It’s a tricky situation!
It’s my bday tomorrow. For the past few years, DH has stopped buying bday cards, gifts (also nothing for Mother’s day, not even a card). What with the fuss I made about not getting a Mother’s Day card, I’d like to believe that he was planning on buying me a bday card and he did mention a few days ago about buying me a cake, which is more than what I had wished for (just wanted a card), so it was looking hopeful!
Any way, he just told me that he hasn’t got me a cake, nor a card for tomorrow. However… I’m not allowed to be upset because he fell ill yesterday and ended up spending the day in A&E (and had to rest today). So of course I feel for him and can’t be upset. I’m just feeling down because I know for a fact he will let tomorrow go by and I’ll recieve nothing belated.
I truly would have appreciated a hand written note on a screwed up piece of paper just to say happy bday and sorry I couldn’t get out to get you a proper card, rather than him just telling me that he hasn’t got me a card!
It’s just getting to me - I’m not asking for expensive gifts (of any gifts) just a Mothers Day card from our children and a bday card from him/them (kids are too young to buy).
Do I just have to get over this one…again?