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Gregg Wallace responds with “A handful of comments from middle class women of a certain age”

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Conniebygaslight · 01/12/2024 09:04

Just heard his comments on the news….unbelievable.

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JawsCushion · 02/12/2024 07:20

Discussion about him now in GMB with Aggie McKenzie.

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/12/2024 07:24

hopefor25 · 01/12/2024 22:35

Look, I don't like him either. That is not my point. He's a creepy character who has been allowed and enabled to behave badly. But there is a reason for it. Because the whole industry is rotten to the core. And the bbc are failing to deliver on their core ethical accountability because like every other broadcaster there is no money and people value their jobs more than their morals. He should have gone quietly years ago patently or been given a severe slap for it. But he didn't because everyone looks the other way. Not just in TV - in all industries where money and personalities are intertwined.

I don't really give a damn. But I do care that a person is being hung out to dry for actions that are not appropriate and maybe to do with mental health or whatever and now the scapegoat for a lack of action. Everyone is entitled to due process and allegations are about innocent until proven guilty. Right now that is not happening. So what he said middle class women going me too. All of this is hearsay and should not be allowed to happen. Not because of him - but because it could happen to anyone.

Yes, we know. In the name of male accountability, you argue for this man not to be held accountable. And you don't really give a damn in one sentence and then immediately launch into why you passionately do...and funnily enough, it's still you arguing for him not to be held accountable.

You may not see how badly you've pretzelled yourself but we do. We're middle aged women, remember? It might be a new concept for you but we've lived with decades of men talking contradictory, self-serving, anti-woman rot at us and expecting us not to notice.

Zonder · 02/12/2024 07:38

MeatRaffleRita · 01/12/2024 23:16

It's such a shame people didn't just say 'fuck off Greg', every time he attempted to make a sexual comment. He sounds tedious.

He'd a been slaughtered if he'd tried that where I work.

Perhaps people from your place could go do some training for the BBC. As a company they seem particularly bad at dealing with people like Greg-with-2-gs

SheilaFentiman · 02/12/2024 07:45

Zonder · 02/12/2024 07:38

Perhaps people from your place could go do some training for the BBC. As a company they seem particularly bad at dealing with people like Greg-with-2-gs

It’s not clear Gregg has ever worked directly for the BBC. He has worked for a variety of production companies who have sold programmes to the BBC and to channel 5, possibly others.

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 07:46

Helen Lederer completely incoherent on this on R4 at the moment.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 02/12/2024 07:48

@hopefor25 ”It could happen to anyone” - erm, nope.

Are you actually wife number 4??

NotbloodyGivingupYet · 02/12/2024 07:56

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 07:46

Helen Lederer completely incoherent on this on R4 at the moment.

Wasn't she though! I bet they are really glad they got her on 🤔

rwalker · 02/12/2024 08:05

I think he’s trying to tell people who the person is behind the claims is without naming them

like ulrika did with John Leslie

SheilaFentiman · 02/12/2024 08:11

rwalker · 02/12/2024 08:05

I think he’s trying to tell people who the person is behind the claims is without naming them

like ulrika did with John Leslie

Edited

He, as in Gregg?

A number of well known people (Katy Brand, Kirsty Wark, Kirstie Allsopp) have already stated their own link.

And it’s not “the person” - there are at least 13 complaints in the bbc letter and will probably be more to come.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 02/12/2024 08:27

That doesn't make sense, rwalker. Several of the people have been named, or named themselves. And the BBC has contradicted him about both ages and number of programmes.

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 08:30

Helen Lederer was a celebrity MasterChef contestant twice in the 2000s and so, unsurprisingly, was asked what sort of behaviour she experienced or witnessed. The presenter tried to get a sensible response but her replies were so rambling and incoherent it was impossible to know. There was more painful pointless rambling when she was asked her view on the current situation.

At least the woman who followed her, an MP I think, had some formed thoughts. She said the BBC should hold off on the broadcast of the MasterChef episode due to go out tonight as viewers won't understand it was recorded before this debacle and will interpret it as an endorsement of him.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 02/12/2024 08:31

will probably be more to come.

I would think that's a given.
And as for why some of the women didn't tell him where to go, it's being reported that many were the assistants and runners, who are possibly young women early in their carers. It's been pretty well documented in the last few years that the "talent" (and believe me I use that word loosely in relation to Gregg) and ratings hold the power.

So a complaint is made... better to fade out the complainer, get a new assistant and protect the face of the program. No need to make any great waves. And the same could apply with Kirsty, assuming she wants to keep her job or get another one then the men in charge don't want a difficult woman who can't take a joke so it's all closed ranks.

Until that culture changes in telly land in general, not just the bbc then these types of revaluations will keep occuring.

RedToothBrush · 02/12/2024 08:34

A second accuser, James, also not his real name, said Wallace's video 'seems to be saying he's the victim of classism'.

'His humour isn't typically working-class or prone to misinterpretation: from my perspective, its main purpose is to test boundaries, make other people (especially women) uncomfortable, and display his power within the room,' he said

'And it's not just women who are offended - plenty of men are too, it's just that far too few of them have the host called out on his bad behaviour.'

