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So why do people like trump??

141 replies

Bucees · 21/07/2024 22:07

I can clearly see why people don't like trump but why on earth do people actually like him?

Can't even work it out?

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VividQuoter · 22/07/2024 09:32

You are not god to even be asking this question, everyone has a free vote, a free choice and using it does not make them idiots just because few other people on the same road have chosen another candidate.

There are tens of millions of Americans who has voted for him and will vote for him. Is that not good enough starting point for you to use some thinking before even asking a very blind question

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 22/07/2024 09:35

AlpiniPraline · 22/07/2024 01:57

I don't believe you voted Remain.

Why don’t you believe she voted Remain? I agree with her post and I most certainly voted Remain, in fact 3 generations of my family were out canvassing for it.

The willingness of so many on the left to cede ground to the opposition by insulting and openly despising their voters is so depressing.

CheerfulYank · 22/07/2024 09:36

RedToothBrush · 22/07/2024 09:27

I genuinely don't think it's a stupidity thing. It's a core values thing. Core values we don't have in the UK (we are largely atheist and slightly socialist as a nation).

This means we just don't get It because we dont share values.

Fear of change is definitely a factor having said that. You have to see that through the idea that the coasts have lost touch with god and the crime rates have risen etc etc. If you live in a flyover state you are much less likely to have ever left the country so why would you feel responsibly to be involved in global politics? You would prioritise your taxes being spent on fellow Americans because of your narrow world view.

Again we have this mentality to an extent in the UK. It manifests slightly differently and we have much higher levels of willingness to be involved with the rest of the world due to our history and more mixed society (yes even in very white areas - we travel abroad more).

Its fascinating to see DNA profiles of Americans from the coasts versus the mid west, the likes of Alabama, utah and then the south near the mexican border. It highlights migration and isolation patterns. I had no idea about how salt lake city is very English and Scandinavian in Ancestry. Or how Scottish and Irish other parts of the US and Canada are. Or how mixed the coasts are by comparison.

It is going to have an impact on attitudes. Not necessarily in terms of race, but in terms of values.

If you come from a family that emigrated for religious reasons from Europe and then became utterly devout, then you are much more likely to retain those values if the community your ancestors lived in was like minded and had little outside influence. Even for 200 years. I think I get back to the 1840s in about five or six generations. The sheer size of America is highly relevant here.

I don't think it's necessarily a hostility to change as such but is about the rate of change. Some places have changed much faster than others and haven't really considered how them dictating the pace is a problem. It's about being told what to do and how to think. Something that doesn't go down well on either side of this cultural divide.

There's the meme of the left running away whilst the centre has stayed still and is now perhaps closer to the right that's very apt here.

It’s true. I grew up in an area that was heavily settled by Nordic/Scandinavian immigrants, and though many are Trump voters now (it’s the Midwest after all 🙄) there are some ideas & ways of life that are much more socialist than anyone would admit.

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 09:37

insulting and openly despising their voters
So true, and such a lot of that on here. Not helpful to debate.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/07/2024 09:47

The mainstream media poisoned their own well.

This. People increasingly don't know who to believe, because the mainstream media are frequently shown up to be lying to them.

tuvamoodyson · 22/07/2024 09:48

Abhannmor · 22/07/2024 09:28

In his debate with Hilary he was so coked up it was embarrassing! Maybe that's why he kept wandering around the stage. The old Bolivian Marching Powder.

He was circling her like a great white (or in his case, orange) shark!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/07/2024 09:50

It's fascinating to see DNA profiles of Americans from the coasts versus the mid west, the likes of Alabama, utah and then the south near the mexican border. It highlights migration and isolation patterns. I had no idea about how salt lake city is very English and Scandinavian in Ancestry. Or how Scottish and Irish other parts of the US and Canada are. Or how mixed the coasts are by comparison.

Have you seen research about this @RedToothBrush? I would love to read it.

Papyrophile · 22/07/2024 09:53

Read JD Vance's book Hillbilly Elegy and understand Trump's appeal to the left-behind.

RedToothBrush · 22/07/2024 09:53

CheerfulYank · 22/07/2024 09:36

It’s true. I grew up in an area that was heavily settled by Nordic/Scandinavian immigrants, and though many are Trump voters now (it’s the Midwest after all 🙄) there are some ideas & ways of life that are much more socialist than anyone would admit.

The US is much more into philanthropy and helping those who are deserving through the church. But the role of the state is viewed differently to the UK. We see it as the state responsibility to look after others whereas it's viewed as the role of other sources and the responsibility of the community in a different way. It's not viewed as something the state should provide in the same way.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 22/07/2024 09:55

Why don’t you believe she voted Remain? I agree with her post and I most certainly voted Remain

Me too.

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 10:00

Yes, @RedToothBrush that's the neo-liberal way, roll back the state, let people look after themselves or use the church or charities or whatever, if in need.

BruFord · 22/07/2024 10:08

Meowzabubz · 21/07/2024 22:21

I remember driving through Kansas in 2016 and it really clicking why. It is very working class vs middle/upper class. The democrats are very focused on 'people issues'. Social issues. The people in red states don't really have that privilege, they're worried about practical issues that impact them and their families in their day to day lives.

They're worried about tax because how do they run their farm if it gets to high? What jobs do they if fracking gets banned and it's the only industry in the area? The local school is only open 3-4 days a week because there isn't enough money to hire teachers, but the government is requiring what little money there is be diverted to social education rather than recruitment. Access to internet connection is poor. The local supermarket only gets delivery once every 3 weeks. The whole town is on well water that's contaminated by led. Fentynal is killing their youth in huge numbers.

They have all these very real issues of poverty that keep getting substantially worse, so it feels like a slap in the face when they see things like immigration or lgbtq+ held up as a number one issue.

