The fact that you don’t want a relationship or can’t get sex elsewhere doesn’t entitle you to purchase sex. I will gloss over your glowing account of sex work because I don’t think even you believe it.
Pretty Woman is a repellent film for a number of reasons: that it turns street prostitution into the unimportant prelude to a fairytale aimed at young women.
That its romantic hero is a total dickhead who buys a powerless young street prostitute for a week because it’s simpler than actually forming a relationship with an equal. He then patronises and condescends to her for a week: ‘first time in an elevator’, lecturing her about strawberries bringing out the taste of champagne despite the fact he doesn’t drink and can’t possibly know, embarrassed by her gaucheness at the opera, telling her to smile at the polo etc.
That, after he discovers his lawyer trying to rape his hired girlfriend, he punches him, but in the subsequent argument there is absolutely no reference to the near-rape and physical assault, only to differences about business practices. He doesn’t even fire him.
That the message of the entire firm is that money buys not only consent, but everything: because the ghastly Edward is a valued customer of the hotel, staff go along with the ‘niece’ fiction, and vanish at a word from the restaurant where they are doing their jobs clearing up when he wants to have sex with a prostitute on the grand piano, a shop lends him jewellery worth a quarter of a million dollars, he famously buys the ‘sucking up’ of an entire store’s staff, and enjoys being explicit about this power, and Vivienne, learning fast, gets a shop assistant to hand over his own tie so she can give it to her millionaire john, and calls back to the shop that refused to serve her to taunt the staff.
Vivienne will turn into one of the unhappy blonde ice queen wives she meets at the polo, and Edward will discover the limits of what money can buy when Vivienne’s origins are known and she’s not accepted socially, while Vivienne will discover she’s in fact married to Stucky the lawyer.
Because the fact is that Edward is Stucky the repellent lawyer — work-obsessed, loves the ‘kill’, fine with using prostitutes. Edward and Stucky should get married, they’re a perfect match.