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Kyle Clifford - does it make you think the death penalty in some cases might be right?

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mids2019 · 07/03/2025 05:25

Read about Kyle Clifford's crimes and although for most of my life objected to the death penalty actually found it difficult to find reasons in this case not to have it. I really just couldn't think of justification for keeping the guy alive as there. Is no hope of redemption, reformation or education leading to a man being able to renenter scoiety. We would be in a position of keeping someone alive for pets face it the ideological reasons we don't believe it is rig h for the state to forcibly take a life.

Maybe my mind might change but reading about that blokes crimes I think sometimes you do forfeit the right to life.

OP posts:
PassingStranger · 07/03/2025 15:41

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 07/03/2025 15:06

I cannot remember how many suicide attempts Ian Huntley made, certainly two or three. He'd probably have ran happily to the gallows if he'd been sentenced to it. Instead he's been repeatedly attacked in prison and I think lost sight in one of his eyes and probably lives each day experiencing some kind of fear and anxiety. Not something he (or anyone in their right mind) would ever have chosen but to me far better than him getting his own way and a way out.

But he did choose it.
He didn't have to do what he did. He'd be a free man today if he'd chosen a different path.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/03/2025 15:42

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 15:31

But women don’t want that. You might be happy for your main relationship to be the Hitachi Magic Wand, but most of us aren’t. We want a sexual and romantic relationship with a flesh and blood man. You’re underestimating how much women value sex and romantic attachment, probably because you’re of the view women are less sexual. A piece of battery operated plastic cannot compete with the warmth of a human being. If I had little or no prospect of a relationship with a man, and no romance in my life, I would be depressed.

This is why feminism fails: women prioritising a relationship with a man over a class-based understanding of male violence and avoiding men on that basis.

You have no idea, none at all, just how much some men hate you.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 15:44

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/03/2025 15:42

This is why feminism fails: women prioritising a relationship with a man over a class-based understanding of male violence and avoiding men on that basis.

You have no idea, none at all, just how much some men hate you.

I’m not going to avoid men just to end up living some kind of half-life of work, chit chat and not much else. 99% of women wouldn’t. We don’t owe you our happiness.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 07/03/2025 15:45

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/03/2025 15:39

I'm talking about verdicts based on circumstantial evidence as a class being inherently less reliable than ones based on direct evidence, in a thread where posters are suggesting a sliding scale of guilt as the basis for reinstatement of the death penalty and, in doing so, contradicting the core principle of jury trials. I am not saying that any specific individual who is currently in jail should be acquitted or released.

I am frankly absolutely sick to the back teeth of people misinterpreting defence of the criminal trial process as sympathy for murderers. Every time we have a thread about trials, someone will make this misinterpretation.

The post you were responding to directly mentioned Levi Bellfield so what do you expect?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/03/2025 15:46

MorrisZapp · 07/03/2025 15:34

No they aren't. Extreme violence in adults is correlated with early exposure to violence in childhood. Of course there are exceptions.

Studies of adopted children have shown that violent tendencies are inherited. Adopted kids take after their birth parents. In non-adoptive families, the kids see the violence of the man they inherit from because he is present. That might reinforce the inherited behaviour, but it doesn't cause it. We are not tabulae rasae.

paintedwallpaper · 07/03/2025 15:46

I think he's given himself a worse life than the death penalty TBH. He's now paralysed and has to live with what he has done forever.

Horrible man deserves it.

LindorDoubleChoc · 07/03/2025 15:46

You seem to think trolling is restricted to lying @selffellatingouroborosofhate. Both the Oxford and Cambridge dictionaries define it as someone posting or commenting online to deliberately upset others. This is what you were doing when you made your suggestion about aborting all male foetuses.

Whoarethoseguys · 07/03/2025 15:48

No, taking a life is never right, even if done by the state. If murder is wrong it is always wrong no matter how evil the person you want to kill is you can't say killing is wrong except when someone decides that the person doesn't deserve to live. We are better than that and justice should never be about revenge.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 15:54

LindorDoubleChoc · 07/03/2025 15:46

You seem to think trolling is restricted to lying @selffellatingouroborosofhate. Both the Oxford and Cambridge dictionaries define it as someone posting or commenting online to deliberately upset others. This is what you were doing when you made your suggestion about aborting all male foetuses.

I don’t think they’re trying to upset, I feel this poster is just incredibly ideological and absolutist in their thinking because they have a poor view of men and likely no male relationships they find fulfilling (correct me if wrong).

Tirry · 07/03/2025 16:05

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 15:54

I don’t think they’re trying to upset, I feel this poster is just incredibly ideological and absolutist in their thinking because they have a poor view of men and likely no male relationships they find fulfilling (correct me if wrong).

I just feel sad for this poster. Probably someone quite lonely and isolated. Let’s move on.

PassingStranger · 07/03/2025 16:35

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/03/2025 14:29

#notmynigel says every mother. "Not my Alex", said a woman in Southport who is now wondering what she and her DH did wrong. "Not my Kyle". "Not my Wayne, he's a respectable police officer", said Mrs Couzins.

They have access to the internet, which means that they can consume the bilge that floods out of the manosphere and ever-more-violent porn. You have no idea whether your son will turn out like Kyle. You cannot control that outcome.

Axels father knew what he was like. He stopped him getting in a taxi the week before.

