incident at an auto parts store where he was waiting at the counter when a man approached him and told him that “he had an uncanny resemblance to Mr. Bean.”
Atkinson told the man quietly, “well, actually, I AM Rowan Atkinson, the actor who portrays Mr. Bean.”
The man scoffed and laughed and said good one. You ALMOST look like Mr. Bean.
They argued back and forth for a few minutes, the man getting madder and madder and madder, until Atkinson gave up.
lol

Leafy3 · 24/04/2025 20:41

ChainVaper · 24/04/2025 20:38

Eddie Marsan - Really normal and lovely unassuming guy

Aiden Gillen - Lovely ! Very friendly

They're both wonderful actors :)

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