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Milk allergy death- should the book be thrown at the staff involved?

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mids2019 · 13/08/2024 19:07

....or if you are minimum wage staff member working in a stressed environment without English as a first language there should be leniency. Doctors are paid for life and death decisions but are Costa staff?

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Jazzjazzyjulez · 14/08/2024 06:54

Bellamari · 14/08/2024 06:13

People have said multiple times that the powder doesn’t contain milk. Have you read the thread?

“Ms Akter then told the court she had repeated Ms Duyile's request for the jug to be washed and pointed out that hot chocolate is made from milk.”

Quote from the sky article.

autienotnaughty · 14/08/2024 06:59

My son has a non ige allergy. There has been a few slip ups over years but the worst he gets is eczema or loose bowels. If he had an ige allergy I would avoid eating food/drink prepared by others. We once went to taco bell, used their allergen filter to see what he could have, told staff member and it still came out with cheese in!

The mum should have at least checked the ingredients list. But she will suffer for the rest of her life

TheFallenMadonna · 14/08/2024 06:59

I think I read that this was a franchise, but in Costa, if someone mentions an allergy, the most senior person available deals with it, uses the book, cleans equipment etc. There's a very clear protocol which is checked pretty regularly. And when my son worked there, they paid above minimum wage.

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Scrunchie33 · 14/08/2024 07:17

I don't think any one person is to blame, it's just a tragic mistake but not at all uncommon or unheard of.

The server should have shown the book. She may not have because she forgot, because most people don't want to see it, because she assumed it wasn't a serious allergy as she thought they were ordering something with some milk in it...the list goes on. Add in a second language and lots of room for error. People's orders get messed up all the time in eateries. That's expected to a point.

The customers - they thought they ordered a safe drink. BUT who has never been served the wrong thing in a coffee shop? Unless you sit there and watch them make it at every step, you cannot assume it's safe. Even if they make it correctly, what if they mix up the cups on the side and hand you the wrong one? Or cross contamination? There are so many risks in ordering at a restaurant or cafe that you are accepting a level of risk by not preparing your own. I understand this is extremely limiting and frustrating but people with allergies have the ultimate responsibility to safeguard themselves. And that should include having an epipen at all times.

IMBCRound2 · 14/08/2024 07:22

I have a severe life threatening allergy which is both contact and airborne if my immune system is down . I carry Epi-pens.

it does my head in that companies say ‘ may contain…’ / ‘ can’t guarantee’ about literally EVERYTHING to cover themselves- I’m talking fresh fruit and veg as well as the more obvious risks. I find I have to take daily risks or my only actually safe option would be to go off grid and grow all my own food. I wish they would just be honest about the risk so you could actually make an informed choice.

WickieRoy · 14/08/2024 07:28

IMBCRound2 · 14/08/2024 07:22

I have a severe life threatening allergy which is both contact and airborne if my immune system is down . I carry Epi-pens.

it does my head in that companies say ‘ may contain…’ / ‘ can’t guarantee’ about literally EVERYTHING to cover themselves- I’m talking fresh fruit and veg as well as the more obvious risks. I find I have to take daily risks or my only actually safe option would be to go off grid and grow all my own food. I wish they would just be honest about the risk so you could actually make an informed choice.

Agreed. I think Marks and Spencer think anyone with a nut allergy should be able to survive on fresh air.

DH did tell me about an article he read - somewhere (the US?) tightening the regs around may contain warnings so that manufacturers couldn't use them to cover their arses. But all that meant was that the manufacturers just added nuts to the recipes so they were now contains rather than may contains. The manufacturers decided the lost sales from those with allergies was worth it next to the possibility of litigation if things went wrong. So legislation designed to ensure those with allergies had more options had the opposite effect.

SlightlygrumpyBettyswaitress · 14/08/2024 07:31

I do think that are circs where front line staff can be culpable. For example, not passing on allergy info to the kitchen. I have am allergy and it's notable in the last 12 months or so, my food will come with a flag or marker, so I know that the message had got to the kitchen and they have acted on it.
In a coffee shop like Costa? I don't think it's fair tbh.

aurynne · 14/08/2024 07:37

You don't even take your severelly-allergic-to-dairy daughter inside a place where dairy milk is used for 95% of their beverages, let alone putting her life at risk by trusting a barely-minimum-wage employee to guarantee there isn't a molecule of milk in the drink she ordered.

It's a tragedy, but sadly an easily preventable one.

IMBCRound2 · 14/08/2024 07:56

WickieRoy · 14/08/2024 07:28

Agreed. I think Marks and Spencer think anyone with a nut allergy should be able to survive on fresh air.