But Donald Trump? He takes the time to speak to them on their level.

@Meowzabubz I think you’ve put it very well. It’s not that Trump is amazing (because he’s not) but because the Democrats haven’t been addressing the difficulties faced by their traditional voting base. Poverty, lack of education and opportunity, towns devastated by drugs are very real issues for millions of people.

That’s why JD Vance was an inspired VP pick, because he grew up in one of those communities -his background has much in common with Angela Rayner’s- and he found a way out. He “ought” to be a Democrat, but I presume that he gave up on the party at some point.

I hope the Dems get the message and stop ignoring these issues. Then they’ll get their traditional voting base back.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 22/07/2024 10:13

Papyrophile · 22/07/2024 09:53

Read JD Vance's book Hillbilly Elegy and understand Trump's appeal to the left-behind.

Demon Copperhead is also good at communicating how wide the gulf is between city and country. It’s fiction and doesn’t talk explicitly about politics but there’s a lot of insight into why people feel left behind.

HappydaysArehere · 22/07/2024 10:14

I am not American but from the view point of so many here there is a real fear that Trump is pro Putin. That is the terrifying aspect of a Trump win.

BruFord · 22/07/2024 10:28

Papyrophile · 22/07/2024 09:53

Read JD Vance's book Hillbilly Elegy and understand Trump's appeal to the left-behind.

@Papyrophile I went on a long car journey recently and thought I’d better listen to the audiobook as I knew nothing about him except that he’d written a memoir that was made into a film.

Not an easy listen, especially the
intergenerational violence and addiction. As I said upthread, ironically, he has far more in common with Angela Rayner’s underprivileged background than with Trump’s.

Peachy2005 · 22/07/2024 11:19

People love celebrities, Trump was a tv personality. Boris Johnson was also a tv celebrity - he probably felt familiar to people.

Chinotto · 22/07/2024 11:31

JD Vance is divisive and has little in common with most Appalachians. Demon Copperhead is a much more realistic read than Hillbilly Elegy.

Abhannmor · 22/07/2024 12:08

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 09:30

You have evidence for that, or just a suspicion, @Abhannmor ?

Let's just say I am not , ahem, unacquainted with the subject myself. And certainly not the only one to spot it.

BruFord · 22/07/2024 12:46

Chinotto · 22/07/2024 11:31

JD Vance is divisive and has little in common with most Appalachians. Demon Copperhead is a much more realistic read than Hillbilly Elegy.

@Chinotto I haven’t read that one yet. My middle class self was just shocked at times and sad for him and his sister. I’m sure that many people have different experiences, because a memoir is just one person’s perspective . It doesn’t mean that their interpretation of why such problems occur is correct either.

CheerfulYank · 22/07/2024 12:53

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 10:00

Yes, @RedToothBrush that's the neo-liberal way, roll back the state, let people look after themselves or use the church or charities or whatever, if in need.

Yes. Even people who aren’t affiliated with any religion here have a very “we look after our own” attitude. It’s one of the few things I can say seems to be in our National culture across the board, along with believing if you work really hard you can do well in life. And being completely insufferable when our sports teams do well on the world stage.

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 12:55

Indeed, @CheerfulYank ! It's a sort of Victorian pull yourself up, meritocracy mentality. Then along came Keynes and kind of socialism we got in the post war UK. Perhaps it's the pioneering spirit? Every person for themselves?.

Papyrophile · 22/07/2024 12:56

JD Vance may be divisive but he lived through it, and credits the Marine Corps with acting as a responsible interim parent/mentor between a chaotic adolescence and successful adult. It's the shortest section of the book, but it makes clear that the Marine Corps taught him how to navigate basics like eg buying a sensible car and not getting ripped off by dealer finance charges. The Corps was his passport to university and a stepping stone to Yale Law School. It's not an accident that US recruiting offices are mostly in low income neighbourhoods, and Veterans' programmes are usually helpul in the transition back to civilian life.

I've not read Demon Copperhead, but I think my mum has lent me her copy.

CheerfulYank · 22/07/2024 13:02

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 12:55

Indeed, @CheerfulYank ! It's a sort of Victorian pull yourself up, meritocracy mentality. Then along came Keynes and kind of socialism we got in the post war UK. Perhaps it's the pioneering spirit? Every person for themselves?.

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I think so. Everyone here (except the Native Americans, and God knows they haven’t had an easy time of it) is either the descendant of someone who turned their back on a country to come here, live as they chose/do better for themselves, or else the descendent of an enslaved person who fought to survive and carve out a culture and place of their own.

Even the most progressive among us (and I don’t know that I’m entirely on that end of the spectrum, but near enough when you consider Trump loving conservatives on the other end) is a little leery when you start talking about anything that could take away from someone’s individuality. It’s baked into all of us, for good or evil.

CarmelaBrunella · 22/07/2024 13:09

I think that's what most British (and also Europeans) don't quite get.

MessinaBloom · 23/07/2024 02:02

@tuvamoodyson

Exactly, he says what the red necks want to hear. Despicable man I truly can’t understand why women, especially, would want to vote for him.

His messaging has been the same from the beginning. He wanted to appeal to a certain type of disenfranchised person, so her centres his messages around phrases like this: "They're not coming for me, they're coming for you!" "I'm not fighting for me, I'm fighting for you!" "Remember, when they try to pin crimes on me, they're really doing it to you - tomorrow, it could be you."

He attempts to make himself out to be the quintessential Everyman, when he couldn't be further from it. He cannot relate to how his voter base lives on a day-to-day basis. They would never step on any of his golf courses or be guests at his clubs. If profiled, they should never vote for someone like Donald Trump. But somehow, they believe he is not a politician, but just one of them - a regular American.