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Gregg Wallace responds with “A handful of comments from middle class women of a certain age”

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Conniebygaslight · 01/12/2024 09:04

Just heard his comments on the news….unbelievable.

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RedToothBrush · 03/12/2024 11:33

SueSuddio · 03/12/2024 11:29

I'm on the fence with this one.

He seems like a David Brent type - making stupid, crass comments that noone else actually finds funny that makes him look a bit pathetic. I certainly wouldn't have liked him as my boss.

But I'm not sure this warrants a media witch-hunt.

I just worry that this dilutes women's power to unthrone men who have done real harm to women - the al Fayed's etc of this world.

Wallace has pissed off a lot of women but has he ruined anyone's life? Isn't this more of a thing for the BBC as an employer to sort out?

Also, women seem to be great at coming out and rounding on twerps like Wallace, but where are they when women are being hounded out of their jobs for saying sex is real?

I just think there are worse problems and women should prioritise - this witch hunting is already getting a backlash.

Why?

The same thing needs to happen for complaints of all types and levels of sexual harassment in the workplace to be dealt with.

People have to realise the concept of consent and that it requires men as well as women to challenge and not accept it as 'just banter'.

Gettingbysomehow · 03/12/2024 11:34

The BBC really need to get their shit together, they are a countrywide disgrace.

SerenityNowSerenityNow · 03/12/2024 11:45

SueSuddio · 03/12/2024 11:29

I'm on the fence with this one.

He seems like a David Brent type - making stupid, crass comments that noone else actually finds funny that makes him look a bit pathetic. I certainly wouldn't have liked him as my boss.

But I'm not sure this warrants a media witch-hunt.

I just worry that this dilutes women's power to unthrone men who have done real harm to women - the al Fayed's etc of this world.

Wallace has pissed off a lot of women but has he ruined anyone's life? Isn't this more of a thing for the BBC as an employer to sort out?

Also, women seem to be great at coming out and rounding on twerps like Wallace, but where are they when women are being hounded out of their jobs for saying sex is real?

I just think there are worse problems and women should prioritise - this witch hunting is already getting a backlash.

It is possible to be concerned with more than one issue.
I'm as GC as them come and I also think we need to tackle sexual harassment and in appropriate behaviour. it doesn't have to be an either/or situation here.

Brushing it off as a David Brent style gaff is just minimising the issue. This is real life, not comedy. The type of behaviour exhibited by the likes of Gregg Wallace does harm women. It's symptomatic of a misogynistic culture which is damaging.

If I repeatedly made inappropriate sexual comments to my colleagues then I would expect my career to be over. Why should it be any different for the likes of GW?

crumblingschools · 03/12/2024 11:56

@SueSuddio girls in school encounter this behaviour on a regular basis in schools. It needs to be called out and they need to see it being called out

Lalgarh · 03/12/2024 12:27

The thing is, he's already been kicked off his other programme Inside The Factory because he was so boorish, so he should know and be addressing his Brent Tendencies

SheilaFentiman · 03/12/2024 12:29

@SueSuddio it absolutely does harm women. How many female production assistants, camera technicians (etc) on the first step of the ladder give up and do something else because some dickhead who has power at work is creepily interested in their sex life or gets his dick out at the office party?

And if the message from society is “this isn’t a big enough deal to complain about” then how do things change? Who stops the flasher boss/“talent” from groping his juniors, cos he has got away with sexualised behaviour so far?

When female producers are outnumbered ten to one (or whatever it is) by men and that impacts what stories are told, do we look back to the young women that quit before they had a chance to gain skills and experience?

Hotflushesandchilblains · 03/12/2024 12:31

I know, right @nettie434 - I started noticing it a while ago and once I saw it, I couldn't not see it. Sometimes you can see it during the challenges in how other people help or not, depending on the kind of show it is. I think it would be interesting if all the judging was done blind - and then feedback was given.

shadypines · 03/12/2024 12:49

@RenoDakota is spot on about the innuendo on GBBO. Why is it fine for Alison Hammond to invite fellas to squeeze her big buns? Why is it ok for Shirley Ballas to openly lust after male dance contestants to the point where I cringe with embarrassment?
Also I'm not defending GW but why are people slinging out 'bald' 'fat'. i e. focusing on personal physical characteristics. Let's stick to his behaviour, the fact that he's bald is irrelevant.

