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Migrants - just curious......

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sunshinewithrain · 15/09/2024 22:18

Are they genuinely so desperate that they will get in a rubber dingy to cross a dangerous sea to get to England?
OR
Are they 'sold' a dream?
OR
A mixture of both! And we don'it understand it properly .......
It's so sad all these people dying trying to cross the sea in such a dangerous way ......

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ChampagneLassie · 16/09/2024 01:20

Why not France (or elsewhere) well many more migrants DO stay in France and other countries. When I’ve watched news/documentaries that has interviewed asylum seekers seeking to get to the UK and asked them why here it is normally language (ie they speak English), family or friend connections and sometimes perception we’re more welcoming than other countries. We certainly don’t offer the best benefits or social support compared to say Germany or Nordics. Personally if I were to choose I’d go Norway but that’s a tough language to learn.

MumChp · 16/09/2024 01:22

Dweetfidilove · 16/09/2024 01:20

But they are spending the £400 in the UK, which buys precious little.

The £2.50 in tv appeals may feed someone in one of these countries, but it won't feed them here anymore than £10 will send them to school.

They are here working so they can send money home, send for their families to join them here, educate themselves and/or their children to improve their circumstances etc. None of which you can do with £400.

Where you'll find them is running cabs, risking their lives (and ours) on scooters doing delivery, in the booming black market employment and other such places. They haven't crossed the seas to live on benefits.

But housing, benefits and black market employment is often more than many UK citizens have in the end of day.

AGirlInACountrySong · 16/09/2024 01:23

Our prisons are full of these men....immigration take forever to process them.

Overheater · 16/09/2024 01:23

MumChp · 16/09/2024 01:20

But you say everyone deserves a chance?
We can't even afford to run UK now so how can UK be run with open borders for people hunting a better life based on economy - and it's a lot of people! It's naive (and stupid tbh).

Reason we can’t afford to run is not because of migrants. They’re a lovely scapegoat created by a decade plus of Tories who waste money on pointless exercises. Do you have that same attitude to British “expats” who want a better life elsewhere?

Dweetfidilove · 16/09/2024 01:24

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The article outlines 11 points and you've basically taken point one and ignored the rest 👌🏾.

MumChp · 16/09/2024 01:25

ChampagneLassie · 16/09/2024 01:20

Why not France (or elsewhere) well many more migrants DO stay in France and other countries. When I’ve watched news/documentaries that has interviewed asylum seekers seeking to get to the UK and asked them why here it is normally language (ie they speak English), family or friend connections and sometimes perception we’re more welcoming than other countries. We certainly don’t offer the best benefits or social support compared to say Germany or Nordics. Personally if I were to choose I’d go Norway but that’s a tough language to learn.

Sweden and Germany are now tightening up after massive problems with immigration. Denmark has always had relatively strict asylum legislation. So it's probably not even that easy.

MumChp · 16/09/2024 01:28

Overheater · 16/09/2024 01:23

Reason we can’t afford to run is not because of migrants. They’re a lovely scapegoat created by a decade plus of Tories who waste money on pointless exercises. Do you have that same attitude to British “expats” who want a better life elsewhere?

Brits are granted asylum in what country?

Could be useful to know for homeless people in UK if other countries will provide social housing.

LostInMyOwnArse · 16/09/2024 01:31

5byfive · 16/09/2024 00:26

Whenever deaths are reported it is overwhelmingly women and children that died.

Why is this?

We know from photos of boats that land that the number of women and children are a tiny percentage of total passengers.

Are the weaker passengers regularly being off loaded over the edge to keep these boats afloat and we just don’t hear about it.

I don't know, but there was a recent story where a 16 year old girl was raped and strangled to death in front of her mum while the boat she was on was sinking so its certainly possible that some people on those boats would kill the smaller and weaker people if it meant saving themselves.

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 16/09/2024 01:32

TheBigRabbyBunnet · 15/09/2024 23:03

Yeah. Extremely sad either way, my heart aches for these poor people

Does it though? How have you offered your assistance to them?

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 16/09/2024 01:43

WhatMe123 · 15/09/2024 23:18

I work with asylum seekers and it's either desperation and fearing for safety, they're sold a dream by traffickers or they're kidnapped and trafficked and then the family are asked to pay for their safe arrival.
Pretty grim tbh in most cases I've worked with

I simply don't believe its true. They aren't kidnapped. Jeez.............

They are choosing to go to certain countries over others.

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 01:58

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No they don't. The UN Refugee Convention does not make this requirement of refugees, and UK case law supports this interpretation. Refugees can legitimately make a claim for asylum in the UK after passing through other “safe” countries.

marmaladian · 16/09/2024 01:58

I think the vast % are not kidnapped. They are trying to move somewhere, maybe safer, maybe easier, maybe to make money etc.
I am very dubious about how they are almost all young males. It's that dangerous you have to leave, but it's ok to leave your wife and child there.
Hmmm . Seems a bit inconsistent!
Would love to know how many of these men actually send money back, as that is the reason given.

