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Easter Sunday as family event like Xmas day?

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skinnyoptionsonly · 19/04/2025 21:52

When I was younger, we celebrated Easter very similar to Christmas Day with extended family members.

For various reasons now I don’t see it as any kind of special family day.
My kids are with their father. It’s a normal Sunday to me (Plus chocolate obviously).
Even if kids were here, it would still be a fairly normal Sunday

Am I alone in this ?

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0ohLarLar · 19/04/2025 23:34

It's not about the Easter bunny but the anniversary of Resurrection of Jesus

For the Christian festival its about that, it also coincides with traditional spring celebrations (seasonal foods, depictions of eggs/baby animals/new life, early spring flowers). These celebrations are every bit as valuable as Christian ones.

Pomer0l · 19/04/2025 23:34

@Ishoulddomore a bit bored tonight?

sunshineandshowers40 · 19/04/2025 23:34

We just had a nice meal at home when I was a child in the 80/90s.

We try and see family especially as there are so many children- it's lovely for my children and my nieces/ nephews- if not a little stressful!

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queenofthesuburbs · 19/04/2025 23:40

89redballoons · 19/04/2025 23:14

My family is Catholic, and it's a special day for us, but not on the level of Christmas in terms of all of the decorations, presents, special food, loads of time off work etc.

My mum took the kids to get some food blessed at church this morning, and we'll have that tomorrow for breakfast before going to Mass. Egg hunt in the park and roast lamb for dinner. The food blessing bit is a Polish tradition (where my family are from) so they went to the Polish church for that.

DS1 is at a Catholic school and so he's been learning about Easter and Lent, and they had an "Easter festival" on the last day of term which involved an Easter bonnet parade and performing arts competitions and stuff.

All that said, if you asked my kids what the most exciting time of the year is, they would without a doubt say Christmas rather than Easter. The Christmas story is quite a bit more accessible for kids than the Easter story, too.

The Poles do both Easter and Christmas so well! I love the tradition of blessing the baskets of food and the colourful dried palm fronds on Palm Sunday

Isn't there also a custom on Bank holiday Monday for boys to sprinkle the girls with water, or is that another day?

HardyKoala · 19/04/2025 23:40

DenholmElliot11 · 19/04/2025 21:57

you don't invite other family members to yours on Easter Sunday when you're celebrating with your kids? Why not?

I get that if you're child free though you might not want to celebrate.

What would we be celebrating?

It has never crossed my mind to do anything beyond give the kids Easter eggs. Maybe a bit of a hunt when really little.

It’s just a normal Sunday surely

Bubobubo · 19/04/2025 23:44

It's a celebration in our home. I've baked several things and have already prepped the veg.
We'll go to mass in the morning and my dad is heading over for the day.

Might do a walk, or watch a film and we have a new game too.

We never really celebrated when we were growing up, but my parents weren't religious - mum is a lapsed catholic. It was a normal Sunday really.

It feels like Christmas for me, just way less stressful and warmer.

minnienono · 19/04/2025 23:45

I have my family here, good excuse to get together and cook lamb

HardyKoala · 19/04/2025 23:49

i reckon the entire 25 odd church goers in the UK are on this thread. It spins my mind to hear it - quaint really

Conkerjar · 19/04/2025 23:50

I find this post interesting. We did nothing at easter - we were given eggs, v grateful for that, and then made to ration them for the two weeks worth of holiday (to begin with there was the 'wait until actual easter' thing but there must have been a year like this one where the weekend landed right at the end and my Mum couldn't handle us asking for 2 solid weeks, and from then I guess the rule changed!) and plenty of sonic 2 on the megadrive. No egg hunts. Probably decorated something at school, and there will have been a hundred smelly decorated eggs in boxes in the hall before we broke up. I had an easter bonnet one year as a kid, again for school. It was never a home occasion though, ever. No meal. I have found it weirder and weirder growing up, moving away a bit and realising that people do egg hunts?! and that apparently (I learned this year) you have lamb on Easter Sunday?! We learned all about Jesus at school, but other than the chocolate, there was nothing at home. My friend is cooking for us tomorrow and I'm delighted, but it'll be the first time I've ever had an easter gathering. I'm from the NE originally and I'm interested to know whether anyone else had an entirely uneventful childhood of Easters. (Though I had a hand decorated egg with my name on one year, that was very special.)

Ishoulddomore · 19/04/2025 23:50

Pomer0l · 19/04/2025 23:34

@Ishoulddomore a bit bored tonight?

Yep😂

HardyKoala · 19/04/2025 23:53

I’ve learnt about the lamb thing this very minute on the thread. Never heard of it before. Seems a bit weird really, like ‘yay, Spring, rebirth, babies’ ‘actually let’s munch on a baby sheep to celebrate.’

And I love meat.

LBFseBrom · 19/04/2025 23:54

skinnyoptionsonly · 19/04/2025 21:52

When I was younger, we celebrated Easter very similar to Christmas Day with extended family members.