PassingStranger · 07/03/2025 16:38

Hazeby · 07/03/2025 06:51

This. Why do so many people think prison is easy?

Your freedom has been taken anyway - you’ll never go to a beach, or a pub, or a birthday party, or Sainsbury’s or any other hundreds of things we take for granted. You have no autonomy over your life, you’ll spend it in the same routine in similar places with very little variation for the rest of your life. Decades. It’s definitely punishment and rightly so.

Sainsburys lol.
On the other hand, you will.get free food, board, and access to doctors and dentists without having to wait.
You've got no stress of trying to.pay the bills.

Snugglemonkey · 07/03/2025 16:39

RIPVPROG · 07/03/2025 06:27

State sanctioned killing doesn't make countries safer. The US have the death penalty and harsher sentencing, with prisons with no rehabilitation focus, their recidivism rates are double ours.
Also people saying prison is easy haven't been in them. The conditions in lots especially the state owned estates are grim, huge issues with disrepair, rats, some are so understaffed prisoners have been on 23 hour a day bang up for years and have a shower a couple of times a week, in facilities I wouldn't wash my cat in. Don't believe everything you see in the press. I've seen it with my eyes in a professional capacity.

I agree. People have a skewed idea of what prison is like, which is mot helpful. We need more rehabilitation to reduce recidivism, not just more brutality.

LostMyLanyard · 07/03/2025 16:44

Ask yourself this before you decide that the death penalty should be brought back:

Would you be happy to be the person administering the lethal injection, or pulling the lever?

I have thought about this occasionally (usually at the height of some atrocious murder case) and wondered whether death would be a suitable punishment - but know that I'd never be able to carry out the procedure.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 16:47

Did anyone see the BBC doc on the Nottingham murders? That was basically proof parents can only do so much. Valdo Caolcane’s brother was on the documentary and was an incredibly polite, articulate young man who seemed to have complete empathy for his brother’s victims and has written to their families to apologise (even though he didn’t do anything). His parents have somehow managed to raise 2 sons, one a credit to them, the other a mass murderer due to a MH crisis.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 16:49

LostMyLanyard · 07/03/2025 16:44

Ask yourself this before you decide that the death penalty should be brought back:

Would you be happy to be the person administering the lethal injection, or pulling the lever?

I have thought about this occasionally (usually at the height of some atrocious murder case) and wondered whether death would be a suitable punishment - but know that I'd never be able to carry out the procedure.

Would you be happy to carry out late term abortions even if you believe in them? Or abortions at all?

LostMyLanyard · 07/03/2025 16:57

@Wildflowers99

Yes, absolutely, if I were a doctor.

Wildflowers99 · 07/03/2025 17:00

LostMyLanyard · 07/03/2025 16:57

@Wildflowers99

Yes, absolutely, if I were a doctor.

I wouldn’t. I’m a hypocrite because I believe in abortions up to a certain point but don’t think I could carry them out myself. I think I would be ok administering a lethal injection to KC though. Because ending the life, or potential life, of a 100% innocent human being is far harder than the life of a triple murderer and sadist who has brought untold suffering and misery.

Boomer55 · 07/03/2025 17:06

He’s an awful specimen of humankind, but I expect he’ll feel worse having to endure a full life sentence.

zingally · 07/03/2025 17:18

I disagree with the death penalty on moral grounds. But certainly wouldn't be opposed to a life-changing beating. I'd have queued up to have my own go on Sara Sharif's father after listening to the judges sentencing.

I do think that those on a life sentence, where there's absolutely not even a shred of doubt that they did it, that their lives should be miserable. I'm talking starvation rations, no commissary, no entertainment of any kind. Let them sit in a windowless box for the rest of their lives and think about what a fuck-up they are.

wizzywig · 07/03/2025 17:18

He's likely to be sent to a long term sex offender prison which will be a nicer environment. Prison and Healthcare staff who may fall for his sob story. Who knows im sure he'll get plenty of pen pals. He knows how prison works, hes done enough visits.

RingoJuice · 07/03/2025 17:33

PassingStranger · 07/03/2025 16:35

Axels father knew what he was like. He stopped him getting in a taxi the week before.

I would bet this man had a history of domestic abuse. His parents probably knew, they raised another murderer after all.

It’s rarely a shock.

RingoJuice · 07/03/2025 17:35

paintedwallpaper · 07/03/2025 15:46

I think he's given himself a worse life than the death penalty TBH. He's now paralysed and has to live with what he has done forever.

Horrible man deserves it.

He will be living very well with what he has done. He doesn’t feel remorse like a normal person. He will be getting lots of fan letters like all other young male killers and it frankly makes me sick.

deeahgwitch · 07/03/2025 19:00

I'm with you @zingally where you write that if they are 💯guilty, no question, then "their lives should be miserable"- "starvation rations" ( or near it ), "no entertainment. Stuck in a windowless box for the rest of their lives " so they'll have plenty of time to contemplate the awfulness of their crimes.

How can you rehabilitate someone who killed 3 defenceless women in their own home and also raped one of them ?
Or their ilk.

Personally I think our society in the UK and Ireland, is too soft on crime.

SickInBedOnTwoChairs · 07/03/2025 19:26

FionnulaTheCooler · 07/03/2025 07:59

The thing with criminals is that a lot of them don't have the brain power to think their plans through to a logical conclusion so I doubt it would make much difference.

Getting them gone would be no loss then.