DH did tell me about an article he read - somewhere (the US?) tightening the regs around may contain warnings so that manufacturers couldn't use them to cover their arses. But all that meant was that the manufacturers just added nuts to the recipes so they were now contains rather than may contains. The manufacturers decided the lost sales from those with allergies was worth it next to the possibility of litigation if things went wrong. So legislation designed to ensure those with allergies had more options had the opposite effect.

That’s awful!

i suppose I should be grateful water is safe 😂

WickieRoy · 14/08/2024 08:00

IMBCRound2 · 14/08/2024 07:56

That’s awful!

i suppose I should be grateful water is safe 😂

Probably not in Marks and Spencer 🤣

Cornflakericekrispie · 14/08/2024 08:02

I think lots of people are missing the point here.

The problem isn't whether the hot chocolate powder did or did not contain milk traces.

The problem is that the barista made the hot chocolate WITH DAIRY MILK, not soya milk, having just been informed about the dairy allergy. She washed the jug and then poured dairy milk into it and made the drink with that. For someone she had been told - and clearly understood - was allergic to milk! That was really a very stupid thing to do if she had been given any training around allergies at all?

There was a complete lack of training and/or understanding here.
I mean, seriously, it was completely negligent!!!

MouseofCommons · 14/08/2024 08:06

You don't need to have suffered anaphylaxis to be prescribed epi-pens. DS was prescribed them as a pre-schooler after one nasty allergic reaction (luckily he did puke it all over the back car seat which minimised things).
Not long after he had am allergy clinic appointment and the skin prick tests confirmed his allergies and need to always carry an epi-pen. He has never forgotten them or needed them so far. He is incredibly careful about food. We'll never eat at at many restaurants and will never have a takeaway.

DysonSphere · 14/08/2024 08:07

MrsAvocet · 14/08/2024 01:28

EpiPens are still effective for some time after the expiry date, as long as the solution is still clear. So depending on how long you've had them you might be ok. There is a window on the side where you can check. If it looks milky it needs to be discarded. Sounds like you need to go back to your Allergy Clinic or GP for a review though. It must be hard when you have unidentified triggers. I remember when my DS was little there seemed to be new things cropping up every few weeks but fortunately no new discoveries for over a decade now and it's much easier once you know. Hope you get sorted out soon.
Oh, something else you might want to consider once you have new Epipens is practising with the expired ones on an orange. They are simple to use but it's still easy to make a mistake when you're stressed so it's good to practice. Most common mistake people make is to jab the needle in and pull it straight out rather than waiting the necessary 3 seconds for it to deliver the medication. And someone I know once accidentally jabbed themselves in the thumb instead of the allergy sufferer in the leg. Fortunately they did have another one with them.
I find it ironic that as a First Aider at our sports club I need to renew my certificate every 3 years and that includes refresher training on all 3 brands of auto injector but as the parent of a child with multiple allergies and thus far more likely to actually need to use one I had one 15 minute training session about 15 years ago on one brand and that's me considered trained for life. If you are good at allergen avoidance you might carry adrenaline for years, decades even, without ever needing it but then one day out of the blue you could have to recall the information in an emergency so I definitely think it's worth practising.

Brilliant advice again, thanks.

This thread has been good in terms of spreading awareness and correcting some misinformation.

I must say I am surprised not to have received this information from a GP or consultant. Simply given the pens.

ruffler45 · 14/08/2024 08:14

From Heaalth and Safey Executive website these are the basic rules: -

  • can I get rid of the hazard altogether?
  • if not, how can I control the risks so that harm is unlikely?

Item 1 - The mother should have not gone anywhere near a coffee shop that uses dairy products, or just drink water from a bottle, was a milk based choclate drink essential at that time?

Cornflakericekrispie · 14/08/2024 08:14

cadburyegg · 13/08/2024 19:37

I'm confused as to how the error occurred. It sounds like the server did take the order correctly and her only "error" was not showing the mum the allergy book. If the server had already explained that the chocolate powder did contain milk then I don't see how her showing the mum the book would have changed anything.

If the drink was served with soya milk with the equipment washed correctly then I don't see how the staff member is at fault really. If the girl died due to the milk in the hot chocolate powder then how can Costa be at fault?

It makes no sense that the mum refused an epipen also.

The server made the drink with dairy milk, not with soya milk.

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 14/08/2024 08:17

WickieRoy · 13/08/2024 20:54

A lot of people are big fans of "if I or my child had a severe allergy I would never do X, Y or Z perfectly normal activity", but once you're dealing with it that's not how life works. You can't put yourself or your child in a bubble.

Families with allergies have layers of risk mitigations, in two main groups:

  1. Don't consume the allergen
  2. If step 1 fails, follow medication plan

In this case there was error in step 1 in the Costa and on behalf of the girl and her mum by not being more vigilant with the drink prep - presumably because they never had to be before. Costa shouldn't have been blasé about it though, they should have assumed a potentially fatal allergy.