1DinosaurAnd3Giraffes · 03/12/2024 12:51

RenoDakota · 01/12/2024 09:25

Can't stand Gregg Wallace and think he is a creepy, misogynist prick.
But ... I gave up watching Bake Off because of the constant, stupid, puerile sexual innuendo. Why is that not subject to the same scrutiny?

THIS.
I came here to see of anyone had mentioned this.
To be honest, compared to the behavior actually ON camera from Alison Hammond and Noel Fielding in the Bake off, id much rather watch Gregg on Master Chef. In fact, if I had to be left alone in a room with any of them, Gregg would be the preferred choice.

If those are the parts of Bake off that are actually aired, imagine what's not aired and off camera. The things that are said and done make my skin crawl. Why are neither of them under the spotlight? Or is it because it's channel 4 and anything goes?

RainbowZebraWarrior · 03/12/2024 12:53

nettie434 · 02/12/2024 23:28

If you watch a lot of those shows, it is really striking to me how unbalanced it is in terms of who wins, and although it is supposed to all be about output, I have always been sure that misogyny is part of it.

@Hotflushesandchilblains So it's not just me then! I wonder whether the team commissioning the production company ever question how fair the process is.

It's always going to be the case with this type of programme. It's not like a quiz show where it's a right or wrong answer. The judges are forming an opinion about the food, its presentation, etc but also it can depend what they personally prefer ingredients wise. There's definitely also a preference relating to personality or any rapport felt between judges and contestants.

When I did Masterchef and didn't win, the Director and Producer came straight to me from the gallery as soon as filming stopped. They said I hands down should have won. It was lovely of them to say that, and to get their feedback. What they saw on their screens obviously came across differently to them as to what the judges saw / tasted during the actual filming. Everyone will think differently. It is what it is.

Oh, and the Producer and Director asked if I would reapply and try again. I'm afraid my reply was "thank you so much, but sod that, I'm not going through all this palaver again"

I agree, it should be judged blind.

SheilaFentiman · 03/12/2024 12:54

I agree it’s not right to slate someone on physical characteristics (up to and including Trump) when their behaviour is critical enough.

However, I would say there is more than a whiff of “if a woman isn’t fuckable, she’s irrelevant” about both Gregg’s “of a certain age” comment and about his only “allowing” his considerably younger wife to have their kid if she promised to stay the “fun, sexy girlfriend” - so posters criticising his attractiveness are on ground he has already stamped on.

PotOfViolas · 03/12/2024 12:55

I watch Bake Off and haven't noticed anything offensive. Could you give an example? I didn't watch Masterchef so can't comment on that, although I liked GW's programme about European Christmas Markets.

SheilaFentiman · 03/12/2024 12:56

<tangent> @RainbowZebraWarrior would it be possible to “judge blind” or would judges pick up “signatures” over time? (eg oh this must be Brian’s dish, he always uses coriander with lamb)

RainbowZebraWarrior · 03/12/2024 13:05

SheilaFentiman · 03/12/2024 12:56

<tangent> @RainbowZebraWarrior would it be possible to “judge blind” or would judges pick up “signatures” over time? (eg oh this must be Brian’s dish, he always uses coriander with lamb)

I think it's always going to be possible to guess, especially once you get to know someone's style / presentation etc. Also, the year I did it, a vegetarian contestant won so her food would also have been a giveaway. I still think it would make it more fair, though to at least try this approach. To my mind, the show needs a bloody good shake up anyway.

They judge blind on Great British Menu I think?

Aroastdinnerisnotahumanright · 03/12/2024 13:07

While I have no doubt sexism comes into play, reality shows are for entertainment not to empirically find the best chef.

They choose the person most likely to get viewing numbers and sell cookbooks etc via future tie-ins and adjust accordingly. Why do you think the contestant who does the best at the beginning of the season doesn't win? It's because they need to create a narrative arc otherwise the show would be boring.

