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If you get up for the loo in the night, do you turn the light on?

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BiscuitlyBoyle · 04/10/2024 20:49

I saw a thing the other day about how mums will go to the loo in the night without turning the lights on either in the hallway or in the bathroom. I realised that I never turn any lights on, no babies to wake up or small children, I just don’t need it.

So is that a female thing? And adult thing? Or a parent thing?

What about you?

OP posts:
HeidiBlum · 05/10/2024 16:06

Many thanks @ScottBakula

ToBeDetermined · 05/10/2024 17:05

BiscuitlyBoyle · 04/10/2024 22:40

I have trained DH to sit down. No toilet seats up or splashes. All it took was ten years of a 6ft 4 man living in a house with the toilet under a sloping roof with a head clearance of about 5ft 6.

So you didn’t train him. He had no choice because of how low the ceiling was.
Most of us don’t have 5ft 6 ceilings.

JohnTheRevelator · 05/10/2024 17:58

No. No one else in house,I live alone. If I put a light on,it would wake me up too much.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 23/11/2024 16:30

Our bathroom is downstairs so I close our bedroom door and turn the light on in the spare room at the top of the stairs which doesn't disturb DH and isn't too glowy and means I won't go arse over tit down the stairs (where our black cats have been known to set themselves as booby traps!).

windyhairday · 23/11/2024 16:57

I leave it off- not because of anyone else but because of the blinding effect of waking up in the night and putting on the light. So for the sake of my own eyes. I'm pretty sure I did this before having kids too.

Elderflower14 · 23/11/2024 17:25

Many years ago a very new bf was staying at my friends (not sleeping together at the time) her mother had dementia and slept next to the bathroom.. Bf was in the loo in the middle of the night. He couldn't find the pull cord so was in the dark. Friends mum walks in pulls the cord and sees bf on the loo.. Apparently she looked at him and said "Oh" pulled the cord again and walked out leaving bf in the dark!! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

Dbank · 23/11/2024 18:08

Motion sensor in hall and bathroom, turns the lights on very dimly after 12:00 hrs, and off after a couple of minutes.

DilemmaDelilah · 23/11/2024 18:12

I don't at home. In hotels we leave the light on in the bathroom (with the door shut) so we can see where we're going. Not really sure what we do in other people's houses... we don't really stay with people much. I think we probably would, unless there was a bright moon or a streetlight right outside or something.

2Sensitive · 23/11/2024 18:22

No, my eyes adjust

mondaytosunday · 23/11/2024 18:38

No. There is a little light in the mirror that gives a glow but I don't need it.

LoobyDoop2 · 23/11/2024 18:57

We have a little sensor light in the bathroom. It gives enough light to see where you’re going without waking you up too much. Enough light gets to the landing from outside to not need one there.

MargaretThursday · 23/11/2024 20:35

I have a little light on my watch that I can put on which is enough for me to see, but not so bright it wakes me up.

avaritablevampire · 23/11/2024 20:56

Use a torch to get to the bathroom (it's downstairs which is a PITA) switch the light on in the bathroom as it's so dark. Do the same at hotels, the amount of time I've walloped my shines on bed corners or bashed my toes now means I use a torch to navigate! Dh seems to manage without any lights, but his eye sight is far better than mine, so maybe that's why!

saltrock123 · 23/11/2024 21:12

Usually need to pee around 4 ish so tiptoe in the dark, hoping not to disturb cats or they think its breakfast time and start yowling.

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