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A third child has died in Southport.

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Conniebygaslight · 30/07/2024 12:21

Incomprehensible and senseless. Absolutely devastating. 💔💔💔

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JudgeJ · 30/07/2024 19:01

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If he does get the usual rap on the knuckles and released no doubt we will have to bear the never-ending cost of name changes to protect him. Who protects their victims?

SpudleyLass · 30/07/2024 19:01

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 30/07/2024 18:55

FFS. I am not a lawyer. I assume you're not either. The system is not weighted in favour of the perps. In the UK we have for hundreds of years had a system that people accused of a crime are assumed to be not guilty and it's for the prosecution to prove that they are guilty. In some other countries it's the other way round. Either way, we don't just convict immediately because we think we know what happened. There has to be a thorough investigation and the evidence has to go before a court. The person charged gets legal representation so they understand what they're charged with and the consequences of pleading guilty or not guilty. In lesser cases a magistrate considers the evidence. In a case as serious as this (and any murder charge) it goes before a judge and jury.

Miscarriages of justice do happen. It's incredibly important that we safeguard against those. Not least because the family of victims need to know that the right person has been convicted and it won't be overturned a few years later because of evidence that wasn't considered at the original trial, or because of police mistreatment of the defendant and witnesses, as has happened in the past.

We can't treat some cases differently because they are so awful. We have to follow procedure for all cases. Capital punishment was abolished because there were some terrible cases where people were executed who subsequently turned out to be innocent. Would you want that on your conscience?

He is not a miscarriage of justice, FFS

Sassenach85 · 30/07/2024 19:02

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 30/07/2024 18:55

FFS. I am not a lawyer. I assume you're not either. The system is not weighted in favour of the perps. In the UK we have for hundreds of years had a system that people accused of a crime are assumed to be not guilty and it's for the prosecution to prove that they are guilty. In some other countries it's the other way round. Either way, we don't just convict immediately because we think we know what happened. There has to be a thorough investigation and the evidence has to go before a court. The person charged gets legal representation so they understand what they're charged with and the consequences of pleading guilty or not guilty. In lesser cases a magistrate considers the evidence. In a case as serious as this (and any murder charge) it goes before a judge and jury.

Miscarriages of justice do happen. It's incredibly important that we safeguard against those. Not least because the family of victims need to know that the right person has been convicted and it won't be overturned a few years later because of evidence that wasn't considered at the original trial, or because of police mistreatment of the defendant and witnesses, as has happened in the past.

We can't treat some cases differently because they are so awful. We have to follow procedure for all cases. Capital punishment was abolished because there were some terrible cases where people were executed who subsequently turned out to be innocent. Would you want that on your conscience?

On one hand I understand your point. But the words investigation and evidence just fill me with rage today. Fuck that! He killed those girls. It’s a fact. He doesn’t deserve to breathe again. So so many people are angry. No more risk to our children. Murderers and paedophiles walking free. No. Why do we allow this?! Some things - not all - but some fall into a category where there is just no other answer than to end the criminals life. This is one of them.

User135644 · 30/07/2024 19:02

BlackShuck3 · 30/07/2024 13:38

Men and boys need better role models, there just aren't any good ones.
All the men that men & boys look up to admire and want to emulate, they're all 'bad boys'.

Because they think that's what gets the girls.

Iloveyoubut · 30/07/2024 19:03

Sassenach85 · 30/07/2024 18:39

There are some crimes that should have death as the only fitting punishment. Regardless of any mental illness. I know that many people would agree to this. This man has without doubt committed these horrific crimes and ending his existence on this earth should be the only palatable response. Women have been targeted and mistreated by men for all of history, but surely now in 2024 we can at least take a stand for our helpless children.

when you have to use the ‘and everyone else thinks so too’ you have a weak argument

Needanewname42 · 30/07/2024 19:04

The only thing that stops me saying death sentence is the poor sod who's job it would be to press the button, or do the injection.

Someone up thread said something about these type would never try and attack in a boxing club....well actually you'd never know..., boxers would probably go for the attacker and you'd never hear anything about it beyond the local news.
Men are more likely to be victims of men than women are.