This is also why they have non-professionnels judging, like Greg. Whether he's actually entertaining is another issue lol.

crockofshite · 03/12/2024 13:08

1DinosaurAnd3Giraffes · 03/12/2024 12:51

THIS.
I came here to see of anyone had mentioned this.
To be honest, compared to the behavior actually ON camera from Alison Hammond and Noel Fielding in the Bake off, id much rather watch Gregg on Master Chef. In fact, if I had to be left alone in a room with any of them, Gregg would be the preferred choice.

If those are the parts of Bake off that are actually aired, imagine what's not aired and off camera. The things that are said and done make my skin crawl. Why are neither of them under the spotlight? Or is it because it's channel 4 and anything goes?

I think part of the issue is that the GBBO presenters make their comments on camera for everyone to hear, like a pantomime, but GW comments and actions take place behind the scenes. If he did that stuff on camera IE waving his willy, sex talk etc, he'd have been history years ago.

SheilaFentiman · 03/12/2024 13:09

Thank you for indulging my curiosity @RainbowZebraWarrior

I agree some blind judging would be good!

SheilaFentiman · 03/12/2024 13:12

crockofshite · 03/12/2024 13:08

I think part of the issue is that the GBBO presenters make their comments on camera for everyone to hear, like a pantomime, but GW comments and actions take place behind the scenes. If he did that stuff on camera IE waving his willy, sex talk etc, he'd have been history years ago.

Yes!

And (I don’t watch GBBO or Strictly anymore so don’t know the current state of play) there is a difference between general innuendo and specific and personal eg “so what do you and your girlfriend do in bed?”

General innuendo can absolutely cross the line sometimes, of course, but specific and personal is likely to cross the line quicker, because the recipient is a clear target of a person in a greater position of power.

PotOfViolas · 03/12/2024 13:14

crockofshite · 03/12/2024 13:08

I think part of the issue is that the GBBO presenters make their comments on camera for everyone to hear, like a pantomime, but GW comments and actions take place behind the scenes. If he did that stuff on camera IE waving his willy, sex talk etc, he'd have been history years ago.

Yes, this isn't about no one ever being allowed to make dodgy jokes on TV. It's about women speaking up about intimidating behaviour. Obviously if anyone from GBBO does come forward in future about being intimidated then that's different.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 03/12/2024 13:14

C8H10N4O2 · 03/12/2024 10:27

I think the jury is out on Richard Osman - he is saying all the right things now but he was a senior exec with the MasterChef production company (before its acquisition by the larger Banijay). Its not clear how close he was to the reality productions but his instinctive "good bloke" response to previous comments is in keeping with the company attitude to previous complainants (which saw Wallace happily gurn onward). It has some of the feel of a reverse ferret.

The idea that the company itself was not aware of Wallace's behaviour at a time when women were registering complaints unbelievable. Moreover if they were turning a blind eye to his behaviour on Masterchef its unlikely that the culture was any different on their other productions.

I agree, and while I liked a lot of what he said, there was one bit that did not sit well - where he seemed to be saying GW was just like that, and this is why people did not take it seriously. Maybe I did not hear it right, but I was surprised as most of what he said was spot on.

bluegreygreen · 03/12/2024 13:21

I stopped watching GBBO some years ago, in large part because of the innuendo, but agree with the comments above that it is different to the targeted behaviour of a person in power towards inferiors.

For those who would rather be in the same room as Gregg Wallace than the GBBO presenters, remember that Inside the Factory was not permitted to return to the Nestle factory due to his behaviour: factories apparently take employee welfare legislation much more seriously than broadcasting organisations.

Fizbosshoes · 03/12/2024 13:22

This reminds me of another thread about a youth minister in a church who is (I think) under investigation for bullying, and inappropriate behaviour with young boys and interns. Several people did raise concerns or make complaints but came across the same attitude "that's just him, that's what he's like" as if it's just accepted and tolerated.

Littlemissmagnet · 03/12/2024 13:32

So he will be atoneing in the jungle next year like the MP's do. It will be like I'm so sorry it wasn't me it was...the media...my age...someone else made me.....!!! Saw the error of my ways!! They just find out they need money to live more like!

PotOfViolas · 03/12/2024 13:34

I'd much rather be alone in a room with people who have never been accused of being intimidating behind the scenes than I would GW. But then I'm not dismissive of all the women who have spoken up about GW intimidating behaviour, plus the people at Nestlé who banned him from coming back.

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