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I’m scared now I’ve realised this

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Pickandmixmood · 29/10/2024 11:00

I was thinking that the US public wouldn’t vote for Trump now that it is so apparent he is such a fascist. It’s terrifying to realise that they already know that and that is why they are going to vote for him.
I’m scared for the world.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 21:41

XChrome · 02/11/2024 21:35

This is not a list of myths and facts. It is a list of claims and counterclaims, with the counterclaims being subjective opinion, not fact, and often missing the point completely.
For example, the idea that gender exists separate from biological sex is an ideological belief, not a fact.

The idea that trans teens facing harassment somehow mitigates the advantage of being biologically male is particularly silly. Non-trans teen girls face harassment as well. Or are we at a point where it's become such an Orwellian nightmare that it's considered "hateful" to admit that biological females face harassment, assault and discrimination?

Regarding the claim that women might be subjected to humiliating tests to prove their sex if trans athletes cannot compete in women's sports, that has been the case since the middle of the twentieth century when more stringent eligibility requirements based on sex were put in place.

We're thinking down the same road in that I'm curious about your stance on that very matter.

www.scientificamerican.com/article/hormone-levels-are-being-used-to-discriminate-against-female-athletes/

XChrome · 02/11/2024 21:43

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 21:35

Why do we have women’s and girls’ sport? Why does it exist?

Could it be that the definitions are narrow and outdated?

Are you equally outraged at women transitioning to men and seeking to compete in men's sport?

This is an interesting read (albeit a long one):

www.newyorker.com/sports/sporting-scene/how-one-swimmer-became-the-focus-of-a-debate-about-trans-athletes

Could it be that the definitions are narrow and outdated?

Of what, biological sex? You can't be serious. If you mean gender, even the most extreme of gender ideologues will admit that gender isn't physical. So it doesn't affect sports performance. If gender is a feeling and a self-perception, it has nothing to do with how physically gifted you are athletically.

Are you equally outraged at women transitioning to men and seeking to compete in men's sport?

Why would she be? They don't have an unfair physical advantage.

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 21:44

Regarding the claim that women might be subjected to humiliating tests to prove their sex if trans athletes cannot compete in women's sports, that has been the case since the middle of the twentieth century when more stringent eligibility requirements based on sex were put in place

And it’s a screening cheek swab now. Or saliva test. And the majority of elite female athletes want it, they want to protect the female category

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 21:48

Are you equally outraged at women transitioning to men and seeking to compete in men's sport?

Of course not. Why should I be?

I’m not at all exhausted by my hate as you call it. For me, the cognitive dissonance of keeping up with compelled speech and pretending what I can see isn’t really happening (males advantage) must be more exhausting

NotBadConsidering · 02/11/2024 21:50

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 21:35

Why do we have women’s and girls’ sport? Why does it exist?

Could it be that the definitions are narrow and outdated?

Are you equally outraged at women transitioning to men and seeking to compete in men's sport?

This is an interesting read (albeit a long one):

www.newyorker.com/sports/sporting-scene/how-one-swimmer-became-the-focus-of-a-debate-about-trans-athletes

Could it be that the definitions are narrow and outdated?

Is that your answer? You think males and females are too narrowly defined? How would you define it then?

Are you equally outraged at women transitioning to men and seeking to compete in men's sport?

I am not outraged because females don’t have an advantage over males and take opportunities from men. Funnily enough it doesn’t happen anywhere near as often. One female swimmer transitioned and remained in the female competition, because it was obvious that it wouldn’t be possible to compete in the men’s competition.

I AM worried about their safety if they play sports where safety matters.

How would you define women’s sport?

XChrome · 02/11/2024 21:50

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 21:41

We're thinking down the same road in that I'm curious about your stance on that very matter.

www.scientificamerican.com/article/hormone-levels-are-being-used-to-discriminate-against-female-athletes/

I can see there are problems with it. Then again, it's not just hormones which are used to disqualify athletes. For example, an athlete taking cold medicine can be taken as evidence of using performance enhancing substances, because cold medicine often contains the decongestant pseudoephedrine, which is banned.
Also, asthma and allergy inhalers which contain corticosteroids are banned.

