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What date do you decorate for autumn?

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justflewinfromthewindycity · 01/09/2024 13:07

I have got some lovely autumn decorative bits but not sure what date I should start putting them out.
Is 1st September too early ?

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Sharptonguedwoman · 03/09/2024 20:15

Nottodaythankyou123 · 03/09/2024 19:55

haha that’s fair enough - I don’t like Temu at all, and don’t buy in to the disposable stuff, just a few key bits I’ve had for a few years that brings me a weird sense of joy when I get them out 😂 weirdly I think the reason I quite enjoy dressing the house for autumn is that it’s not some Uber competitive sport like Christmas can be, I can just add my little bits and feel a spark of joy when I get home from work on a dark rainy evening without worrying I’ve let my kids down because I don’t have a 6ft Santa on my roof 😂

Absolutely agree.

FillyourPothole · 03/09/2024 21:42

This thread has reminded me about this song I had forgotten that I loved singing at school
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Oh I love Autumn so so much! 🍂🍄🔥

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=6s&v=Mf5AfKdKFp4

strawberryshortcakescat · 03/09/2024 22:33

1st of Never

CrowleyKitten · 03/09/2024 23:40

DreamTheMoors · 01/09/2024 18:01

Nope.
As far as I’m aware, people only decorate for Halloween and even that’s extreme.
Christmas is quite big, though, what with lights and lawn ornaments.
There’s a tv show (or used to be) for who could have the most outrageously decorated Christmas house. And they were outrageous, with blaring music, flashing lights and elaborate Santa’s sleighs and reindeers & snowmen.
I imagine their neighbors went insane.

what's extreme about decorating for Halloween?

CrowleyKitten · 03/09/2024 23:49

supportpangolin · 01/09/2024 18:28

@Shakenandstirredup

I don't see many "sniffing" at the concept of decorating for autumn, per se. But some of us are concerned about the environmentally unfriendly stuff that some stores are selling:

https://www.dunelm.com/category/home-decor/all-home-decor?season=autumn

Dunhelm Autumnal Decor

https://www.wilko.com/en-uk/the-autumn-collection/c/5421

Wilko Autumn Collection

https://www.bmstores.co.uk/search?query=autumn

B&M Autumn decorations

Same goes for Halloween. If expressing concern for the environment is "deeply joyless" - then so be it.

Edited

do you hold Christmas tat to the same standards? or just the celebrations you don't enjoy.

I've got Halloween "tat" that is on display year round, or that comes out year after year, the same as my Christmas tree that is easily 20 years old and still going strong (absolute bargain. a black tree from M&S that was reduced to £25 and still looks as good as the day I got it)
have you never justified buying something plastic that you will use for years? maybe even decades?

CrowleyKitten · 03/09/2024 23:51

DeCaray · 01/09/2024 18:33

It's all a bit 'Wicker man' with this harvest festival home decor.

https://www.mosaicslab.com/blog/affordableautumnn_decor/

nothing wrong with being a bit Wicker Man. great film with a great vibe to it.

BUT the Wicker Man is nothing to do with Autumn. it's about the Beltane celebrations. so, first of may. completely other end of the cycle.

Overtheatlantic · 03/09/2024 23:54

I’ve just had a couple of gorgeous orange chrysanthemums delivered. I will place them in the garden along with some pumpkins and light some cinnamon candles.

CrowleyKitten · 03/09/2024 23:57

JumpingBird · 01/09/2024 18:50

Well where I live it can be dark 24hrs. So why not decorate with lots candles indoors and outdoors and make it cosy. It’s dark but all our neighbour’s houses look really nice with candles and autumn/winter plants or decorations. Chestnuts, autumn leaves, pine branches and beautiful pine cones.

exactly. that's WHY you decorate seasonally. to bring some nature and warmth and cosiness indoors when it's dull and grey

Overtheatlantic · 03/09/2024 23:58

RavenhairedRachel · 02/09/2024 17:53

Is this another stupid ritual from America. Or is it a retail invention to tide the shops over before Christmas ?

Oh How I want to tell you to do one. Are you so jealous of Americans?

