I was reading through from this morning when someone mentioned that we don't see ourselves as racist as a nation.
Anyone who knows me well will know my borderline obsession with definitions. Mainly because it's avoiding them that allows fascists (other extremists are available) to flourish.
Surely we all known that stinging shame of being told "well if you don't know ..." as a way of removing you, your views, your experience, your curiosity and your agency in a debate ? I've certainly known it. Especially when it's deliberate.
There is a world of difference between noticing that humans come in a staggering array of colours and trivial physical attributes and using them as a basis for society.
John Lloyd has a interesting way of dealing with questions about belief in God. "You tell me what you believe and I'll tell you why I don't". I believe it's called an ignostic,