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Why do men think it's ok to shout when there's rugby or football on tv?

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GoodVibesHere · 15/03/2025 17:17

Really annoys me, there's rugby or something on tv and my neighbour has made me jump out of my skin several times already with his stupid shouting. It's so annoying that men think it's ok to shout in their stupid bellowing voices.

OP posts:
Mochudubh · 15/03/2025 18:03

I've literally just shouted "YA DAFT FUMBLY BASTARD"! at a Welsh rugby player. I'm not even Welsh.

Edited to make more SHOUTY.

Livpool · 15/03/2025 18:03

I shout when my team play football - I’m female. How loud are they that you jump?!

crumblingschools · 15/03/2025 18:04

@Mochudubh me too!

Oolliivviiaa · 15/03/2025 18:04

Mochudubh · 15/03/2025 18:03

I've literally just shouted "YA DAFT FUMBLY BASTARD"! at a Welsh rugby player. I'm not even Welsh.

Edited to make more SHOUTY.

Edited

😂 I’m English and shouted when Wales got that disallowed try! I’m also a woman.

PoppysAunt · 15/03/2025 18:06

You should hear me and my auntie when we're watching the horse racing 😄!

Livpool · 15/03/2025 18:07

Stinkbomb · 15/03/2025 17:50

I shout too when my football team is playing (Nottingham Forest) or if England are playing Rugby - why just Men??

You’re doing well this season!

crumblingschools · 15/03/2025 18:07

Wonder if William and Kate are shouting whilst at the match, even Royalty shout. Seem to remember the Queen getting excited when one of her horses was winning

PoppysAunt · 15/03/2025 18:08

Plus, I'm fairly certain my neighbours heard me shouting at the tv when I saw Trump and Vance bully Zelensky. My language was very strong 😡

PoppysAunt · 15/03/2025 18:08

crumblingschools · 15/03/2025 18:07

Wonder if William and Kate are shouting whilst at the match, even Royalty shout. Seem to remember the Queen getting excited when one of her horses was winning

I saw William and George shouting when they were watching the football!

Daftsheep · 15/03/2025 18:09

Stupid twat who lived above me used to do this, yelling and swearing when the football was on then he'd run around the room whooping loudly when his team scored.

So glad I moved away.

clary · 15/03/2025 18:09

I shout at the athletics. And if I am watching DS2 play on a live stream. It was bc I was shouting that Azu won gold in Apeldoorn.

I'm a woman btw.

MuchTooTired · 15/03/2025 18:10

I never used to understand it either, until my 7 year old started playing footy for a team. Still don’t really understand what’s going on, but I am a very enthusiastic (and loud) supporter, so I can understand why both sexes shout now!

MemorableTrenchcoat · 15/03/2025 18:11

GoodVibesHere · 15/03/2025 17:30

The reason I said men is because I've never heard a woman doing it. I've only ever heard the deep sudden horrible shout from blokes when they're watching sport. There is a woman living next door too, but I've never heard her shout. Maybe she's not into sport or maybe the man's voice is deeper so travels further? Women's voices aren't so aggresive sounding. My DH does it too. I've also heard my uncles and my brothers do it. I've never heard my mum do it or any other woman.

I’ve heard plenty of women doing it. My mother shouts at matches on TV far more loudly than my father ever does, despite having no real interest in sport.

ShyMaryEllen · 15/03/2025 18:12

My last-but-one NDN used to roar like a bull when watching sport, and I hated it. I never heard his wife do it - in fact I never heard any female voices. I think he just invited blokes round to watch with him.

It is threatening when men shout, and there's no need for it when a match is on TV - it's not like the players can hear anything. Shouts of encouragement in a stadium is one thing, but it's OTT in a suburban sitting room.

BlumminFreezin · 15/03/2025 18:12

Yeah, minding my own business on MN here and DH just scared the shit out of me a few minutes ago by his sudden 'FUCKING GET IT IN RUN YOU LITTLE BEAUTY FUCKING YES YES NO NO NO AHHH FUCKING HELL FUCKING RUN NO NO YOU STUPID BASTARD!!'

🙄

feathermucker · 15/03/2025 18:13

I shout when football is on sometimes 😌🤣

nahthatsnotforme · 15/03/2025 18:14

It’s my husbands commentary that really bugs me. You won’t find anyone who loathes football more than me but I accept others enjoy it. I just don’t want to listen to the bloody stupid comments.

GoodVibesHere · 15/03/2025 18:16

MemorableTrenchcoat · 15/03/2025 18:11

I’ve heard plenty of women doing it. My mother shouts at matches on TV far more loudly than my father ever does, despite having no real interest in sport.

I think I must just be lucky then, that none of the females in my family have a hobby that makes them scream and shout! Thankfully my DH is out this evening, so it's just the neighbour doing it. If DH was here I know he'd be randomly jumping up and shouting at the top of his voice.

I'm just not into sport at all (can you tell Grin) so just can't imagine ever shouting so crazily at the tv.

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Screamingabdabz · 15/03/2025 18:17

Oh jeez the typical men-excuser posts of ‘women are just as bad’. No. Men shout at the tv because it releases some safety valve which usually keeps their innate propensity for tribal aggression at bay.

I have the most lovely gentle husband pointlessly shouting at the Googlebox at the rugby right now too, and yes, it makes you jump. It’s horrible. I don’t say anything because he’s enjoying it and it doesn’t hurt, but I’m not so afraid of the twatty ‘sexist’ police to say I agree, it’s fucking annoying.

crumblingschools · 15/03/2025 18:17

@GoodVibesHere maybe you should give it a go!

PoppysAunt · 15/03/2025 18:18

crumblingschools · 15/03/2025 18:17

@GoodVibesHere maybe you should give it a go!

Yes! It's very therapeutic!

MemorableTrenchcoat · 15/03/2025 18:20

Screamingabdabz · 15/03/2025 18:17

Oh jeez the typical men-excuser posts of ‘women are just as bad’. No. Men shout at the tv because it releases some safety valve which usually keeps their innate propensity for tribal aggression at bay.

I have the most lovely gentle husband pointlessly shouting at the Googlebox at the rugby right now too, and yes, it makes you jump. It’s horrible. I don’t say anything because he’s enjoying it and it doesn’t hurt, but I’m not so afraid of the twatty ‘sexist’ police to say I agree, it’s fucking annoying.

I find the sound of my mother mindlessly shrieking at the television to be a total PITA. I fail to see how this makes me a “men-excuser”.

crumblingschools · 15/03/2025 18:21

Love going to watch football with DS. Normally a quiet soul he does get in to football chants and songs (although misses out the swear words!).

Deedeesharpwhatkindoflady · 15/03/2025 18:22

SherlockHomies · 15/03/2025 17:27

Actually I've just remembered my mum (who would be 94 if she was still alive) shouting at the wrestling during the 1970s/1980s.

Big Daddy and Giant Haystacks used to send her into a frenzy! 🤣🤣

My Gran was the same,she got really involved 😁

frozendaisy · 15/03/2025 18:22

GoodVibesHere · 15/03/2025 17:46

Yes I have told my DH it's horrible please don't shout like that.

Well there you go one less male shouting now you need to work on your other male relatives. Baby steps OP