And then a catalogue of errors at step 2 as they didn't realise what was happening.

They were very very unlucky by the sounds of things.

The people making grand claims about never eating out and the like are actually more likely to find themselves in this family's shoes as a reaction would take them by surprise. For those of us dealing with allergies day to day we have a whole detailed plan to follow to mitigate the risk.

Costa shouldn't have been blasé about it though, they should have assumed a potentially fatal allergy.
I think this is at the route of a lot of mistaken exposure to allergens in the food industry. Their are dietary preferences, intolerances and allergies and many people don't take the allergies seriously enough. I wonder if the Costa training on allergens says anywhere, "the person you serve might die if you get this wrong so pay attention and triple check with unambiguous language if you're unsure". If the barista had said. "are you sure you want COWS milk in this with a milk allergy," the tragedy would have been avoided. Similar if the mum had been clearer and checked. Having people who make these requests but it doesn't matter so much and mistakes that don't have any real impact on the barista/cook lead to complacency. If the child hadn't had a reaction for a while and they regularly ordered at their local Costa who were very proactive about allergies then the mum could be rushed and feeling a bit complacent too. I don't have a child with allergies, I know those that do and adults with allergies and eating out is a nightmare, but sometimes you just want to do normal things and people shouldn't be crucified for that. It's easy to say how you would behave with your child when you actually have no idea what it's like. .

I think more than anything this tragedy shows that everyone needs to take allergies more seriously. No one is harmed by making sure. At least one person said they didn't know dairy allergies can kill. Everyone should know that you can be allergic to any substance, be it one that's eaten/inhaled/touched and that there is always a possibility that an allergy can be fatal. Few people seem to know allergies can appear at any stage in life or that they can worsen either over time or suddenly. Societies attitude to allergies is very blasé, I think ultimately that's the problem here.

WickieRoy · 14/08/2024 08:23

MouseofCommons · 14/08/2024 08:06

You don't need to have suffered anaphylaxis to be prescribed epi-pens. DS was prescribed them as a pre-schooler after one nasty allergic reaction (luckily he did puke it all over the back car seat which minimised things).
Not long after he had am allergy clinic appointment and the skin prick tests confirmed his allergies and need to always carry an epi-pen. He has never forgotten them or needed them so far. He is incredibly careful about food. We'll never eat at at many restaurants and will never have a takeaway.

There's specific criteria, possibly varies by allergen as well. DD has epipens after one non-anaphylactic reaction to peanuts, but that's because she also has a history of viral wheeze. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have the epipens without the viral wheeze.

WickieRoy · 14/08/2024 08:26

Agree @EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness . One of the baristas in our local Nero asks everyone who orders a soy or almond based drink if it's allergy or preference, I think that's good practice that should be widely adopted.

ThePure · 14/08/2024 08:30

This minimum wage coffee shop employee had an interpreter for the inquest. She had this job for only 8 months.

Yea it was Costas responsibility to train her correctly and I am sure they did tell her the procedure at some point but clearly she did not grasp the seriousness. Plus 99% of the time that people ask for non dairy milk it's just a preference not a life or death scenario. I've asked for a coconut milk latte myself just because I like them and have no allergies at all.

Has anyone else ever seen the allergy book come out when ordering in a Costa? I probably go to Costa a few times a week and have never ever seen this.

If it was my child who had such a serious allergy then no I would not place so much trust in a minimum wage employee at a high street chain coffee shop. Its not that I would never take my child out but I would risk assess this as a high risk situation and assure myself that I had made it safe not rely on someone unlikely to be reliable
Eg I think I would have been watching her make the drinks and spotted her using the incorrect milk.

It's a horrible tragedy but I hope that it's Costa as an organisation and not this poor minimum wage employee who get any blame that is apportioned. I get paid to make life or death decisions in my line of work but the same level of care should not be expected of a person behind a coffee shop counter.

VaccineSticker · 14/08/2024 08:30

AugustAlready · 13/08/2024 23:01

AND she explained they needed to wash the jug used for frothing the milk and the other bits. She was very vocal about it. How the hell did they get this SO wrong 😱🥲

People with severe allergies carry an epipen with them. Regardless of mistakes from
the server, cross contamination can happen even when being extra careful.
Where was her epipen?
Was she not aware that her allergy severe? Did she think it was an intolerance hence no epipen was prescribed?
Why did she refuse the dentist’s epipen?
and why was antihistamines her first port of call?

Thmssngvwlsrnd · 14/08/2024 08:45

Viviennemary · 13/08/2024 22:28

I disagree. It means preparing your own food and not putting the onus on busy chains and their staff. If I had an allergy that could kill me I wouldn't eat or drink in cafes. Far too risky.

