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Missed speed awareness course

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labsarelife · 13/07/2024 09:46

I missed my speed awareness course by accident. Can I rebook it? Will I have to pay again? Anyone else done this? Thanks.

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viques · 13/07/2024 12:10

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 12:06

I don’t think the golf course employees would really want to be taking calls from idiot people who have missed their speed awareness course and having to pass on messages to people who aren’t their own staff members etc. So that’s why I chose not to.

Well, we will never know now if the golf club, which is being well paid for accommodating the speed awareness course, would have passed the message along.

Coconutter24 · 13/07/2024 12:17

Court summons, then if guilty fine and points

blackpear · 13/07/2024 12:17

You’ve had some arsey comments on here, OP. We all make mistakes. Hope it gets sorted.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 13/07/2024 12:19

Batgin · 13/07/2024 10:37

Why on earth would you sack it off for 10 minutes late? No lateness stated is to stop people turning up halfway through with a crap excuse..10 minutes everyone would still be getting settled and coffee...

Edited

It's a speed awareness course, not a yoga retreat. It's not supposed to be fluffy.

DancingWithYouInTheSummerRain · 13/07/2024 12:22

JokoKitten · 13/07/2024 11:32

@DancingWithYouInTheSummerRain

Where do you live? I don't think it's helpful to give irrelevant information to the OP.

In the North West, I was giving a possibility to the OP of what could happen and not a certainty

RivkaTheBold · 13/07/2024 12:25

They'll let you rebook and you'll have to pay again.

It's not a biggie. Certainly not a court matter Grin

MonsteraMama · 13/07/2024 12:28

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 13/07/2024 12:19

It's a speed awareness course, not a yoga retreat. It's not supposed to be fluffy.

Lol I've been to one and there was definitely a lot of fluffing about at the start getting coffee and biscuits, and sandwiches half way through. They don't chain you to your chair and clack your hands with a ruler if you're not listening.

(Also someone was 10 mins late to ours due to traffic and they didn't care, but I appreciate that doesn't help the OP now).

A pal of mine missed her online course because her internet went out. The advice is to contact the course provider as soon as humanly possible (IE send an email today, don't wait until Monday to call them) to see if you can rebook. You will be expected to pay. If you do nothing the police may choose to prosecute, so it's very much in your best interests to try and get rebooked asap OP!

Bjorkdidit · 13/07/2024 12:29

OP it's probably one of those cases where no-one can say if they will allow you to rebook with or without charge as it could vary by area and could be on a case by case basis.

Eg if you have form for doing this they could be less accommodating than if its the first time.

I would email them and explain the mistake and ask to rebook. Then call them on Monday, but wait until the afternoon so they've had a chance to respond.

Good luck.

DancingWithYouInTheSummerRain · 13/07/2024 12:45

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 11:26

Thanks for the info. That’s all fair enough I suppose. I’m happy to admit what I did. It was a mistake and I have no real excuse for making it. I just simply had the wrong venue lodged in my brain for some reason. Had it not been local, I’d have just followed the sat nav.

All you can do is obtain the information relevant to you on Monday and take it from there.

🤞

Yupthatsit · 13/07/2024 13:13

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 10:47

Yes because it specifically stated to not attend if you were late as admittance would be refused.

But surely better to try that rather than post on Mumsnet. For something like that surely you'd arrive a bit early anyway which would have meant you could have got to the other place on time. What if you'd hit traffic or there was an unexpected road works? Just sounds like an awful excuse to be honest.

Yupthatsit · 13/07/2024 13:18

plumlipstick · 13/07/2024 11:35

I've attended 3 of them - they are very very strict. They wont even allow you in the door if late and they wont allow you to use your mobile phones, you have to turn them off.

OP- ring them first thing Monday, explain what happened and express willingness to attend and learn. Admit total responsibility and apologise. They like that. I suspect they'll be able to book you on another one but not sure if you'll have to pay again.

You've attended 3 speed awareness courses? I thought that wasn't allowed (and rightly so). If the course didn't work to stop you speeding the first time, it's hardly going to work a 2nd or 3rd.

GilligansKitchenIsland · 13/07/2024 13:23

Wow there are some perfect people on this thread. OP if it makes you feel any better I once received an appointment letter from Moorfields Eye Hospital in London, so, on the day of the appointment I left plenty of time and got the train from my hometown - nowhere near London - and found my way to Moorfields... where they had no record at all of my appointment. Because they had very kindly booked it at the opthalmology department of my local hospital, and provided that address in the appointment letter 🤦🏼‍♀️
They were pretty unimpressed. But the point is, you're not the only one to have made a silly mistake like this.

Hedgeoffressian · 13/07/2024 13:26

CremeEggThief · 13/07/2024 10:51

You should have to pay again as it was all your own fault! 🙄

Wow, such a helpful and informed comment 🙄

Hedgeoffressian · 13/07/2024 13:29

Batgin · 13/07/2024 10:37

Why on earth would you sack it off for 10 minutes late? No lateness stated is to stop people turning up halfway through with a crap excuse..10 minutes everyone would still be getting settled and coffee...

Edited

‘Sack it off’ is such lame phrase. Whatever will they think of next. If you don’t have anything helpful to suggest to the OP then why bother commenting in the first place?

Brefugee · 13/07/2024 13:29

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 10:36

I tried phoning the contact number but it’s Mon-Fri office hours only. I did not attend late because it specifically stated, late attendees will not be admitted.
If the venue had not been local to me, I would have just popped in the postcode but for some bizarre reason, I just had it in my head, that it was the other local golf course.
People make mistakes; it was a genuine mistake on my part and I admit that. It’s unlike me. I don’t want to be reprimanded on here. I want an answer to my question from any others who perhaps have accidentally done the same.
If it’s a fine and points, then fine - I will readily accept that. It’s just that I can’t find any solid info online as to the repercussions of missing a speed awareness course.

you were done for speeding so we know you're already careless about laws.