User135644 · 30/07/2024 19:04

helpfulperson · 30/07/2024 14:25

But where does this end? Should we not take children to the local park in groups or to the cinema etc? There are loads of places someone could predict there would be groups of children and do something like this. This is horrendously awful but incredibly rare.

Nowhere is safe anymore, nothing is sacred. Not in this country.

SmokeBlackCat · 30/07/2024 19:04

notbelieved · 30/07/2024 14:26

I teach and run a holiday club. We are looking at our points of weakness as a result of this and unfortunately there are many. The element of surprise and then shock is probably the biggest thing but little kids can't begin to defend themselves and most of these clubs are run on a shoestring with minimum staffing levels made up overwhelmingly of women. We wouldn't have done a great job in the circumstances described and that is worrying moving forwards. And it frankly sounds like the efforts of the adults involved prevented it from being much, much worse. I do hope all those who are described as critical pull through.

My children are at a church holiday club this week and I imagine it’s very much the same. The thing is, what can reasonably be done to reduce the risk of what thank goodness is an incredibly rare event without making such clubs impossible ir undesirable to run.

Whats happened is so awful. I keep thinking about the children, adults and families of those involved. And how could anyone do it.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 30/07/2024 19:05

JudgeJ · 30/07/2024 19:01

If he does get the usual rap on the knuckles and released no doubt we will have to bear the never-ending cost of name changes to protect him. Who protects their victims?

What are you talking about? This is a case where three children have died and others have been very seriously injured. If found guilty, why would you expect the assailant to get anything less than a whole life tariff? There is a huge difference between convicting an adult or someone a few months off adulthood and convicting a 10yo, which is what I suspect you're thinking of.

Sassenach85 · 30/07/2024 19:07

Iloveyoubut · 30/07/2024 19:03

when you have to use the ‘and everyone else thinks so too’ you have a weak argument

I’m not making an argument for fuck sake. I’m not debating. I’m giving my opinion. I am a mother. And I’m worried for my children. I’m angry. Something needs to be done. Something more…Those poor families.

SmokeBlackCat · 30/07/2024 19:07

User135644 · 30/07/2024 19:04

Nowhere is safe anymore, nothing is sacred. Not in this country.

I don’t believe that’s true. Something like this is incredibly rare. I’m not sure who it helps to catastrophise and say nowhere is safe any more - what are you going to do, stop going out and what kind of life would that be.

DrRorysXmasCartoon · 30/07/2024 19:09

I don't care what his name is, I would like to know what his motive was thou.

I do care about the fact that the dignity and safety of girls and women is of little importance nowadays, we are going backwards in terms of rights for females. Digital technology is amplifying terrible, disgusting misogyny. I really couldn't care less about whether a killer heard voices or whether his was brought up wrong, smoked too much or any other excuse.

I care about the total and utter misogyny in the world and also here on Mumsnet.

My thoughts and prayers are with those affected by this shocking atrocity.

I find the bickering on this thread incredibly tasteless.

sprigatito · 30/07/2024 19:09

Most of us are mothers. And most of us don't want to live in a state that executes the mentally ill.

Kneejerk reactions, while understandable, are never the right answer. This is why we don't let the families of victims dictate sentencing - because we aren't savages.

Vettrianofan · 30/07/2024 19:11

Absolutely shocking. Only just googled to find out what the thread was about. Brings back Dunblane memories. Truly awful for all the families.

Rosemarycc · 30/07/2024 19:12

@sprigatito i don’t want to live in a state that executes the mentally ill, just one that would consider executing somebody who it can be categorically proven has killed and attacked multiple children.

