What is a respectable amount of money to give as a wedding gift?

[YesIJudge]

All day guests, in a lovely country hotel. I haven't been to a wedding for over 5 years so I have no idea how much to gift.

Indian wedding?

We normally give £100

£100

No it's a Scottish wedding.

Whatever you feel.

£50

We'd give £100.

Depends on how close you are. At least £100

£100 from us too

£50.

I got completely cut off without a single explanation after my last £20 went to a bride. So maybe more than that if you have any interest in somebody whose only reason for an invitation was to make some money back from the guests.

In essence you need to cover the cost of you as a guest so at least £50 each for the main meal and if an evening buffet another £25 / per person .

I've got a wedding coming up. The B&G gave me the equivalent of £16 in today's money when I got married. What would you suggest?

You don't "cover the cost"! You're a guest, it's not a pay to attend event! I find that very transactional.
It's a gift. It doesn't matter what they've spent.

£25. You're far more generous.

Whatever you can afford to give op.
I would have hated for any of my guests to give more than they could have afforded.

£100 min

£50 max.

£100 if you’re in a couple, otherwise £50

It depends on how close you are. I would say a minimum of £50

Eh? Whatever you can comfortably afford without you or your children having to go without?
I don't have a set amount: in the last few years I have given cash gifts ranging from £100-£20, and one of the lower amounts was for one of my oldest friends as I was saving for private orthodontistry for a DC and really didn't have any spare cash sloshing around. If the bride and groom work and actually earn money, and especially if they earn more than you, I think it's a bit strange to expect a large amount? Wedding gifts in general are culturally odd to me; where I'm from, gifts are given to young couples who are setting up their first home together; any further expectations later on in life when you already have what you need just seems a bit excessive.

£50-£100 depending how close you are and if close family or just friends

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I always only give £20, maybe I'm a cheapskate? Who knows 🤣
Seriously tho, if you had a wedding and got gifted £20 in a card from me, what would you think? Just curious.