The best thing now, that would really concentrate your mind i suspect, is that you get the original fine and points and maybe another fine for not showing up.

Would have been 10 minutes late? Well yes, but better than a completely unexcused no-show.

Speed kills. Pay attention.

Confused19831983 · 13/07/2024 13:36

OP, I honestly can't believe the sanctimonious replies on here.
I bet this kind of thing happens all the time.
You will just have to ring them on Monday and apologise and find out what the next step is.
I wouldn't be surprised if you're able to rearrange.
Funny how no one on Mumsnet would ever dream of speeding.

I try very hard to keep to speed limit (been caught out too many times, shock horror I have attended two SACs).
But the roads are absolutely full of women and men who pay absolutely no attention to the speed limit.
If you've been offered SAC obvs very minor offence.
Ignore the idiots on this post OP.

AdviceNeeded2024 · 13/07/2024 13:46

Yupthatsit · 13/07/2024 13:18

You've attended 3 speed awareness courses? I thought that wasn't allowed (and rightly so). If the course didn't work to stop you speeding the first time, it's hardly going to work a 2nd or 3rd.

Yes it is allowed. They have two types of courses, one specifically for motorways and one for other types of roads. Once 3 years has lapsed since a course was attended, you can go on another should you be caught speeding again.

Speed awareness courses are only suitable if you are within so many MPH of the speed limit, I think it is something like 8MPH + 10%? Or thereabouts. The 10% to account for inconsistencies in speedometers. Anything over this speed is points and a fine, or a ban depending on how much over the limit someone is.

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 13:47

Coconutter24 · 13/07/2024 12:17

Court summons, then if guilty fine and points

Thanks for your reply. It’s nice and concise, which is the sort of response I was after.

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labsarelife · 13/07/2024 13:50

Confused19831983 · 13/07/2024 13:36

OP, I honestly can't believe the sanctimonious replies on here.
I bet this kind of thing happens all the time.
You will just have to ring them on Monday and apologise and find out what the next step is.
I wouldn't be surprised if you're able to rearrange.
Funny how no one on Mumsnet would ever dream of speeding.

I try very hard to keep to speed limit (been caught out too many times, shock horror I have attended two SACs).
But the roads are absolutely full of women and men who pay absolutely no attention to the speed limit.
If you've been offered SAC obvs very minor offence.
Ignore the idiots on this post OP.

Exactly my thoughts too. I wasn’t up for being judged. I’m my own worst critic anyway. I was merely asking a simple question requesting info as to what happens next.
I find it worrying that there are people out there, willing to pounce on me for muddling up an appointment venue, rather than criticising me for the act of speeding itself. Strange but there we have it.

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Mostlycarbon · 13/07/2024 13:50

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 09:46

I missed my speed awareness course by accident. Can I rebook it? Will I have to pay again? Anyone else done this? Thanks.

I have done this once many years ago, when I physically couldn't find the venue. I booked it again and paid again. This was in Cambridgeshire circa 2009.

Unknownsecret · 13/07/2024 13:59

I hope you get it sorted, but quite honestly I would have still driven to the other venue - at lease they’d know you actually turned up …. As it stands now it looks like a complete no show, no matter what you say to them 🤷‍♀️ I also would have arrived at the venue with 30 mins to spare, (therefore giving you time to be elsewhere in this case), but ultimately allowing for traffic parking, paperwork, nerves anything 🤷‍♀️

Bluevelvetsofa · 13/07/2024 14:00

I’d send an email now and follow up with a phone call on Monday, so they know you’ve tried to do something.

labsarelife · 13/07/2024 14:01

Brefugee · 13/07/2024 13:29

you were done for speeding so we know you're already careless about laws.

The best thing now, that would really concentrate your mind i suspect, is that you get the original fine and points and maybe another fine for not showing up.

Would have been 10 minutes late? Well yes, but better than a completely unexcused no-show.

Speed kills. Pay attention.

At least you are criticising me for the actual speeding offence; which I wholeheartedly agree with. Speed does kill and I was wrong to speed. It was also a dreadful oversight to turn up at the incorrect venue.
I don’t regret not turning up at the correct venue late though. That would have been yet another misdemeanour, when specifically requested not to and could have been another stroke against me. I could have been had for time wasting and causing an interruption to the training session itself. Imagine that in addition to all of my other errors!
So I agree with your most of your comments but not all of them and thanks too for drawing everyone’s attention back to the real crime here, which was the traffic offence. I would have thought more people would have pointed out that that was the only actual crime committed here but it seems you were the only one concerned enough to do so.

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labsarelife · 13/07/2024 14:05

Unknownsecret · 13/07/2024 13:59

I hope you get it sorted, but quite honestly I would have still driven to the other venue - at lease they’d know you actually turned up …. As it stands now it looks like a complete no show, no matter what you say to them 🤷‍♀️ I also would have arrived at the venue with 30 mins to spare, (therefore giving you time to be elsewhere in this case), but ultimately allowing for traffic parking, paperwork, nerves anything 🤷‍♀️

To turn up late when specifically requested NOT to do so, could have interrupted the training session and caused even more problems. That would have then been a missed session AND a case of ignoring their specific request of what to do if late, therefore making me incompetent and also rude!
No, I’m perfectly happy to be a complete no show, rather than balls up twice on the same day.

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labsarelife · 13/07/2024 14:08

gamerchick · 13/07/2024 12:08

Maybe but at least you would have turned up to it.

And selfishly interrupted the training session just to try and get out of having to admit going to the wrong venue and possibly facing penalty points. Nope. Honesty is the best policy with me. I’m don’t agree with you at all.

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