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I'm so fucking angry. My poor neighbour daren't go to work because of the thugs.

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alrightluv · 05/08/2024 17:54

Just been talking to my neighbour. He and his family are Nigerian. They haven't been here that long. Both work. They have small dcs.
He's had to take today off work as he works in a town that's been targeted and he's scared to travel.

I'm in tears I'm so angry. Those bastards wouldn't know how to fucking spell work. Luckily I got inside before I broke down. Dh is also teary. They're the loveliest family. I'm genuinely scared for my African neighbours. There's a lot of families moved here from the south because of a housing shortage. All of them that I've met are decent lovely people. Wish I could say the same for a lot of people who are from here.

We're broken aren't we? What the fuck is to be done?

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TattiePants · 05/08/2024 20:53

Dymaxion · 05/08/2024 20:40

My favourite was in response to her arrest video. "The absolute clip of her. Like if you ordered Vicky Pollard off Wish".

@TattiePants This comment has made my evening ! if you would be happy to PM me the name of the FB page, I know someone else who works in the NHS who would really appreciate this at the moment !

@Dymaxion it's 'Sunderland Global Media'. You'll need to scroll down about 40 posts but they shared a Northumbria Police video of the particular woman's arrest on Saturday. There are about 500 comments - she owns a (not very good) removals business which lots of the comments are about. There are subsequent posts as she's been in court - and is now on remand - today.

Harmonious1 · 05/08/2024 20:54

I just read this and It's absolutely shocking that people are experiencing this in modern society. I am appalled that some people's bad behaviour has such a devastating impact and I hope that all the people here from other countries stay safe and well. I have been experiencing difficulties very recently and I think it may be a result of having a culturally diverse family background. I'm a white British woman. I am so proud that I've been raised to respect and care about people regardless of their culture, race, ethnicity, gender etc etc. One love ❤

TransformerZ · 05/08/2024 20:56

I've posted this on another thread - I'm a Sikh Indian woman and my white neighbours verbally and physically attacked me.
Sikhs as a group don't cause anyone any grief in this country, we get married on the weekend because that's what this country does, we go to our places of worship on a Sunday because that's what this country does, we don't take time off for our festivals, we don't preach as it's a sin, our ancestors came here for the capitalist society, we don't stay in ghettos long - the immigrant ancestor stays in the ghetto and gets out of the ghetto whilst they are still young enough to enjoy their life - but we still get the 💩

Naddd · 05/08/2024 20:59

There was an event on yesterday im actually too nervous to say what it was. In case where i live is identified.

I am muslim and brown i was too scared/anxious to go.

I don't have family here other than my little one if anything were to happen id be on my own there's no one to check in with.

We stayed home.

You're not paranoid when they really are out to get you

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:02

@TransformerZ I am so very sad to read that. I hope you've reported them?

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doublecappuccino · 05/08/2024 21:03

TransformerZ · 05/08/2024 20:56

I've posted this on another thread - I'm a Sikh Indian woman and my white neighbours verbally and physically attacked me.
Sikhs as a group don't cause anyone any grief in this country, we get married on the weekend because that's what this country does, we go to our places of worship on a Sunday because that's what this country does, we don't take time off for our festivals, we don't preach as it's a sin, our ancestors came here for the capitalist society, we don't stay in ghettos long - the immigrant ancestor stays in the ghetto and gets out of the ghetto whilst they are still young enough to enjoy their life - but we still get the 💩

I am so so sorry this happened to you - I hope you're as ok as you can be . It's good you've found this place to share abs get support but the fact you had to endure that is disgusting. Please please report them to the police

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:03

@Naddd that's awful that you're scared. I hope you have support from friends?

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RaininSummer · 05/08/2024 21:05

Its kicking off quite badly here now but we arent getting updates that often. Several roads are now blocked with people and police and the local islamic centre has been targeted. A police van has been damaged and apparently bottles being thrown.

TattiePants · 05/08/2024 21:07

RaininSummer · 05/08/2024 21:05

Its kicking off quite badly here now but we arent getting updates that often. Several roads are now blocked with people and police and the local islamic centre has been targeted. A police van has been damaged and apparently bottles being thrown.

@RaininSummer are you in Plymouth? Just been reading about it.

RationalityIsHard · 05/08/2024 21:08

While things like this bring out the worst in some people, they also bring out the best in others and there are far more good people in this country than bad.

Perplexed20 · 05/08/2024 21:09

It's shaming.
I'm really annoyed when people say 'we' don't like x. No 'we' about it.
Tye only way to get beyond it, is by communities standing together on sn ongoing basis.

DoIWantTo · 05/08/2024 21:09

All we can do is keep reaching out to anyone affected by this, keep making sure they know it’s not all white citizens of this country that feel that way. That they are welcome no matter what some scuzzy pieces of shit say.

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:10

I was wondering if it's Plymouth? @RaininSummer

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doublecappuccino · 05/08/2024 21:10

@Naddd that's really awful
. Can you get out to get supplies?

Naddd · 05/08/2024 21:10

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:03

@Naddd that's awful that you're scared. I hope you have support from friends?

Not really tbh. The couple i do have don't live in the sane town.
Luckily there haven't been "marches" here.

doublecappuccino · 05/08/2024 21:11

Fireworks being thrown at peaceful protestors in Plymouth

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:13

@Naddd so sorry to hear that. Is there a community centre? Sometimes they're good for support. Even local Facebook pages?

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Naddd · 05/08/2024 21:13

doublecappuccino · 05/08/2024 21:10

@Naddd that's really awful
. Can you get out to get supplies?

Yep. All good on that front thank you for asking.
I've seen that graves in Burnley have been vandalised.
They won't leave even the dead in peace

AinmEile · 05/08/2024 21:13

I am in Manchester for a short break, don't know the city at all. My DS 15 Asian wants to walk somewhere alone, I don't know the area. I would have said yes a few weeks ago, now I just don't know at all. Am I over protective? He thinks I am!

Dymaxion · 05/08/2024 21:14

@TattiePants Thank you, the people of Sunderland really have a cracking sense of humour and the ability to get bin references into the post's are phenomenal Grin Used to visit every year for the brilliant Airshow, and the great beaches at Seaburn and Roker.

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:14

@AinmEile no I wouldn't either.

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AinmEile · 05/08/2024 21:15

AinmEile · 05/08/2024 21:13

I am in Manchester for a short break, don't know the city at all. My DS 15 Asian wants to walk somewhere alone, I don't know the area. I would have said yes a few weeks ago, now I just don't know at all. Am I over protective? He thinks I am!

Vietnamese Asian, does that make a difference? How ridiculous to be thinking like that.

RaininSummer · 05/08/2024 21:15

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 21:10

I was wondering if it's Plymouth? @RaininSummer

Yes it is.

sleepingcat002 · 05/08/2024 21:15

RaininSummer · 05/08/2024 18:46

We are expecting these tossers in my city about now. I can hear a fair few sirens and everyone was advised to get out of town early today and the buses were rerouted.

I’m not in the UK but it’s on the news here every day. Are they actually the same tossers going to different cities like a tosser’s tour or are there that many tossers altogether?