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Blake Lively, RR & It Ends With Us drama

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notallbloom · 16/08/2024 14:04

Have NC because I freely admit that I have (limited) skin in this game, I am not entirely neutral.

This tells the story of the rift better than I could video here more about JB here JB info

Have worked for Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds in the UK, they are ...erm not my favourite slebs to work with. BL can be nasty to staff, her I'm all for women thing would be great, if she wasn't awful to them in reality. RR sometimes apologetically, always sides with BL, as his wife.
However, she does have 4 young DCs, so has spent much of the last decade pregnant, or post partum, which is enough to make anyone tired and therefore appear 'difficult'.

As I am senior in my role, stars have to treat me with some decency. Even so, the mask slips, I do everything I can to make their time in the UK as comfortable as possible, whilst placating the staff they upset, I will not work with them if I can avoid it.

Justin Baldoni directed It Ends With Us, I do not know JB.

Anti JB side (note there isn't much information about what JB has done wrong):
• He was difficult on set.
• He was acting and directing, diluting his ability to do both.
• He has hired a the firm of PR crisis manager who helped to improve Johnny Depp's image during the Amber Heard trial.
• JB has a pro 'good' men podcast called Man Enough, largely it is positive. Unfortunately he had Drake Bell on the podcast and did not question his accountability for previous SA.

Anti BL side:
• BL is trying to give the film a Barbie moment, encouraging audiences, for a film about DV, to wear florals.
• BL has objected to two things; she says JB fat-shamed her on set and, in one scene kissed her for too long (no suggestion that the kiss itself was inappropriate e.g. tongue).
• BL & RR made a cut of the film, which emphasises the rom-com of the story, rather than the DV.
• BL has corralled the author, Colleen Hoover and the cast to 'unfollow' JB on social media.
• RR rewrote a scene for the film without being asked by the director in doing so, RR broke the writer's strike.
• The cast have not been doing any press or standing on the red carpet at the premieres with JB.
• BL is using the film promo to also promote her new hair brand.

It may be that JB was a massive a-hole, or it may be that BL was a 'mean girl' and used her considerable power to influence the rest of the cast to be unpleasant to JB.
The truth could lie somewhere in the middle.

This is everything I know, I did not work on the film, or the promotion of it, so far.
I am able to agree that I have direct experience of seeing what BL and RR are like IRL, whereas I do not have the same experience of JB.
I'm prepared to accept that JB is the villain here.
I do not have any further information about this situation, if any comes my way I will, without breaking my contractual obligations, write about it here.

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Sleepydoor · 16/08/2024 17:10

Cabincrew1 · 16/08/2024 16:34

I watched the 2016 interview yesterday and although I didn’t have an opinion on lively either way, now I think she’s a horrible entitled bitch as I suspect a lot of Hollywood are. I was more disappointed at Parker posey as I’ve admired her work since the 90s, so petty and mean and that horrible face she pulled at the end, so unprofessional.

I love Parker Posey as an actor but this seems just like her character in Party Girl and other films where she is kind of an asshole, so I'm not sure I can be mad at it.

CormorantStrikesBack · 16/08/2024 17:12

I know f all about any of this however totally agree with

Blake Lively has some audacity launching a hair care line given how dry and unkempt her hair is

Nanana1 · 16/08/2024 17:12

I heard the bump reporter is infertile, ouch!

Sleepydoor · 16/08/2024 17:13

"He has hired a the firm of PR crisis manager who helped to improve Johnny Depp's image during the Amber Heard trial."

OP your posting this here immediately raised my suspicions that you are part of this crisis management. Happy to be wrong though.

1offnamechange · 16/08/2024 17:14

Ghosttofu99 · 16/08/2024 17:07

Exactly…

Woman has creative differences with man directing film about DV.

Man hires legal team that supported other man who can be legally called a wife beater in the U.K.

Woman is the one who gets cancelled for wearing flowery dresses and being ‘bitchy.’

To be fair, the majority of the comments about THIS FILM are about her being oblivious/insensitive about the way she chose to market it which isn't a gender-specific complaint.

The "bitchy" comments have been primarily in relation to an earlier interview that has resurfaced, and tbh I would struggle to defend someone who replied to being complimented about their baby bump with "aww and congratulations on YOUR bump" (to someone who WASNT pregnant) as anything other than bitchy!

Sleepydoor · 16/08/2024 17:15

siblingrevelryagain · 16/08/2024 16:44

It's RR who has the booze business (Aviation Gin) - her business is alcohol-free

I was ambivalent towards her until i saw that 2016 interview yesterday. It made me so uncomfortable, I don't care whether she was put off by the innocuous comment (congratulating her on her pregnancy). It strikes me as looking for offence or to make a point where none exists. Likewise, the question about costumes was relevant because the film was a period piece with great costumes apparently (20's/30's I believe). Her career has shown her enjoying and experimenting with fashion, so it's not too much of a reach to think you'd have found common ground in asking her a question about something she seems interested in.

