He’s given me the “ick”

[ForOliveShaker]

A guy was messaging me for a little while. The meet up seemed to keep being delayed so I sort of had to distance as I hate becoming too invested. I just get scared. Anyway, he asked me how I was last night then told me “still got a cold but gotta keep smiling” then proceeded to send me a video of himself, smiling and moving round in bed with a very obvious filter.

My body was cringing. Why on earth are people like this. Maybe my autism makes me too blunt. But what the actual heck.

I just winced reading that. It would put me off too! Why would you think that was a good idea!?

It was gross. I wish there was an unwatchable button. He was showing some of his chest. Ugh it was gross. Plus the filter. It was just all so off putting.

Pahaha. This just made me laugh. Wtf are some
people like 😂😂😂. He sounds like a bellend. Maybe a harmless, nice bellend, but still a raging bellend 😂😂

good to see that from the off though. Imagine if you’d been there in person while he was doing it. Hideous.

Just so many things wrong there!

Did you reply? Or have you left him on read?

That got a nose scrunch out of me.

I would give him a swerve for that.

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Yeah I recently got the ick from a really nice guy I’d met once or twice who kept sending me selfies which in my opinion he looked really weird in. They just made me cringe - and they were just selfies! The thought of that video makes me wince!

Oh Christ. It’s so cringe. Why would you film it and think “yeah that’s the one. That’ll get her going” like wtf

Left on read unfortunately, there’s no words. Sending unrequested videos of that nature makes me uncomfortable 😂

Imagine how I felt watching it. I was brushing my teeth this morning and just said “what the actual fuck is this” when I watched it 😂😂

I don’t get it??? Moving around the bed? Like a worm?

Sometimes you’re just like. What do I do with this. I find it very effeminate to send things like that. Might be fine for other women but it’s a no from me

Well done for not choking on the toothpaste!

This is what I’m wondering too. Just…wiggling around? What?

I can’t picture it, but it sounds odd 😂and what filter? Just a better looking one or a sad with with dog ears or whatever…I can’t imagine a guy doing this 😅

Can you provide a bit more detail on the kind of movements he was doing in the bed because at the moment I'm just imagining him like tossing and turning in the pillows and I don't know why someone would ever film themselves doing it whilst smiling as a video to send to a new partner 😂😂😂😂

im cracking up at this thread. I need to see the sexy worm video

Actually no I don’t

I need a full explanation of the video please

Got a cats bum mouth out of me, that's the sort of thing a teenager would do and send to his mummy for sympathy.

Not attractive.

I'm also here for the worm explanation please

I get why you got the ick. It's cringe.

Why do you find this effeminate though?

Another here who would appreciate more detail on this. I can't imagine it.

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Oh I do hope it was a dog ear filter 🐶 🤣🤣🤣