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How to not be utterly depressed and scared about Trump winning

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ChocolateMagnum · 06/11/2024 07:31

Is there any way at all to reframe the likely outcome of the US election? I just feel terrible this morning. Scared and angry. It's wasted energy, though. I can't do anything positive with these feelings and I'm guessing I'm not the only person feeling like this. How are other people finding ways to move out of this feeling so they aren't wasting time and energy on something they have no influence over currently?

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RogueFemale · 06/11/2024 10:52

@BarbaraHoward And now he's giving an anti vax conspiracy theorist a healthcare role.

Yes, it'll be interesting to see how the Trumpies will feel about their unvaccinated babies dying.

StartupRepair · 06/11/2024 10:53

It's not just danger for Ukraine but for Finland, the Baltics, Georgia, Poland, Moldova.
Putin will be confident to invade neighbouring countries with terrible consequences for Europe.Trump's family support the illegal settlers of Israel who are eyeing off land in Gaza and will continue the actual genocide there.

Snugglemonkey · 06/11/2024 10:53

ToBeOrNotToBee · 06/11/2024 08:27

He doesn't look in the best of health.
With any luck he will not last the 4 years.

Putin has looked gaunt for years. Still capable of wreaking havoc though.

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SugarIsHardtoAvoid · 06/11/2024 10:55

Yeah really not comforted by anyone saying that this is an American issue. Really not the case. It’s globally significant even if you only look at their foreign policy or Trump’s (anti-) environmental policies. The signal the US’ treatment of women’s reproductive rights sends out to other countries. The lack of animal welfare. The history of fantastical lies in office. The assault on democracy invading Capitol Hill and constantly accusing others of cheating and fraud (look up DARVO).
All of it has implications for other countries including the UK.

2triangles · 06/11/2024 10:55

There may be some silver linings in the short term although I agree he is bad news for the planet overall. He will probably at least get the US citizens, who are still held hostage by Hamas, out of Gaza. In the immediate future he could be good news for Israel but over time he of course poses as serious a threat to democracy as Israel’s enemies.

Snugglemonkey · 06/11/2024 10:56

Truthy · 06/11/2024 08:27

Was it based on them putting tampons in the boys rest rooms?
I think it's a big win for womens and parents rights in the US.
The puberty blockers and gender surgeries for children is not good.

For women's rights? Look what is happening to women in the US. They are being reduced to walking incubators.

JusteanBiscuits · 06/11/2024 10:56

curiousS · 06/11/2024 10:32

Are you in the US? Otherwise, I don't understand all these posts this morning about people being utterly sacred and depressed!
It really isn't going to affect us that directly.
People are massively overreacting.

If you think this won't affect us, you are extremely naive.

He has already stated he will be removing all support they give to Ukraine. We know he supports Putin. What happens when Putin decides to expand his attacks further? What happens if Putin takes against the UK? What happens if Trump takes against the UK?

It also shows the world that having a felon and liar at the top of the command chain is obviously acceptable. It makes truth even less important. Think of all the little Tommy Robinson supporters who will follow his lead.

I also have people I love who will be very directly affected by this.

OccasionalHope · 06/11/2024 10:56

The world survived his first presidency, it will probably survive this one,

ConstanceM · 06/11/2024 10:57

Just calm the F down..Don't believe the hyperbole..it's not that dramatic. Might even stop the meat grinder war in Ukraine. What exactly did the Dems do apart from finance genocide in Gaza. They failed spectacularly, what else did people expect.

sunflowersngunpowdr · 06/11/2024 10:59

ToBeOrNotToBee · 06/11/2024 08:27

He doesn't look in the best of health.
With any luck he will not last the 4 years.

What a mean spirited comment

MaidOfAle · 06/11/2024 10:59

Truthy · 06/11/2024 08:27

Was it based on them putting tampons in the boys rest rooms?
I think it's a big win for womens and parents rights in the US.
The puberty blockers and gender surgeries for children is not good.

That's a lie. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/tim-walz-tampons/

Ilovemyshed · 06/11/2024 10:59

1dayatatime · 06/11/2024 08:58

One positive from Trump's success is that the financial markets seem to favour a Trump Presidency with US stock markets and the dollar both up.

Asian markets are down today.

curiousS · 06/11/2024 11:01

@JusteanBiscuits that's a lot of what if's. I also have family over there. The hysteria is just too much.

JusteanBiscuits · 06/11/2024 11:01

OccasionalHope · 06/11/2024 10:56

The world survived his first presidency, it will probably survive this one,

The world, yes. But individuals WILL die because of it. WOMEN will die because of it.

ontheturn · 06/11/2024 11:01

The best thing about the Biden presidency was not having to hear trump speak. Not listening to the news feels like a defeat.