FreshGas · 30/07/2024 19:14

Rosemarycc · 30/07/2024 19:12

@sprigatito i don’t want to live in a state that executes the mentally ill, just one that would consider executing somebody who it can be categorically proven has killed and attacked multiple children.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capital_punishment#:~:text=Most%20nations%2C%20including%20almost%20all,India%2C%20and%20most%20Islamic%20states.

you can find a list of such places here

Capital punishment - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capital_punishment#:~:text=Most%20nations%2C%20including%20almost%20all,India%2C%20and%20most%20Islamic%20states.

sprigatito · 30/07/2024 19:14

Rosemarycc · 30/07/2024 19:12

@sprigatito i don’t want to live in a state that executes the mentally ill, just one that would consider executing somebody who it can be categorically proven has killed and attacked multiple children.

You've clearly stated that you thought he should be put to death whether or not he is found to be acutely mentally ill. So yes, you do want to live in a state that executes the mentally ill. Which is extremely disturbing.

paperrockscissors · 30/07/2024 19:14

sprigatito · 30/07/2024 18:59

I won't get lost, no. Sorry.

If you read the post you replied to a bit more carefully, you'll see that I am not referring to yesterday's killer, I am responding to the posters who have called for the death penalty to be used on people who are known to be acutely mentally ill. This is indefensible. Even the USA pretends it doesn't execute the mentally ill.

So are you saying you would agree to this murderer receiving the death penalty then? Or will you just say by default that anyone who murders a small helpless defenceless child must be mentally ill?

The thought of some lowlife scum bag snuffing out the lives of poor little defenceless girls just wanting to have a few hours of fun and a bunch of hand wringing do-gooders falling over themselves to make excuses for him makes me feel sick.

brightonrock123456789 · 30/07/2024 19:14

Is there a link to mental health services being shrunk by tories

Iloveyoubut · 30/07/2024 19:15

Sassenach85 · 30/07/2024 19:07

I’m not making an argument for fuck sake. I’m not debating. I’m giving my opinion. I am a mother. And I’m worried for my children. I’m angry. Something needs to be done. Something more…Those poor families.

so you think capital punishment should be brought back? And what if your child is wrongly convicted of aomethng and you have to watch them have their life clinically removed. It’s either ok to murder or it isn’t. It’s not ok just because the fucking government says it it. And yes … these poor families. It’s absolutely horrific and devastating beyond comprehension but fuck me, talk about trying to make it about you! You’re doing performative hysteria here. And I’m not buying it. And im not engaging.

User135644 · 30/07/2024 19:17

Rosemarycc · 30/07/2024 16:20

If ever there was a time to reintroduce the death penalty by special exception it would be now. There’s absolutely no question that the suspect committed these crimes. I don’t give a damn what his twisted motivations were or whatever psychiatric conditions he’s got. Attacking young innocent girls is such an utterly despicable act he deserves to die in the most painful way possible imo and anyone that had any inclination that he was capable of this sort of thing needs to get locked up too.

Why should he have years on death row? Just put him in solitary confinement and throw the key away. No doubt human rights lawyers wouldn't have it but that's how it should be for child killers.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/07/2024 19:17

I would assume, reading the details on the bbc site that was linked to, the individual will be found to have diminished responsibility and I doubt very much they will be locked up for life in a main stream jail.

lollipoprainbow · 30/07/2024 19:18

Janiie · 30/07/2024 17:19

I'm finding it quite shocking seeing a witness's account on Sky news, a local window cleaner. While I've no doubt his intentions were good don't they take advice before going on national TV on how they come across? Adrenaline maybe but he's garbling almost excitedly, his face lit up as if he's telling a story. Yes he'll be in shock but so will the families.

Just read the room and show some solemnity and respect.

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What the guy who helped and potentially saved lives?? Yes how awful of him.

FreshGas · 30/07/2024 19:18

User135644 · 30/07/2024 19:17

Why should he have years on death row? Just put him in solitary confinement and throw the key away. No doubt human rights lawyers wouldn't have it but that's how it should be for child killers.

Death row IS solitary confinement.

BurnerName1 · 30/07/2024 19:19

Airbrb · 30/07/2024 12:52

I don’t agree with the death penalty in general, but since there is zero doubt over the identity of the stabbed the crime is ridiculously heinous on completely innocent victims, I do think that he should face the death penalty, without trial.

I'm quite sorry the armed police didn't shoot him dead to be honest.