And another former colleague of Wallace, who is not one of the 13 who initially spoke to the BBC, said the video was 'so dismissive of the people that have come forward', especially younger women

Misogyny is always about power. And the worst offenders are always deeply insecure men desperate to punch down on others they class as 'lesser'

Referring to 'middle class women of a certain age', Wallace reveals who he feels he has to hit hardest. He can punch down on young women - he has status over them. He can punch down on working class men and women - he has status over them. But high achieving women? (Not not middle class) He perceives them as smarter and more together than him. And he HATES their confidence in calling out bullshit.

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 08:41

Exactly what RTB said. And he's too cowardly to name these women because he knows he'd lose in any kind of one-on-one engagement.

He can't say the names Kirsty Wark, Katy Brand or Kirstie Allsop because they would make absolute mincemeat of him.

Edited for spelling of names.

EdithBond · 02/12/2024 08:46

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/12/2024 07:24

Yes, we know. In the name of male accountability, you argue for this man not to be held accountable. And you don't really give a damn in one sentence and then immediately launch into why you passionately do...and funnily enough, it's still you arguing for him not to be held accountable.

You may not see how badly you've pretzelled yourself but we do. We're middle aged women, remember? It might be a new concept for you but we've lived with decades of men talking contradictory, self-serving, anti-woman rot at us and expecting us not to notice.

For me, terms like ‘creepy’ and ‘behaved badly’ downplay it. It appears to be sexual harassment at work he’s accused of by numerous people over decades. There’s some broadcast evidence too, e.g. the ‘munching tart’ comment to Katy Brand. It’s been reported he was given serious warnings about his behaviour as far back as 2017/18.

His lawyers have denied he sexually harassed people. But those are the allegations, which (if upheld) mean he breached equality law. It’s not his personality type or health conditions, it’s unlawful conduct, which applies to everyone. There are also allegations of racist behaviour.

On the due process point, the BBC has confirmed they have to wait for his employer, the production company, Banijay, to conclude their investigation. The BBC doesn’t make the show.

If he wants to wait for due process and avoid the heat, he’d be well advised to stop releasing videos, which seek to belittle the women who’ve spoken out and complained.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 02/12/2024 09:00

His lawyers have denied he sexually harassed people.

I mean the bbc admits that he received a warning for just that and attended a meeting (for 90 minutes I think the news said last night). So are his lawyers calling the beeb liars or just trying to gaslight everyone.

PotterHead1985 · 02/12/2024 09:02

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 08:30

Helen Lederer was a celebrity MasterChef contestant twice in the 2000s and so, unsurprisingly, was asked what sort of behaviour she experienced or witnessed. The presenter tried to get a sensible response but her replies were so rambling and incoherent it was impossible to know. There was more painful pointless rambling when she was asked her view on the current situation.

At least the woman who followed her, an MP I think, had some formed thoughts. She said the BBC should hold off on the broadcast of the MasterChef episode due to go out tonight as viewers won't understand it was recorded before this debacle and will interpret it as an endorsement of him.

Re holding off on the episode. It would take 5 minutes to throw together a little thing to stick on before the programme that states this was filmed months ago etc etc.

EdithBond · 02/12/2024 09:05

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 02/12/2024 09:00

His lawyers have denied he sexually harassed people.

I mean the bbc admits that he received a warning for just that and attended a meeting (for 90 minutes I think the news said last night). So are his lawyers calling the beeb liars or just trying to gaslight everyone.

They’re obvs trying to defend him as that’s what he’s paying them for. But looks like they have their work cut out.

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 09:11

Another piece on R4.

David Yelland - a total lack of self awareness and his attack on middle class women of a certain age is a disastrous move made in a panic without advice.

Sarah Vine - speaking as a woman of a certain age. Not trying to defend him but 20 years ago he was part of the popular lad culture and fitted right in. He failed to grow up and see times have changed.

TabloidFootprints · 02/12/2024 09:19

Anonycat · 01/12/2024 18:56

Excellent! Thank you. Your search skills are obviously much better than mine.

Actually I was buying some stuff on PI earlier, clicked on "what's new" and there it was - I thought wow, that was quick!

Nextdoor55 · 02/12/2024 09:27

I think he's saying it's banter & people do this. & shouldn't have done that, although to be fair he's probably in a crisis whatever the story. He should not do that again, the phrase dig deeper hole comes to mind

SheilaFentiman · 02/12/2024 09:30

WeavingShed · 02/12/2024 09:11

Another piece on R4.

David Yelland - a total lack of self awareness and his attack on middle class women of a certain age is a disastrous move made in a panic without advice.

Sarah Vine - speaking as a woman of a certain age. Not trying to defend him but 20 years ago he was part of the popular lad culture and fitted right in. He failed to grow up and see times have changed.

Sarah Vine - somehow, always wrong…

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/12/2024 09:34

I thought it was quite funny, really, to hear him damning himself with his own misogynistic words.

Pedallleur · 02/12/2024 09:35

Nextdoor55 · 02/12/2024 09:27

I think he's saying it's banter & people do this. & shouldn't have done that, although to be fair he's probably in a crisis whatever the story. He should not do that again, the phrase dig deeper hole comes to mind

It's always banter. until it isnt. on the good side he gets to spend time with his fun, sexy gf/wife and give his mil a few days/months/years off

HazelFawn · 02/12/2024 09:37

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