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 21:52

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 21:41

We're thinking down the same road in that I'm curious about your stance on that very matter.

www.scientificamerican.com/article/hormone-levels-are-being-used-to-discriminate-against-female-athletes/

Caster Semenya 😀😀 is your example?? 😀

Semenya has an XY ARD DSD. Male levels of testosterone from internal testes, erroneously thought to be a girl at birth due to underdeveloped male sex organs but virilise at puberty from his testicles. No ovaries, no uterus, no periods, no female puberty.

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 22:01

The world athletics position on female athletes with high testosterone is that if the athlete is XX there is no level of testosterone that excludes them.

There is NO overlap between male and female testosterone levels anyway.

Im still laughing about using Semenya as an example of an excluded “female”. That’s the same Semenya who stated in a review “My testes don’t make me less of a woman”.

NotBadConsidering · 02/11/2024 22:07

Caster Semenya is a man with internal testes and normal male testosterone levels. I can’t believe he’s being brought up in an argument about how the Democrats have erased women’s college sports in America. It really is 2019-20 again, isn’t it?

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 22:13

I’m interested in how sports should be recategorised, given male and female and now too narrow.

By gender identity, maybe? There’s about 72 genders now, the events would take forever fo get through

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:24

Does it not ring incongruent to allow a "biological" woman who has transitioned to male to compete in "female" sport because "he" can't compete against men? What??? 🤦‍♀️ Isn't he taking male hormones? Doesn't that disqualify him from female sport?

On her X page Payton McNabb wrote (Sept '23):
Today marks 1 yr since a trans bio boy spiked a ball hitting me at 70 miles an hour causing me partial paralysis & other injuries.

jhp-ojs-tamucc.tdl.org/jhp/article/view/jshp.0053.2015

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:29

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 22:13

I’m interested in how sports should be recategorised, given male and female and now too narrow.

By gender identity, maybe? There’s about 72 genders now, the events would take forever fo get through

But, you're not off base. It's a valid question. My point is that attempts to maintain fairness are driven/influenced by hate/prejudice/misinformation/politics etc.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:40

NotBadConsidering · 02/11/2024 22:07

Caster Semenya is a man with internal testes and normal male testosterone levels. I can’t believe he’s being brought up in an argument about how the Democrats have erased women’s college sports in America. It really is 2019-20 again, isn’t it?

And a vagina.

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 22:43

Does it not ring incongruent to allow a "biological" woman who has transitioned to male to compete in "female" sport because "he" can't compete against men? What??? 🤦‍♀️ Isn't he taking male hormones? Doesn't that disqualify him from female sport?

But that’s not what you said. You were using the example of woman taking testosterone competing against men.

It’s easier to just say “woman” and “man” based on sex, isn’t it? Otherwise you just confuse yourself.

My point is that attempts to maintain fairness are driven/influenced by hate/prejudice/misinformation/politics etc

Every female athlete competing at a high level has made enormous sacrifices to be there. Not to mention the physical challenges of competing and training with periods. Males with special identities shouldn’t get to force their way into female sport/spaces because of “hate”. The can compete with other men, or, make an “open” category and leave the female one for women and girls

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 22:43

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:40

And a vagina.

No. Not a vagina.

NotBadConsidering · 02/11/2024 22:45

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:40

And a vagina.

He doesn’t have a vagina. Males with 5 alpha reductase deficiency don’t have a vagina.

NotBadConsidering · 02/11/2024 22:51

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:24

Does it not ring incongruent to allow a "biological" woman who has transitioned to male to compete in "female" sport because "he" can't compete against men? What??? 🤦‍♀️ Isn't he taking male hormones? Doesn't that disqualify him from female sport?

