What do you think looks, or is, trashy? In terms of appearance AND character?

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Interested in reading a wide range of opinions. Not intended as a goady thread - I've posted to widen my own perspective.

I assume you mean owning a French bulldog? Otherwise that seems a bit mean and unfair to them 😅

Excellent point. Dolly is amazing.

"hot tubs in terraced house gardens".
So it's semi detached or detached only?
I'm guessing not social housing?

For women it’s lip fillers. Fake tan, especially on the face. Tattooed makeup.

For men it’s those long shorts that come to mid-calf and any kind of tattoo but especially the leg ones. Baseball caps when it’s not sunny.

What if the monkey has a nose piercing?

No worries. Sorry if my response was a bit defensive. Feeling a bit hormonal today LOL

"SCUMM"!

Rtft 🙄

My father was in a care home, and in the latter stages of dementia he was cared for by a young man. This young man had dreadlocks, tattoos all over, piercings and those long lobes. He was the kindest and most patient carer with my Dad, and watching him feed my Dad and wipe his mouth, chatting away to him all the while, brought tears to my eyes.
He would have been low waged as well.
Sone people on here no doubt would judge this young man as trashy, or even "scumm".
How wrong they would be.

The Cambridge Dictionary begs to differ.
Scum -- a layer of unpleasant or unwanted material that has formed on the top of a liquid:
It's wider definition stems directly from this.

Amputations????

you mean people are having body parts removed deliberately???

The homeless man who hangs about outside our local Sainsbury's guarding all his worldly possessions in a shopping trolley. Last seen modelling a threadbare coat that's three sizes too big for him and his shoes are definitely from more than three seasons ago. Trashy alright. In fact there's literal trash involved. What a horrible thread.

People who make themselves look like a Bratz doll.

Discussing anything money except salary with anyone who isn’t a close friend. Salary should be discussed as it’s how we avoid unequal pay but otherwise money bragging is trashy.

Exceptions are made when friends are asking for help. For example my best friend asking me to look over her mortgage offer because I’m the only home owner she knows and she wanted advice.

People covered in tattoos, especially those with quotes/kids' names on
Doing weird pouts in photos which make them look like they're squeezing a shit out.
Exposing bum cheeks

Rtft

I have. What did I miss?

Fake tan, but worse than that, an actual dark brown sun tan on white skin - smacks of those nose sprays.
Massiver overfilled cheeks.
Overfilled lips.
New white cars (Audi, merc, Range Rover, etc).
Being painfully over groomed and self conscious looking (men and women).

SCUMM!!!

The part where Jean-Paul Sartre shows up. It all makes perfect sense then.

I think you haven't read what I've posted.

you think people who have body modifications are scum?

emotionally damaged, i would agree with. Scum, no.

Yes I did.

You know exactly what I meant by amputation!

Anyone who appeared on Jeremy Kyle.
Anyone that sits on their front doorstep with a fag and a can of Kestrel at 10am.
Anyone with a mattress permanently housed in their front garden.
Wearing pjs to the shop (no better if they are clean on after a shower).
Going out braless in a top designed to show protruding nipples.
Driving a 'luxury' brand car but living in a grotty house.

Okay, I admit. It's not as clear cut as being scumm-y. Emotionally damaged people can choose to become scummy, though.