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Ilovemyshed · 06/11/2024 11:02

It is very hard to watch. I think US politics is bizarre but this is almost dystopian.

I do think there are probably dark forces at work however and in the end, something bad will probably happen to him.

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 06/11/2024 11:02

BrainstormGreenNeedle · 06/11/2024 09:41

I think the only thing we can do is mock Trump at every opportunity that he provides for us. Like remember the cat and dog speech - people on tiktok were so funny with pretending to cook their cats and dogs and the pet videos were so funny too.

The only thing we can do is mock him to fuck.

Yeah, because that will help the country dig themselves out of the hatred and divisiveness that has been in vogue for the last twenty plus years.

Deplorables, nazis, garbage...and yet people wonder why Trump got votes?

Maybe the Democrats can grow the fuck up and act like adults and not the numbnuts that gave us the "Summer of Love 2020".

sunflowersngunpowdr · 06/11/2024 11:02

VenusClapTrap · 06/11/2024 08:55

I feel sick for my Ukrainian friends.

Most Americans couldn't point to the Ukraine on a map and they don't want billions of their tax dollars given away to a foreign country that has nothing to do with them.

MidnightMeltdown · 06/11/2024 11:03

I just feel terrible this morning. Scared and angry.

I can understand feeling scared, and I myself am very disappointed with the result, but angry? That's what happens in a democracy, everyone has a right to vote in accordance with their own views. Stamping your feet when it's not your preferred outcome doesn't change anything.

Attelina · 06/11/2024 11:03

200 reasons!

www.instagram.com/p/DB9OXvUuU2k/?igsh=NXo5dnhrNDE3YXl3

JusteanBiscuits · 06/11/2024 11:05

curiousS · 06/11/2024 11:01

@JusteanBiscuits that's a lot of what if's. I also have family over there. The hysteria is just too much.

No. Sadly it isn't. Tell that to the people of Ukraine today. Tell that to the women in the US.

A friend wore a t-shirt yesterday that simply said "not in my name". She was turned away for wearing a political slogan. NONE of the many men in the queue wearing MAGA hats were turned away. This is just the start. Read what he has said he plans for the next year and tell me it's hysteria.

Deja321 · 06/11/2024 11:06

JusteanBiscuits · 06/11/2024 10:56

If you think this won't affect us, you are extremely naive.

He has already stated he will be removing all support they give to Ukraine. We know he supports Putin. What happens when Putin decides to expand his attacks further? What happens if Putin takes against the UK? What happens if Trump takes against the UK?

It also shows the world that having a felon and liar at the top of the command chain is obviously acceptable. It makes truth even less important. Think of all the little Tommy Robinson supporters who will follow his lead.

I also have people I love who will be very directly affected by this.

Trumps said he's going to stop the Russia Ukraine war. Why should Americans have to keep funding it? Do you honestly believe trump intends to invade the UK? Remember he's the only US president in decades to have no new wars during his time. Were you worried about war when the other presidents were in charge? Are all the other politicians not liars? They may not be 'convicred felons ' but that doesn't mean they're innocent.
What's tommy Robinson got to do with it? They've put him in prison again haven't they?

JusteanBiscuits · 06/11/2024 11:10

Deja321 · 06/11/2024 11:06

Trumps said he's going to stop the Russia Ukraine war. Why should Americans have to keep funding it? Do you honestly believe trump intends to invade the UK? Remember he's the only US president in decades to have no new wars during his time. Were you worried about war when the other presidents were in charge? Are all the other politicians not liars? They may not be 'convicred felons ' but that doesn't mean they're innocent.
What's tommy Robinson got to do with it? They've put him in prison again haven't they?

Yes. He will give Putin the power to "stop it". And what happens when Putin 'wins' in Ukraine?

There are lies and there is the level along the lines of accusing a section of society of stealing pets and eating them.

JusteanBiscuits · 06/11/2024 11:12

Deja321 · 06/11/2024 11:06

Trumps said he's going to stop the Russia Ukraine war. Why should Americans have to keep funding it? Do you honestly believe trump intends to invade the UK? Remember he's the only US president in decades to have no new wars during his time. Were you worried about war when the other presidents were in charge? Are all the other politicians not liars? They may not be 'convicred felons ' but that doesn't mean they're innocent.
What's tommy Robinson got to do with it? They've put him in prison again haven't they?

And re read what I said. I said Tommy Robinson supporters. I'm sure Stephen will work this to his advantage as soon as he can.