What do you think looks, or is, trashy? In terms of appearance AND character?

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Interested in reading a wide range of opinions. Not intended as a goady thread - I've posted to widen my own perspective.

Do you understand the “in terms of appearance” bit?

Edited to add: the second part of your reply completely contradicts the first part.

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Youth Hostelling With Chris Eubank

Monkey Tennis

Absolutely.

I don't know how that would have helped seeing as how 'scumm' isn't a word.

Yes, you're right about Dolly.

She herself says she looks trashy but as you say she is an amazing person.

I would say I judge more on behaviour than appearance to be honest.

But most of us make split second assumptions.

Personally, I'm happy to be challenged on them and will always treat people well until they do something to change my opinion.

Sentence one. Missing the word of.
Sentence two. It’s fathers not father’s… not that it makes any sense anyway.

Smell my cheese!

https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/scummy

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JURASSIC PARK

I think with Monkey Tennis it very much depends on the attire and attitude of the individual monkeys, it's not right to write off the whole sport. Others I agree with.

Scum isn’t a word

I think denigrating people’s characters and appearance based on them making different, but morally neutral choices to you is trashy.

Even if you judge on behaviour, you'll miss out. Just because someone wipes their nose on their sleeve or chews gum, doesn't mean they lack value as a human being.

My opinion, so no pile on, but I hate big blingy diamanté/diamond studs on boys. No nose studs, I really dislike them (again, just my opinion) and massive fake nails, especially on young girls, year 7 seem to have an epidemic although they’re supposed to be banned at school.

I think pandora bracelets are so popular now that they’ve become trashy.

In terms of character, I agree, being loud and obnoxious is so horrible, I avoid people who are verbally aggressive, makes me cringe, possibly related to the neighbour who attacked me being like this.

Those stupid headbands that some parents put on their baby DDs. Especially the ones with the big bows. Why do they need them?

Babies have died as the band slips over their nose.

Yes I no, i was just pointing out what she ACTUALLY said. Doesn't matter, her intentions are obvious

That isn't helping, scumm is not the singular of scummy. Think about mum and mummy , similar approach.

Is a monkey in a thong more or less trashy than a naked monkey?

I agree with this wholeheartedly. I judge first on character, not appearance. While tattoos are obviously not character defect, I do however, draw the line at facial tattoos and body modifications such as amputation.

If you're amputating, always best to draw a line ime.

Father's who choose not to abandon their DC.

You think fathers who choose not to abandon their dc are trashy?

I don't know about trashy, I am sure some of them are not trashy at all, but I'm absolutely baffled by the way women - especially influencers - on Instagram have sort of merged to look identical. Like there's a uniform for the face and hair. And out in the real world you see young girls emulating this look. (Pretty badly, often.)
It didn't exist a decade ago. Where has it come from? What is it for? Why does it have to be so time-consuming? Who is applying the peer pressure? Do the women not realise it's a bit weird to have eyebrows and eyelashes and lips like that? Or that wearing that much make-up is extreme? I understand grooming but I don't understand this excessive grooming, en masse, to all look the same.

Ah, I misspelled the word 'scummy' for 'scumm'. HTH

They should be down the old Bull and Bush as nature intended. Not stuck indoors wearing thongs with Chris Eubank.