For various reasons now I don’t see it as any kind of special family day.
My kids are with their father. It’s a normal Sunday to me (Plus chocolate obviously).
Even if kids were here, it would still be a fairly normal Sunday

Am I alone in this ?

It is quite an event for some people. It's become over-commercialised like many other things but Easter is lovely for those who like it. Six minutes to go......

dementedpixie · 19/04/2025 23:55

@TeamMandrake I'm in Scotland and the schools in my area are off Easter Monday and back in on Tuesday

TunipTheVegimal24 · 19/04/2025 23:55

We usually have a big family get-together, with tea / cakes. A load of the family have fallen out recently about nothing 🙄so not this year. PLUS, it's getting a bit difficult to host all the generations of people in one place. Still doing an egg hunt for my littlies though, then celebrating with my family, brother's family and parents, by going to National Trust and then having a meal together. Have bought eggs for the adults, and bubbles for the children. Can't wait!

Conkerjar · 19/04/2025 23:55

HardyKoala · 19/04/2025 23:53

I’ve learnt about the lamb thing this very minute on the thread. Never heard of it before. Seems a bit weird really, like ‘yay, Spring, rebirth, babies’ ‘actually let’s munch on a baby sheep to celebrate.’

And I love meat.

I thought the same!

I find I never know when pancake day or Easter actually are. I never know which day is properly Easter either, out of the Friday and the Sunday and is there some stuff the week before?? The dates change all the time. I don't know how I'm expected to keep up. 😆

WilfredsPies · 19/04/2025 23:56

Just a normal day for us. I’ve been eating eggs for weeks and we’re not church people. We have got family coming over, but they pop in most weekends, so unrelated to Easter. We’ll probably have a roast on Monday but, again, that’s not unusual. We’ll probably have lamb but that’s because I love it and haven’t had it for ages.

AliAtHome · 19/04/2025 23:58

Another one here where Easter is a family event. In many ways prefer it to Christmas (which I also love) because there’s so much less pressure and not such a long/big build up.

Kneice · 19/04/2025 23:59

We have family coming tomorrow, 17 of us. Hot & cold buffet, drinks, Easter egg hunt and just nice family gathering. Late mum used to do a big roast so we like to keep up the family tradition albeit different food arrangements.

TwinklyNight · 20/04/2025 00:00

We used to but the dc are adults and I don't have the stamina to have guests. We usually go to our ds and dil for occasions but they are on holiday.
We aren't religious so it is more of a celebration of spring.

Alifemoreordinary123 · 20/04/2025 00:00

We have a very small family and invited them but they have a prior commitment (randomly, someone they know is having a birthday party on Easter Sunday). So we’ll be alone - a bit sad but typical of our family really. We’re not the most social and don’t have tonnes of friends so it is what it is. We’re having an egg hunt in the morning and going out for lunch. So a special day for the children. Not everyone has close family to celebrate this stuff with and not everyone wants to spend their time with those they do have.

Conkerjar · 20/04/2025 00:01

This is wild. Truly. I never knew people did meals, I swear. It's starting to give me the same feeling as Eid does, thinking about other people celebrating when I'm not. Not good or bad, just, huh, that's a thing people do.

WilfredsPies · 20/04/2025 00:02

Conkerjar · 19/04/2025 23:55

I thought the same!

I find I never know when pancake day or Easter actually are. I never know which day is properly Easter either, out of the Friday and the Sunday and is there some stuff the week before?? The dates change all the time. I don't know how I'm expected to keep up. 😆

I know this but only because I was sent to Sunday school (by atheist parents, no less 🤨) as a child.

You’ve got Maundy Thursday, which remembers the Last Supper. Good Friday, which is the day Jesus was crucified and the main event is Easter Sunday, which celebrates his resurrection.

I’ve never been sure when pancake day is or what it represents though. Clearly I wasn’t paying attention that Sunday!

Conkerjar · 20/04/2025 00:05

WilfredsPies · 20/04/2025 00:02

I know this but only because I was sent to Sunday school (by atheist parents, no less 🤨) as a child.

You’ve got Maundy Thursday, which remembers the Last Supper. Good Friday, which is the day Jesus was crucified and the main event is Easter Sunday, which celebrates his resurrection.

I’ve never been sure when pancake day is or what it represents though. Clearly I wasn’t paying attention that Sunday!

As soon as giving something up was mentioned years ago my ears slammed shut. 😅

queenofthesuburbs · 20/04/2025 00:06

Conkerjar · 19/04/2025 23:55

I thought the same!

I find I never know when pancake day or Easter actually are. I never know which day is properly Easter either, out of the Friday and the Sunday and is there some stuff the week before?? The dates change all the time. I don't know how I'm expected to keep up. 😆

I think eating lamb is symbolic of the Lamb of God - the paschal lamb being a Jewish Passover sacrifice and Christ on the Cross being sacrificed for humanity

SP2024 · 20/04/2025 00:08

We tend to visit family. More because it’s a long weekend. Lots of chocolate and morning church too so kinda like Christmas!

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