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Young, British and Anti Abortion.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 21/11/2024 15:32

I was half watching it last night and intend to watch properly later. The guy they featured was a misogynistic Incel type.

Did anyone else see it?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m00256p2

BBC One - Young, British and Anti-Abortion

Film-maker Poppy Jay explores whether Gen Z are galvanising the UK anti-abortion movement.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m00256p2

OP posts:
Duc · 26/11/2024 09:52

No one’s business what a woman choses to do with her body.

sashh · 26/11/2024 10:37

RingoJuice · 26/11/2024 07:34

It’s an article from a magazine for general readership …

What is the problem with the content of the article? Because you are complaining about the format and not the actual issue at hand?

Now it probably assumed a general knowledge of America’s federal system which it seems you do
not understand (it’s for an American readership, it’s not a direct criticism of you).

In short: twenty or so years ago, CDC updated death certificates to include a pregnancy checkbox that would be ticked if the deceased had been pregnant in the last 42 days.

The idea is that pregnancy can exacerbate medical conditions, so it would include those deaths as well as the more commonly understand deaths from preeclampsia and hemorrhage.

As more and more states used the new CDC forms, more deaths became classified this way.

Once you use more restricted measurements, America’s rate is in line with other developed countries.

Just a glance at the data should
tell this exact story: the very year the CDC released the new death certificates is the year maternal deaths in the USA started to rise and decouple from Western norms.

So America’s way of counting maternal deaths is an overcount, or other developed countries are undercounting, because they fail to see pregnancy or recent pregnancy as an exacerbating factor.

(come to think of it, this was a huge issue with Covid as well)

Yes I can read.

But what you have said doesn't make sense, or it makes as much sense as the original.

If the federal government started introducing the tick box in all states at the same time then you might have an argument.

If only one state introduced it in, let's say, 2000 then depending on the population of the state the numbers should only rise a small amount or not at all.

Wyoming has a population circa 600 000, if that were the first state to adopt the new certificate there would not be a huge rise in figures.

More interesting reading, with references.

www.commonwealthfund.org/publications/issue-briefs/2024/jun/insights-us-maternal-mortality-crisis-international-comparison#:~:text=In%202022%20there%20were%20approximately%2022%20maternal%20deaths,Asian%20American%20women%20and%20highest%20for%20Black%20women.

RingoJuice · 26/11/2024 10:52

sashh · 26/11/2024 10:37

Yes I can read.

But what you have said doesn't make sense, or it makes as much sense as the original.

If the federal government started introducing the tick box in all states at the same time then you might have an argument.

If only one state introduced it in, let's say, 2000 then depending on the population of the state the numbers should only rise a small amount or not at all.

Wyoming has a population circa 600 000, if that were the first state to adopt the new certificate there would not be a huge rise in figures.

More interesting reading, with references.

www.commonwealthfund.org/publications/issue-briefs/2024/jun/insights-us-maternal-mortality-crisis-international-comparison#:~:text=In%202022%20there%20were%20approximately%2022%20maternal%20deaths,Asian%20American%20women%20and%20highest%20for%20Black%20women.

This article is not interesting as it repeats uncritically those maternal mortality figures without putting them in context.

Why is America an outlier? And why was it the same as other OECD nations until the change in measurement in 2003? (you know the answer, you just don’t want to admit it for some reason)

OhcantthInkofaname · 26/11/2024 18:45

RingoJuice · 25/11/2024 07:05

First of all, that maternal mortality rate calculation is totally misleading, so please stop using it to make your point. It’s in line with other Western countries: https://foreignpolicy.com/2024/01/31/united-states-maternal-mortality-crisis-statistics-health/

Secondly, single mothers get WIC and Medicaid after that, they get SNAP and Section 8 rental assistance.

There is a debate in conservative circles about how much we want to support these. I’m in favor of cutting most of these support programs and encouraging birth control and abortion if needed. But my views are not in line with the heavily Christian GOP and I recognize that.

And I’m not sure how you can’t understand that if labor is more expensive, you automate and hire fewer people. Why do you think we have self checkouts for grocery stores and fast food outlets?

You are mistaken that all single mothers get those benefits you listed. For one housing assistance has a several years long waiting list.

Besides anyone that believes that only single women terminate pregnancies is way out of line. 6 in 10 women already have children.

bozzabollix · 26/11/2024 22:51

TY78910 · 21/11/2024 23:35

TRIGGER WARNING (termination)

I'm in two minds whether to watch this but I couldn't stop reading this thread. I'm deeply saddened that there is a view that women who have an abortion 'kill babies' and are effectively labelled as murderers. Few years ago I faced a heartbreaking decision to have an abortion at 17w because of a genetic condition that doctors described to me as the baby being 'incompatible with life'. I was faced with a choice where whatever I did, the decision felt 'wrong' as this was a very much planned pregnancy. Could I possibly cope with bonding with the baby, feeling its kicks and one day waking up and them not being there? Could I ever subject my baby to being hooked up to tubes and very likely being in extreme amounts of pain from the moment they are born for hours of maybe days until they inevitably pass? I felt that a termination was the 'lesser of both evils' and there is not a single day I don't think about that baby. It wasn't an easy decision, one that will stay with me forever but I know it was the right one in those impossible circumstances. Abortions are not a nonchalant subjects, murderers lack empathy and the regard for other beings. I definitely didn't lack regard for that baby.

Same here. It was the worst thing I have ever endured, but it was the right thing for my baby, and for yours too. The pain they’d have suffered in their short lives. This is not a simplistic debate.