Even if those things caused her offence, to deliberately treat another person that way, to have your body language and manner exclude the person doing their job of interviewing you, was straight out of a school bully playbook.

And those saying she doesn't have to be nice, yes she bloody does, we all do. One of the big things wrong with the world these days is that there is some badge of honour to 'tell it like it is'. In any walk of life or job, that's just rudeness, and calling it out isn't anti-feminist (I call men out for being a dick too)

Her Betty Booze line is not alcohol free:

https://bettybooze.com/products/sparkling-tequila-with-oak-smoked-lemonade

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Nanana1 · 16/08/2024 17:15

The main & valid criticism is using the film press to market herself & her products whilst glossing over the DV aspect.

Cabincrew1 · 16/08/2024 17:16

1offnamechange · 16/08/2024 17:07

I completely disagree about the 2016 interview, BL wasn't asked questions about her pregnancy, just congratulated about it, and then replied incredibly rudely.

Then the first question was about costumes - HW celebs have previously appropriately criticised this before (e.g. scarlet johanssen/Anne hathaway) - why are women always asked about typically feminine things like clothes- however in this case it was a period film with a very deliberate aesthetic which the interviewer prefaced the question with - so in context it was an appropriate question.

Also BL didn't respond by saying "why are women always asked about costumes, let's discuss the deeper themes" she said why do we always talk about women's costumes and then proceeded to discuss the men's costumes (at length!) instead - which WOULD have been a completely weird question for the interviewer to ask! If you're going to ask about costumes you'll ask the people you're actually interviewing about theirs, not about their co-stars who aren't there! If the interviewer had only asked 2 women about their male co-stars she would have been criticised more for that! It was an innocuous and, in the context of the film, relevant question and the 2 actresses' (particularly BL's) response was really bizarre.

In relation to the current film, I'll only add that i follow someone on insta (herself a DV survivor who does a lot of "spill alls") who did a (fairly tame compared to lots of the publicity on this, not even as blatant as comments on this thread) short video on the whole thing, was reported by BL/RRs reps, and got their whole social media content demonitised which as a content creator is their main income. Which, you can absolutely say that as a gossip type blog that's a risk you take every time you post a video but it's interesting that of all her vids (some of which are far more critical of other celebs) its this one that was targetted - BL and RR have a huge PR presence which makes it even more interesting that they have fucked up to this degree in promoting this film UNLESS it was specifically planned- bad publicity is better than no publicity etc.

Edited

She’s OBSESSED with fashion and style so the interviewer was probably trying to appeal to that side of her nature.

Blake is currently sidetracking every conversation about her new movie onto fashion, so why was it not okay in 2016 but it is now.

Iloveyoubut · 16/08/2024 17:16

Twistybranch · 16/08/2024 17:06

The interviewer, where BL was offended by them congratulating her on her baby bump and BL retorted congratulations on yours……was unable to conceive. She was devastated.

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-13750309/blake-lively-interview-kjersti-flaa-bump-comment-ends-movie.html

i agree, that was truly horrible. i watched the interview and the interviewer was lovely, she must have been gutted and yet she managed just to hold it together.

Stresshead84x · 16/08/2024 17:17

1offnamechange · 16/08/2024 17:07

I completely disagree about the 2016 interview, BL wasn't asked questions about her pregnancy, just congratulated about it, and then replied incredibly rudely.

Then the first question was about costumes - HW celebs have previously appropriately criticised this before (e.g. scarlet johanssen/Anne hathaway) - why are women always asked about typically feminine things like clothes- however in this case it was a period film with a very deliberate aesthetic which the interviewer prefaced the question with - so in context it was an appropriate question.

Also BL didn't respond by saying "why are women always asked about costumes, let's discuss the deeper themes" she said why do we always talk about women's costumes and then proceeded to discuss the men's costumes (at length!) instead - which WOULD have been a completely weird question for the interviewer to ask! If you're going to ask about costumes you'll ask the people you're actually interviewing about theirs, not about their co-stars who aren't there! If the interviewer had only asked 2 women about their male co-stars she would have been criticised more for that! It was an innocuous and, in the context of the film, relevant question and the 2 actresses' (particularly BL's) response was really bizarre.

In relation to the current film, I'll only add that i follow someone on insta (herself a DV survivor who does a lot of "spill alls") who did a (fairly tame compared to lots of the publicity on this, not even as blatant as comments on this thread) short video on the whole thing, was reported by BL/RRs reps, and got their whole social media content demonitised which as a content creator is their main income. Which, you can absolutely say that as a gossip type blog that's a risk you take every time you post a video but it's interesting that of all her vids (some of which are far more critical of other celebs) its this one that was targetted - BL and RR have a huge PR presence which makes it even more interesting that they have fucked up to this degree in promoting this film UNLESS it was specifically planned- bad publicity is better than no publicity etc.