Beenthereagainandagain · 04/09/2024 00:04

Where do you store it all out of season? I’ve got no room cos I have way too many Xmas decs, so in summer/spring I don’t have storage for Xmas and autumn. I figured it would stay a us only thing cos they tend to have massive basements.

CrowleyKitten · 04/09/2024 00:08

MoggyP · 01/09/2024 19:38

Do you think over-consumption is good then?

I'm judging the action, not the people.

I don't think giving birthday presents is equivalent to "autumn decorations"

My Christmas decorations are years old (and yes, I'd post similar about waste/overconsumption about buying new Xmas decorations to fit an annual "theme") and I try to make everything last (mending whenever possible). I keep my tech until it completely packs in (rather than replacing every time I'm "eligible" for an upgrade) and don't own a car.

It's a metric fuckton more joyless to have your home wiped out by flooding, or wild fires or any of the natural disasters that are becoming more common because of climate change, then it is to refrain from buying in to new commercially-driven opportunities to give money to companies.

I've got Halloween decorations I've had for decades. some is displayed year round. My Christmas tree is also a good 20 years old, easily. still looks as good as the day I bought it.

why are my decades old Halloween decorations that I add to as and when I find something I love any more environmentally destructive than my Christmas decorations?

especially as only some of the Halloween ones get packed away until next year

CrowleyKitten · 04/09/2024 00:17

greengreyblue · 01/09/2024 20:27

I think this is maybe a US tradition. Certainly wasn’t in U.K. prior to 5 years ago. Before then it was just Halloween pumpkins etc for one night. Wreaths were just at Christmas. Now you see autumn ones and spring too.

probably 20 or more years ago, I made a pentagram shaped door wreath out of birch branches and copper wire. I wire different greenery, berries, flowers and so on onto it, and replace it when it becomes old and shabby. which means it changes with the seasons. it has seasonal foliage, fruits and flowers.

that's not American or newer than 5 years in the U.K.

CrowleyKitten · 04/09/2024 00:25

DreadingWinter · 02/09/2024 08:21

My user name says it all. Autumn is the start of the misery for me. I loathe it. The clocks going back so it's dark at 4pm, The expense and stress of Christmas really gets to me. The tree stayed undecorated in its pot in the garden last year. The fact that's it's September now and the nights are drawing in makes me sad. If it could be daylight until 8pm every day, I'd be happy. Needless to say I won't be decorating for Autumn and had never heard of it until this thread. Call me a misery guts, but I'm glad to have unloaded!

get your vitamin D levels tested. I've always had really bad S.A.D. and it turned out I pretty much can't absorb it to normal levels. full RDI supplements help the fatigue and joint pain it causes. and they help the S.A.D. even though the doctors said the link between the two is tenuous. it's helped me a lot, more than things like daylight lamps and so on.

CrowleyKitten · 04/09/2024 00:52

Sharptonguedwoman · 03/09/2024 18:50

Harvest festival is fine. In a church.

why should only Christians get to enjoy the changing of the seasons?

Nannyfannybanny · 04/09/2024 07:24

JumpingBird,where do you live.? I had a Christmas tree from Woolworths over 30 years, only then given to the charities shop because we downsized,the one I have now is getting on for 20. I theme Christmas, but the decorations are donkeys years old. The newest ones I knitted out of oddments when my dog was a puppy.... she kept pinching them. She was 9 in may.

Sharptonguedwoman · 04/09/2024 08:27

CrowleyKitten · 04/09/2024 00:52

why should only Christians get to enjoy the changing of the seasons?

Crowley Kitten, obviously you can do whatever you like. I think I was down heartened at the thought of another thing I might have to do plus expense plus environment. I'm not a churchgoer now but it came to me that we have always celebrated autumn through harvest festivals, a fading tradition.
If people want to decorate with autumn leaves or whatever, fine. I can't see the point of pumpkins at all though and hate the waste.

BellieEllie · 04/09/2024 10:24

Overtheatlantic · 03/09/2024 23:58

Oh How I want to tell you to do one. Are you so jealous of Americans?

