Would you go to a wedding on your wedding anniversary?

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If you were invited to a wedding on your own wedding anniversary would you go?

In this scenario it's not a 'big' anniversary
Your spouse isn't invited to the wedding
The wedding is not that of a close family member of friend

Would it be weird if you DID go?

I'd go

I'd go but not that fussed about anniversaries. It's a bit strange they didn't invite your spouse generally though (not because of anniversary date)

I'd go too as long as I wanted to ifyswim

If I wanted to go, I would go! DH wouldn’t be upset. We don’t make a big deal of our anniversary. Possible excuse for a party if it’s a big one but even that prob wouldn’t be on the day itself.

Why wouldn't you?

I’d go.
We’re not big on anniversaries although saying that ours is my birthday so that’s probably why we don’t really put any emphasis on it.

If it's not a milestone anniversary, and i liked the people getting married, I would go. If it was a milestone anniversary I would let them know why I couldn't go and see if the invite was extended.... if it was... free party!

tne date wouldn’t bother me as we are not that big into anniversaries (I like celebrating Mother’s Day etc and that’s enough)

so like above i would go (as with all weddings) only if I really wanted to

Wouldn't even occur to me not to go.

Yeah I’d go. I generally forget mine anyway

Yes why not.

Same here

weird for who?

Yes

Yes definitely Id go. Same as with baby names really........ to paraphrase a well used MN phrase...... "you dont own the day" - inevitably other people will at some point get married on one of the 365/6 available days in a year that happens to be "yours".

Not without my husband.

I'd go. If one of us had a similar invite on our anniversary or something else that meant they were busy we'd do any anniversary activity on another night; we quite often do it on another night anyway.

Wouldn't even occurr to me not to go. Why wouldn't you?

I could have written this post as I'm in exactly the same scenario. I'm going to the wedding. I plan to have many more anniversaries, whilst there will be only one wedding for my friend.

Strangely, I remember everyone elses anniversaries and birthdays- yet never our own! We've rarely even remembered our anniversary as been together so long.

Why wouldn't you go? Why wasn't DH invited? That is a bit odd- even if they don't know him, surely it would include a +1 if they know you are married/have a partner?

Of course I'd go, do you not go to work on your anniversary? If you do why is your friend's wedding less important than work?

Absolutely! What a happy linkage too. But I’m also not so fussed about anniversaries. We do a card, small gift, maybe a day out hiking or visiting somewhere cool, but don’t mind missing it or doing something a week later.

Yes why isn't your DH invited?

If he was you could enjoy it in a secret 'lets pretend this party is our wedding anniversary party' kind of a way

I wouldn't go to any wedding that my Husband wasn't also invited to (possible exception of a night do for a colleague or similar) no matter what day it fell on.

I would go to any event we were invited to on our Wedding anniversary so long as we didn't already have more pressing plans.

It's not a family member's or friend's wedding? Whose wedding is it?

Think it'd depend on who else is going. If there were people whose company i enjoy id go. Don't really do much for anniversaries so that fact wouldn't have much bearing.