Leavesofautumn · 27/11/2024 01:19

CherryVanillaPie · 25/11/2024 17:01

The woman who said her sister had Patau Syndrome and lived til 4 and was the happiest child she's ever known. I wonder how a single mum would cope with that level of disability while trying to earn a living. I looked at Google Images for Patau Syndrome and scrolled down. Would she like to live with some of the most extreme forms of Patau Syndrome in the images? I sure wouldn't.

It’s also a typically patronising way of talking about disabled people, especially disabled children where they’re apparently all really happy, and brave and inspirational, even though society discriminates against them and their parents.

Leavesofautumn · 27/11/2024 01:24

I’m 100% pro-choice and will always defend women’s rights to access safe abortions. But I will say those counter-protesters in Manchester, about 15 minutes into the programme, behaved inappropriately with the wording of some of their signs. They’re not doing themselves any favours.

HighlandsExpat · 27/11/2024 03:26

OhcantthInkofaname · 26/11/2024 18:45

You are mistaken that all single mothers get those benefits you listed. For one housing assistance has a several years long waiting list.

Besides anyone that believes that only single women terminate pregnancies is way out of line. 6 in 10 women already have children.

Exactly! Even if they get all those benefits, there are so many loopholes and issues with the benefits. Take Section 8 housing - many landlords will not rent to someone on it. So while on paper people are being helped, they can't access the benefit. Or take subsidized daycare (which some states offer). Again, many don't take vouchers.

The anti-abortion crowd doesn't care at all about mothers or kids once they have given birth. They'll ban abortion and watch the child poverty rate skyrocket.

RingoJuice · 27/11/2024 04:16

HighlandsExpat · 27/11/2024 03:26

Exactly! Even if they get all those benefits, there are so many loopholes and issues with the benefits. Take Section 8 housing - many landlords will not rent to someone on it. So while on paper people are being helped, they can't access the benefit. Or take subsidized daycare (which some states offer). Again, many don't take vouchers.

The anti-abortion crowd doesn't care at all about mothers or kids once they have given birth. They'll ban abortion and watch the child poverty rate skyrocket.

I am not even anti-abortion.

Waiting lists are inevitable when it comes to government benefits (which I don’t even think we should do, because you get more of what you subsidize, in general).

But I think it’s a lazy stereotype to say that pro-life advocates also support taking away benefits.

It comes from the alliance between fiscal conservatives like me and Christian conservatives who want to ban abortion. I don’t like sharing my political party with a bunch of pro-lifers, but here we are.

purpleme12 · 27/11/2024 19:04

I liked the man who called her out on it all when they were having their 'protest' outside the national gallery

purpleme12 · 27/11/2024 22:35

Buddhistcauliflower · 22/11/2024 10:38

Sorry I'm watching the documentary now. Can anyone explain why they are filming the documentary maker? It's making an otherwise really well thought out and respectful documentary unwatchable for me.

I thought this too!
She was filming them at times but we were shown her filming them!
Just a bit distracting

purpleme12 · 27/11/2024 23:01

They said they weren't pro-lifers because of their religion and doing it from another viewpoint (can't remember the word used)

But I can't help but think that pro-lifers and religion are inextricably linked.

This is one of the reasons I'm put off by the catholic high school we looked round for my child.
I know probably a lot of people move with the times and would be ok with abortion now but one of the more fundamental and traditional Catholic beliefs along with other things is anti abortion. I just didn't like that ideology possibly influencing her

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/11/2024 18:00

MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/11/2024 20:32

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/nov/24/slippery-slope-fears-over-assisted-dying-echoes-of-abortion-debate

Looks like we're in the thick of all sorts of life and death issues at the moment.

I hold my hands up and say I'm utterly conflicted about assisted dying, mostly because I find the state more untrustworthy to arbitrate these matters than ever before.

On the one hand I have an elderly relative with end stage dementia who expressed the desire to die early in the diagnosis, and is now basically existing with no quality of life. I nursed my mother through end stage cancer during lockdown for a month and it was horrific for her and us. I had to agree with doctors decisions to pull the plug on my late DP after brain bleeds from undiagnosed cancer nearly three years ago. If I was terminal I wouldn't want to be a burden on my son and would probably try to plan a dignified exit if I could.

Yet still a bit of me worries about mission creep and slippery slopes.

In my 50s I am experiencing the very definition of existential crisis over so many issues at the moment.

However, I remain staunchly pro-choice.

So much sadness. So much stress in the world. I wish I had wine in the house tonight.

I am not conflicted. In the same way I'm not conflicted about our abortion laws, because in both cases the choice is wholly personal.

I come from a family who die of cancer. The experiences have left my family with PTSD, immense guilt and complicated grief. Not all my dead loved ones would have accessed assisted dying, but some would and did in the weeks and days leading to their death.

As with abortion, it should be up to the individual to decide for themselves. They should not be forced to suffer by the state.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 28/11/2024 18:10

redkite27 · 24/11/2024 12:38

Why does no one ever ask the anti abortion people how, practically they plan to keep a women pregnant, who does not want to be pregnant?

This question troubles me too.

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sashh · 29/11/2024 04:44

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/11/2024 18:10

This question troubles me too.

Ms Y in Ireland is a possible blueprint. This is a very sanitised version of her case.

www.safeabortionwomensright.org/news/ireland-justice-for-ms-y-finally/

Drivingoverlemons · 30/11/2024 14:12

Leavesofautumn · 27/11/2024 01:19

It’s also a typically patronising way of talking about disabled people, especially disabled children where they’re apparently all really happy, and brave and inspirational, even though society discriminates against them and their parents.

Also, respite care services have been drastically cut in the UK since 2010, so the reality is that many parents of children with complex disabilities feel desperate and alone. Her parents were clearly in a privileged position to be able to make that choice (which was theirs to make - like abortion should be a choice for others).

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