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What did your parents never let you do growing up?

216 replies

ThePinkDreamer · 06/07/2024 23:08

Go on the computer too long

OP posts:
ParrotPirouette · 07/07/2024 17:26

buttnut · 07/07/2024 17:24

I remember a friend wasn’t allowed to wear ankle bracelets for some reason

Yeah, my mum said prostitutes wear ankle bracelets.

buttnut · 07/07/2024 17:26

Do we have the same now? Will our children write threads like these in the future?
‘I wasn't allowed Netflix, only Disney+’

They probably will but I think things have moved on regarding strange old wives tales , and a preoccupation with anything deemed ‘common’ that seem to have influenced the parents of so many on here

ParrotPirouette · 07/07/2024 17:31

PianPianPiano · 07/07/2024 17:05

Turn the TV on unless we had something specific we wanted to watch (and then it went back off again after!).

This is my normal, I never just have the tv on in the background.

Womanofcustard · 07/07/2024 17:32

Only allowed to watch BBC1 and BBC2.
I wasn’t allowed a dog.
But I was allowed to go out wandering wherever/whenever I wanted!

nopenotplaying · 07/07/2024 17:41

Tupperwarefan · 06/07/2024 23:11

Watch Grange Hill incase it frightened me

Same here. And Eastenders!

GrannyWeatherwaxsBroomstick · 07/07/2024 17:48

@Burntout101 I wasn't allowed to watch ITV either. Apparently it was common.

longdistanceclaraclara · 07/07/2024 17:51

TheChosenTwo · 07/07/2024 00:31

To use the phone before 6 o’clock!
To have a Mr Frosty (still bitter but I bought my kids one and it was indeed a heap of shit 😂)
To have my belly button pierced at 15. Was livid at the time. I didn’t bother getting one as an adult.

Was just coming to say Mr Frosty. Got my kids one and had to admit to my mum that she was right. Pile of shite.

longdistanceclaraclara · 07/07/2024 17:59

buttnut · 07/07/2024 17:24

I remember a friend wasn’t allowed to wear ankle bracelets for some reason

You've just brought back a memory, neither was I, it was a sign of a 'lady of the night' fml. I wear them all the time now, I think it's my inner rebellion.

IdaGlossop · 07/07/2024 18:00

MichaelFabricantsSyrup · 06/07/2024 23:10

This! ITV is common (still only watch it for live sport 😂)

And it has ads. Parents want to avoid pester power.

GoodHeavens99 · 07/07/2024 18:15

WetBandits · 06/07/2024 23:13

We were never allowed pick’n’mix in case we got threadworms from other people touching the sweets Grin

Have had pick’n’mix many times since childhood and no surprises!

My m-i-l knew one person, on one occasion who had some sort of sickness bug, after having a Mr Whippy ice cream.

She doesn't even know that the vomiting was caused by the ice cream.

This was 40 years ago, now, but she didn't let my husband and his siblings have Mr Whippy from the ice cream van.

FutureMandosWife · 07/07/2024 18:16

Wasn't allowed a cabbage patch doll mum said they were ugly

IdaGlossop · 07/07/2024 18:18

Have a dog (Dad only. Dad: 'Who's going to take this dog out for a walk on a rainy Winter night?' Five-year old me: 'Me, daddy.')
Tell my mum my dad had bought cigarettes - six packets a week to take to work. Dad, kneeling down in the tobacconist's, pressing a Fry's Turkish Delight into my hand, looking me in the eyes and saying: 'Now don't tell your mother.' I was fiercely loyal and didn't. The Turkish Delight bribe was nice but not necessary.
Use Tampax (Mum only. By osmosis, I understood that using tampons, for my mum, meant losing my virginity. I used them nonetheless.)
Bringing cow parsley into the house - it brings bad luck. (Mum only)

Fun thread! Thank-you @ThePinkDreamer

IdaGlossop · 07/07/2024 18:20

GoodHeavens99 · 07/07/2024 18:15

My m-i-l knew one person, on one occasion who had some sort of sickness bug, after having a Mr Whippy ice cream.

She doesn't even know that the vomiting was caused by the ice cream.

This was 40 years ago, now, but she didn't let my husband and his siblings have Mr Whippy from the ice cream van.

I'd forgotten about this. My mum had a thing about there being salmonella in the nozzle.

IncompleteSenten · 07/07/2024 18:22

Burntout101 · 06/07/2024 23:09

I wasn't allowed to watch ITV, BBC only! I'm not sure what the reason was.

Same here!!
It was ridiculous.

Thevelvelletes · 07/07/2024 18:27

buttnut · 07/07/2024 17:24

I remember a friend wasn’t allowed to wear ankle bracelets for some reason

The sign of a lady of the night.
No idea where this idea originated from.

ParrotPirouette · 07/07/2024 18:30

Yes, you’re all right, no ice cream from a van because ‘they are dirty’. Might be right but they are certainly cheaper from the freezer :)

farleysrusks · 07/07/2024 18:31

The Mr Frosty ban seems to be a common theme

Thetrickcyclist · 07/07/2024 18:34

Wear jeans
Have my ears pierced
Have a Barbie doll
Use the phone before 6pm

Amblesidebadger · 07/07/2024 18:37

No jelly shoes.

Tisfortired · 07/07/2024 18:38

Have a Baby Born doll (literally all I ever wanted. Had various inferior imposters)

Eat or drink in my bedroom

Have a boyfriend sleepover (which I totally respect now as a parent myself but was fuming about at 18/19 😏)

Thats about it really. My parents were hands off and borderline neglectful so not much we weren’t allowed to do,

positivewings · 07/07/2024 18:52

What I wasn't allowed to do.
Anything.
Mother controlled everything.

Greentapemeasure · 07/07/2024 18:56

It would probably be quicker to list the things I was allowed, some of the ones I wasn’t allowed included:

Have sweets/chocolate/crisps
Have white bread
Eat fast food
pierce my ears
shave my legs
have fashionable clothes
watch ITV/channel 4
Leave school at lunchtime (all the other kids were allowed so I was often alone and left out)
Dye my hair
Have conditioner or any products for my thick frizzy hair
Have braces for my wonky teeth
Go to theme parks

2catsandhappy · 07/07/2024 18:59

No jeans
No friends around
No snacks
No going into town until I was 15, and only to the library
No heels
No friends who were boys
No after school clubs
No posters on the wall
No dating
No cinema
No magazines
OMG the uproar when I bought a toner/shader sachet after I started work at 16.
No ankle bracelets
No make-up
No leg shaving
And on and on and on

On the plus side, it made me a much nicer mum.

user1469095927 · 07/07/2024 19:00

fourelementary · 06/07/2024 23:29

Wasn’t allowed bubblegum or chewing gum.
Wasn't allowed to eat meals not at the table.
Wasn't allowed a pet.

That reminded me of my mum - we were never allowed chewing gum as she said it would give us worms!!

3luckystars · 07/07/2024 19:05

Get a photograph taken with a monkey in town. They always absolutely freaked over it, I desperately wanted to get near the monkey but NO WAY was this allowed. It went on for years, no matter where we were, were these a popular thing years ago? It seems mad now!!
I think they were saying they had lice and infections but I must ask them what that was about now as an adult and see what they say was the reason they were so ferociously opposed to this.

Everything else, ok 😂but do not go near the little monkey.

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