Know your place, pleb! Americans are beneath even the British working class according to Mumsnet class hierarchy 🙄🤪

Gonnaenodothat · 04/09/2024 13:35

I came on this thread as I love autumn and thought I'd find others who enjoyed it as much as I do but from what I've seen people have just come on the thread to be judgemental and rude I find it so bizarre you would even comment if it's not something your interested in doing scroll on.
I love decorating for autumn I have autumnal cushions,garlands mugs I change my candles for ones with autumnal scents. The decorations I have are ones I reuse each year I might add small things each year just as I do with christmas I use natural items such as conkers, pine cones etc to decorate with also. I will probably put my things out mid September but if you want to put yours out now Op you go for it do what makes you happy nothing wrong with that, enjoy!! 🍁🍂🌰

MaidOfAle · 04/09/2024 17:03

TheMamaLife · 02/09/2024 20:25

i bet everyone does this to a small extent at least without realising.. it’s essentially putting your summer bits away and bringing out the warmer duvets, throws, etc along with the winter coats.

I’d say do it after the first autumnal feeling day… (like today in London)…

I might pick up this tradition with my own kids.. seems lovely.

I have different weights of duvet but, other than that, I don't comprehend "summer bits".

All my coats live in the coat cupboard all year around and all my clothes live in the wardrobe all year around. My blankets live in the storage footstool all year around.

I can need the electric blanket in August so I don't dare to put any warm items where I can't reach them easily.

MaidOfAle · 04/09/2024 18:17

CrowleyKitten · 03/09/2024 23:57

exactly. that's WHY you decorate seasonally. to bring some nature and warmth and cosiness indoors when it's dull and grey

Do you not decorate in a cosy way to start with? I didn't paint my bedroom in an uncosy way, I painted it a kind of off-white with buttermilk carpetting to make it seem warmer.

I wonder if this desire to put autumn leaves in the house is a consequence of the recent trend for prison grey walls and laminate floors.

reluctantbrit · 04/09/2024 18:38

MaidOfAle · 04/09/2024 18:17

Do you not decorate in a cosy way to start with? I didn't paint my bedroom in an uncosy way, I painted it a kind of off-white with buttermilk carpetting to make it seem warmer.

I wonder if this desire to put autumn leaves in the house is a consequence of the recent trend for prison grey walls and laminate floors.

In Spring/Summer I don't have the need for warm tones on top of the normal colours in the house, I have actually a lot less on window sills as I have the windows open all the time so things fall down when it's a bit windy.

In autumn/winter I obviously air the house but not all day long.

I also don't need the blankets everywhere, they are in the wardrobe, not on the sofa.

And candles with maple leaves in the wax or gnomes in orange/brown with leaf motives don't really fit in other times of the year.

LilBowWow · 04/09/2024 18:47

I’ve seen the error of my ways. Off to buy a buttermilk carpet forthwith. Absolutely no need for a pretty tea light holder if my carpet is buttermilk.

MaidOfAle · 04/09/2024 18:50

reluctantbrit · 04/09/2024 18:38

In Spring/Summer I don't have the need for warm tones on top of the normal colours in the house, I have actually a lot less on window sills as I have the windows open all the time so things fall down when it's a bit windy.

In autumn/winter I obviously air the house but not all day long.

I also don't need the blankets everywhere, they are in the wardrobe, not on the sofa.

And candles with maple leaves in the wax or gnomes in orange/brown with leaf motives don't really fit in other times of the year.

And candles with maple leaves in the wax or gnomes in orange/brown with leaf motives don't really fit in other times of the year.

I think our home decor tastes are sufficiently wildly different to explain why I don't feel any need to decorate for autumn. Houseplants and sci-fi models and retro video games memorabilia look in-place all year around.

MaidOfAle · 04/09/2024 18:52

LilBowWow · 04/09/2024 18:47

I’ve seen the error of my ways. Off to buy a buttermilk carpet forthwith. Absolutely no need for a pretty tea light holder if my carpet is buttermilk.

I can't have candles because of DCat.

LilBowWow · 04/09/2024 18:55

Thing is, I don’t care. I have no opinion on how other people decorate or how they spend their money.