Just on the Dr comment. I too have friends who are Drs and in terms of unhealthy, risk-taking habits – drinking, recreational drug use, etc – they are some of the worst I know. Although don’t know how much of that relates to the stress of the job and perhaps also being confronted with mortality more often than most of us.
But in relation to risk assessment – banishing paddling pools, assessing symptoms – they are also usually pretty on it. Maybe it’s just easier to have a blind spot when it’s yourself?
In my own case, I can be a bit of a hypochondriac when it comes to weird or random symptoms. Yet I’m also pretty gung ho / perhaps a bit overconfident when it comes to physical exertion.
I’ve cycled 50 km on holiday by myself in baking midday heat and then climbed up paths I’m not familiar with, with a bike, to get a good view of an island and have a glass of wine and a bite to eat in the sun before cycling back. I’ve not told anyone my plans and been holidaying alone, so not expected back at a certain time.
I think if you’ve generally been fine and feel confident physically it’s easy to underestimate your own vulnerability to the elements.
I don’t think we should go through life being scared of everything, but all of this has certainly made me reassess my relationship with avoidable risk.
Still hoping there might be a positive outcome. Very sad and worrying.