Edited

I don't really know Parker Posey but I got the impression BL was playing up to her as a cool girl a bit in that interview- I also read somewhere that in 2016 everyone was saying those things about women being asked about clothes etc and they were probably trying to be cool- but yeah it's a horrible interview to watch and has changed my impression of her.

I do really like RR though and I'm struggling to accept he's as bad.

Cabincrew1 · 16/08/2024 17:19

Sleepydoor · 16/08/2024 17:10

I love Parker Posey as an actor but this seems just like her character in Party Girl and other films where she is kind of an asshole, so I'm not sure I can be mad at it.

So she probably just plays herself then, only explanation.

Nanana1 · 16/08/2024 17:22

Blake is currently sidetracking every conversation about her new movie onto fashion, so why was it not okay in 2016 but it is now.

its all about the clothes today, I read she used her own clothes in the film which weren’t in keeping with character but I’ve not read the book.

ThatChirpyLurker · 16/08/2024 17:27

The fact that Blake wants to put the journalist in her place regarding the “misogynistic’ costume question is laughable given she is in a WOODY ALLEN film. Hypocrite.

notallbloom · 16/08/2024 17:28

@LiterallyOnFire this.
Of course we discuss the people we work with, I would not want anyone, whichever company they work for, to be treated poorly in their workplace.
If someone in an office, or any industry, could be difficult to work with, everyone would know. Colleagues would either know how to approach them, or when not to and when to involve HR.

To anyone writing that I should mind my own business, this is my business!

In posting I have tried to be even handed, everything is either common knowledge, or my opinion.

As I wrote in a PP, there is a general misunderstanding of confidentiality agreements. Unless there is an injunction, I am allowed freedom of thought and speech.
My opinion is just that.
Wrt famous people; I am only giving information which is in the public domain, or vaguely recounting my own thoughts and experiences.

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DramaLlamaBangBang · 16/08/2024 17:29

Margot Robbie was always kind, funny and professional, although she was often exhausted. She has not changed, or grown a demanding ego since achieving greater fame, sorry . When I am asked to work with MR, I look forward to it. She makes everyone's job easier.
I was going to say how many people, especially in Hollywood are actually nice? It's a pretty cutthroat industry with tons if competition. They have probably had to put up with massive amounts of shit from people like Weinstein, then when they make it, they have constant smoke blown up their asses about how amazing they are, with their demands catered for.
I'm glad Margot Robbie knows how to treat people, but I suppose she's Australian. It's mainly Americans who have the diva like behaviour.

ItsTheGAGGGGGGGG · 16/08/2024 17:29

She’s such bad vibes

Twistybranch · 16/08/2024 17:31

I’m glad to know Margot is a good egg too. Wouldn’t expect anything else really, she seems so down to earth.

PuddlesPityParty · 16/08/2024 17:34

BL is a nepo baby, what do you expect.

DodoTired · 16/08/2024 17:34

all three could be assholes!

DancingPhantomsOnTheTerrace · 16/08/2024 17:35

Twistybranch · 16/08/2024 17:31

I’m glad to know Margot is a good egg too. Wouldn’t expect anything else really, she seems so down to earth.

Me too. I've been a fan since her days as Donna on Neighbours

IcedPurple · 16/08/2024 17:35

Iloveyoubut · 16/08/2024 17:16

i agree, that was truly horrible. i watched the interview and the interviewer was lovely, she must have been gutted and yet she managed just to hold it together.

I've just watched it. They both seem horrible, especially Blake. They just carry on chatting to each other and basically ignore the poor interviewer, barely even making eye contact with her. She looked really uncomfortable. I doubt they'd have behaved in such an unprofessional and obnoxious manner if this had been a 'big name' journalist.

Lovemybunnies · 16/08/2024 17:38

MeinKraft · 16/08/2024 14:14

I was actually thinking about discussing this on here. To ask why there are bots all over X trying to smear Blake Lively, what is going on? I'm seeing it constantly and I have zero interest in Blake Lively, I haven't been searching her on X or anywhere else. And now here on MN as well.

I agree @MeinKraft its all over the DM as well. It’s like a deliberate attack on her.

TreeOfLives · 16/08/2024 17:42

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siblingrevelryagain · 16/08/2024 17:42

Cabincrew1 · 16/08/2024 17:16

She’s OBSESSED with fashion and style so the interviewer was probably trying to appeal to that side of her nature.

Blake is currently sidetracking every conversation about her new movie onto fashion, so why was it not okay in 2016 but it is now.

I think she was trying to find outrage where it wasn’t warranted; it’s totally right that SJ got the ick about being asked if she wears underwear with her superhero costume, or what workout regime she needs to do in order to fit into her outfits, but BL feigning outrage at being asked a non-confrontational question just makes her look a bit dim

Nanana1 · 16/08/2024 17:43

She must have pissed off people in the media as they are going in hard on her.