Velvetandgold · 16/09/2024 02:09

@Dweetfidilove I reiterate, there's a LOT you can do with £400. Especially when you're used to having NOTHING. Can you imagine what it's like to not afford toilet paper? Or water to drink that won't make you ill? The ability to lock a door and be safe from harm in your home while you sleep? The health implications of being clean and having enough food to eat? Some people don't have these things in their country. On £400pcm + housing benefit, they can.

If you bother to read my post properly, I've said the feeding someone for £2.50 etc is in their own country, not here in UK, I was talking about them sending money home.

To think people won't come here for "only" £400 a month shows how out of touch with the rest of the world you are.

I've no doubt you're right about them sending for their relatives to join them as soon as they can.

Derwent01 · 16/09/2024 02:20

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 01:58

No they don't. The UN Refugee Convention does not make this requirement of refugees, and UK case law supports this interpretation. Refugees can legitimately make a claim for asylum in the UK after passing through other “safe” countries.

but then does this not defeat the object of wanting a safe county if you then skip half of them ?

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 02:21

5byfive · 16/09/2024 01:07

Are your grandparents brother and sister?

Why on earth would you think that? That's just bizarre!

Mumandcarer80 · 16/09/2024 02:28

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You do realise other countries take them in? They don't just come to the UK.

PyongyangKipperbang · 16/09/2024 02:29

soupfiend · 15/09/2024 23:28

They're not 'sold a dream', people can easily google what happens in other countries and make their choices that way, I work with adult and children asylum seekers, often they're very well to do, sometimes not. Some have high levels of education, some dont. Many speak English well and have family already here, its not a fantasy or dream, they're aware of what awaits them in terms of processing and procedures.

Very very few people are kidnapped and trafficked, the most at risk of actual real trafficking are Vietnamese, usually children.

'Traffickers' are what we might see as transport arrangers, people who know people, they're not all criminal gangs, with shady identities, they're people doing a job to take people to countries they want to go but arent technically allowed to go.

The word trafficking has lost all meaning in recent years.

That sound eerily like the people who help those get out of N.Korea to S. Korea via China. The most dangerous route but due to sanctions in recent years, the one that will be most successful.

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 02:52

Derwent01 · 16/09/2024 02:20

but then does this not defeat the object of wanting a safe county if you then skip half of them ?

Your question doesn't make sense. They want a safe country of their choosing and some of them choose the UK, which the UN Refugee Convention allows them to do - that doesn't defeat anything. 72% of the world’s refugees are actually living in countries neighbouring their country of origin, often in developing countries.

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 03:04

YogaForDummies · 15/09/2024 23:23

I work with all types immigrants including refugees and asylum seekers and can confidently say a lot of it is economically driven. Britain has a generous welfare state which is attractive to people, especially those claiming asylum, as they get put up in decent housing and given basic funds to live. I don't blame the people, only the system which allows them to do it. It isn't fair on the local.population who get moved out of areas they've always lived for generations to make way for them.

People seeking asylum do not come to the UK to claim benefits. Most know nothing about welfare benefits before they arrive and had no expectation that they would receive financial support. Almost all people seeking asylum are not allowed to work and are forced to rely on state support which is as little as £6.43 a day to live on.

AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 03:10

YogaForDummies · 15/09/2024 23:49

It puts a strain on services and housing but it also creates social problems. People of any culture moving en masse will create problems in the host community, by not having the same language and values and in many cases not integrating but living in an insular way that creates areas where the local culture looks completely different to the nation, and people unferstandably struggle to adapt. That's not to say multiculturalism isn't good, when handled properly it can be an amazing asset to a country but when there are big pockets of people who have no interest in the natiknal culture or adapting to it that creates problems both for themselves and for the rest of the population.

"... but when there are big pockets of people who have no interest in the national culture or adapting to it that creates problems both for themselves and for the rest of the population." You could be describing Brits retiring to Spain.

Dogondoolally · 16/09/2024 03:12

DadJoke · 15/09/2024 22:55

They aren’t immigrants, they are asylum seekers and of course they are desperate or they wouldn’t do it.

Again FROM France

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AngelicKaty · 16/09/2024 03:22

YogaForDummies · 15/09/2024 23:59

They're considered more vulnerable as the local people already have connections and family in that area whereas a lot of them don't. A lotmof them are avrualky quite well off but pretend to be homeless (and essentially are, while owning property in their home country) then when offered a home will then transport the restnof their family here to join them.

One anecdote doesn't make data. Here's some facts from the Migration Observatory instead:
"While the differences in the use of social housing between the migrant and UK born populations are relatively small [17% and 16% respectively], there have been claims in the popular press that migrants often receive priority status in the allocation of social housing. Several studies have failed to find evidence supporting this claim (e.g. Battiston et al. 2014, Robinson 2010). However, some migrant groups are more likely to have the characteristics required to gain priority for social housing, such as very low income. In 2020-21, an estimated 92% of lead tenants in social rented housing in England were UK citizens (Social housing lettings in England, 2020/21) although social housing allocation policies vary by local authority, making it difficult to generalise these findings."

Dogondoolally · 16/09/2024 03:26

Whose awake cos they got heartburn from sneaking a couple of chunks of chocolate before bedtime 🖐️

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