So does that mean you'd also never go out with your work colleagues - for example you'd never go to the Christmas meal? Or you'd never go to a wedding, or a birthday meal in a restaurant, or never eat out on holiday, or before going to watch a show, or on a date etc etc... It's not easy to just "never eat out".

Teddleshon · 14/08/2024 08:47

I just would really struggle to have faith in the person taking the order. Countless times I've received food items that are not what I requested (eg dressing on the side, no anchovies, extra cheese and so on).

Obviously none of this matters in the slightest but I just wouldn't be confident that a person in a busy coffee shop has fully understood and acted on the gravity of the allergy warning.

My best friend has a severe nut allergy and as a result Indian, Thai and other restaurants which feature nuts are a no go. She's just not willing to risk it.

Thmssngvwlsrnd · 14/08/2024 09:01

To all the people saying they wouldn't trust someone on low wages with the responsibility of serving someone with allergies - presumably you've never left your child in day care? You do realise you are trusting your child into the hands of (gasp) minimum wage staff? If they made an error that led to your child's death you would - rightly - hold them responsible. The fact the barista is low paid is neither here nor there. If she didn't do her job properly she is in the wrong, no matter what she gets paid.

DysonSphere · 14/08/2024 09:06

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 14/08/2024 08:17

Costa shouldn't have been blasé about it though, they should have assumed a potentially fatal allergy.
I think this is at the route of a lot of mistaken exposure to allergens in the food industry. Their are dietary preferences, intolerances and allergies and many people don't take the allergies seriously enough. I wonder if the Costa training on allergens says anywhere, "the person you serve might die if you get this wrong so pay attention and triple check with unambiguous language if you're unsure". If the barista had said. "are you sure you want COWS milk in this with a milk allergy," the tragedy would have been avoided. Similar if the mum had been clearer and checked. Having people who make these requests but it doesn't matter so much and mistakes that don't have any real impact on the barista/cook lead to complacency. If the child hadn't had a reaction for a while and they regularly ordered at their local Costa who were very proactive about allergies then the mum could be rushed and feeling a bit complacent too. I don't have a child with allergies, I know those that do and adults with allergies and eating out is a nightmare, but sometimes you just want to do normal things and people shouldn't be crucified for that. It's easy to say how you would behave with your child when you actually have no idea what it's like. .

I think more than anything this tragedy shows that everyone needs to take allergies more seriously. No one is harmed by making sure. At least one person said they didn't know dairy allergies can kill. Everyone should know that you can be allergic to any substance, be it one that's eaten/inhaled/touched and that there is always a possibility that an allergy can be fatal. Few people seem to know allergies can appear at any stage in life or that they can worsen either over time or suddenly. Societies attitude to allergies is very blasé, I think ultimately that's the problem here.

If the barista had said. "are you sure you want COWS milk in this with a milk allergy," the tragedy would have been avoided.

Yes. But there might still have been a reaction due to cross contamination. Just a molecule of milk getting on the lip of the cup for e.g
With peanut allergy just someone opening a bag of peanuts can trigger someone. For whatever reason the daughter was more reactive that day. Neither of them was to know. The environment wasn't strictly controlled.

100% agree allergies are not taken seriously enough by the general public. Especially if it's an allergy where many people experience a reaction that is milder, but a relative few have serious life threatening reactions. Take dog or cat allergy for e.g. Many people have a reaction, but not enough to kill them suddenly. Others get a serious asthma attack or something (me) but a rare few get the entire throat tightening, can't breathe face swelling, dizziness and collapse.

The amount of cars and dogs on public transport and in restaurants no one really gives a fig about Sandra who is in the 0.001 percent.

Peakpeakpeak · 14/08/2024 09:11

Thmssngvwlsrnd · 14/08/2024 09:01

To all the people saying they wouldn't trust someone on low wages with the responsibility of serving someone with allergies - presumably you've never left your child in day care? You do realise you are trusting your child into the hands of (gasp) minimum wage staff? If they made an error that led to your child's death you would - rightly - hold them responsible. The fact the barista is low paid is neither here nor there. If she didn't do her job properly she is in the wrong, no matter what she gets paid.

In practice, the fact that these are jobs that pay badly, with high turnover, in a hospitality sector that has a shortage of staff generally and often can't be picky does mean it's both here and there. I understand the argument you're making, in principle. In reality, some of the expectations being set out in this thread are not realistic to meet, and any increase in individual employees being held responsible may lead to businesses simply not being staffed. Unless we're willing to pay a lot more perhaps.

The childcare sector is also one that has significant recruitment problems too, fwiw.

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