Re the whole indie/private school debate.... it doesn't help that here in the UK they get called "independent" and even "public" schools, rather than always what they are private schools 
(Yes, I do know the historical reason that "public schools" are called "public schools"
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I do find the angst and outrage at the imminent imposition of VAT on private school fees, especially evident in some other areas of MN really gobsmacking - and eye opening as to how people can live in a bubble.