On her X page Payton McNabb wrote (Sept '23):
Today marks 1 yr since a trans bio boy spiked a ball hitting me at 70 miles an hour causing me partial paralysis & other injuries.

jhp-ojs-tamucc.tdl.org/jhp/article/view/jshp.0053.2015

Isn't he taking male hormones? Doesn't that disqualify him from female sport?

Yes it does. Females who take testosterone as part of transition are not eligible for men’s sport as per anti-doping rules.

I don’t think women who want to compete in men’s competition should be allowed. Men’s sport is for men, it’s not safe in many sports, and testosterone is a harmful drug for females.

The fact that so few women attempt is indicative of the sex-based differences in sport. Most trans identifying women remain in the women’s category either as trans (Iszac Henig) or as non-binary (Quinn).

And to bring it back to the relevance of the thread, Harris and the Democrats believe sport should be segregated by (75+?) genders, not sex. So while Harris may valiantly attempt to give women and girls some rights with one hand, she will be taking them with the other hand.

That’s the bind.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:57

NotBadConsidering · 02/11/2024 22:45

He doesn’t have a vagina. Males with 5 alpha reductase deficiency don’t have a vagina.

Yes, has vagina. Does not have uterus.

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 23:06

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 22:57

Yes, has vagina. Does not have uterus.

Genitalia can look ambiguous with a pseudovaginal perineoscrotal hypospadias.

not a vagina tho

are you getting your DSDs mixed up? Thinking of CAIS?

lifeturnsonadime · 02/11/2024 23:06

Jom222 · 02/11/2024 19:24

Re dems and the trans issue I really don’t think this has the traction the pro trans folks want it to. Most liberals are supportive but uncomfortable. The younger the person the more supportive, this really is a topic the kids have run away with. There will be a shift back closer to center in a few decades when we see the damage its causing, ie women being disenfranchised and the trans folks being hurt by being pushed into meds and surgeries w/o proper forethought.

but that will take years. Its going to be fought over bitterly for the foreseeable future imho but nothing will be codified on a national level.

Ms Harris is vague re the subject so I don’t expect her to do much for the movement when elected, they’ll be angry but not much will change.

There are two topics I differ strongly from my party, the trans issue and the war Israel is waging. The blind support for palestine and sickening antisemitism that must have been hidden close to the surface terrify me. They don’t seem able to grasp that they’re being used as useful idiots by Iran. The way they gloss over the atrocity committed is frightening to me.

Thanks for responding with this post Jom222.

I want to give it the time it deserves to read it before responding.

It is refreshing that you are actually prepared to engage with the issues. Where I get driven boarderline insane is the people who insist there are none.

Thank you.

lifeturnsonadime · 02/11/2024 23:10

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 20:20

Interesting choice to cite the Quillette, an Australian right leaning online magazine.
I'd invite you to read this:

https://www.hrc.org/resources/get-the-facts-about-transgender-non-binary-athletes

I can't imagine how difficult it is for the athlete. The hate is absolutely disgusting.

I'm the mother of a female athlete. Sports are divided by sex for a reason. This is a load of nonsense. No one is preventing trans or non binary from competing.

what is required is a female and an open category - that would meet the needs of everyone and be fair.

XChrome · 02/11/2024 23:12

Get this; we all know that Trump is a blowhard. Now he's simulating blowjobs on stage.

Dementia, dementia, dementia.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 23:25

XChrome · 02/11/2024 23:12

Get this; we all know that Trump is a blowhard. Now he's simulating blowjobs on stage.

Dementia, dementia, dementia.

I was about to post this and just saw yours.

www.thewrap.com/donald-trump-blow-job-oral-sex-microphone-rally/

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 23:28

nolongersurprised · 02/11/2024 23:06

Genitalia can look ambiguous with a pseudovaginal perineoscrotal hypospadias.

not a vagina tho

are you getting your DSDs mixed up? Thinking of CAIS?

No, going by her own statements (she offered to be examined).

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/11/2024 23:30

I may need to bow out of thread... I have two dc to tend to and they're getting a bit squirrelly atm. 😵‍💫

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