I have been thinking of how to reply to this.
First of all, the comments on here are not directed at this lady directly, who is facing such immense sadness in her life. And of course any decent person has nothing but sympathy for anyone in her situation. She deserves a lovely Christmas doing exactly what she wants!
Happily in the UK, we all have the choice of who we admire and who we go and see. And the threads on here aren’t preventing this lady and her family from fulfilling her wish to greet the royals on Christmas Day.
Respectfully, Republicans have the same right to express their preferences too.
And I agree that it’s possible to do this - on both sides of the argument - without sneering or condescension.
What many of us on the Republican side are asking for is simply the right to have a say! Instead of it being taken for granted that we all feel the same way.
In the interests of honesty, I suppose I do go on to wonder, just personally, why anyone would want to meet a Royal?
Again, to be clear, I am not saying anything to be condescending, but to broaden the argument and be more objective generally, what is it about them that people find alluring?
I would suggest that it’s related to their high status, wealth, and the mystique that those things bring with them?
What would the lady herself say? I’d be interested to know. Is the interest related to what they represent? Or to them as individuals?
It’s hard to express the next bit without sounding condescending but I don’t mean it to be!
Is their attraction related to what we have all been told is alluring from an early age? Beautiful clothes, opulent lifestyles, priceless jewellery? Is it because we secretly would love to live a life like that?
Or is it something purer about feeling that we know them and seeing their dc grow up? A sense of security and continuity? And respect for them because they represent all the fine things in our United Kingdom?
It’s hard to pin down isn’t it?
A Royalist might say, yes I am interested in them as a family and everything they represent such as our forces, our charities, our beautiful countryside and culture.
And Republican might say, we are sold a picture of a family that we know, but we don’t really know them. And for us, our rich culture, beautiful countryside and amazing charities, are all entities that stand on their own merit.
I guess that is where the difference lies.