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Thread 3 - Michael Mosley missing after disappearing on holiday walk

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ConesFones · 08/06/2024 13:28

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CorylusAgain · 08/06/2024 16:20

westisbest1982 · 08/06/2024 16:03

I agree, it’s not exactly common behaviour for the first day on your holiday with your partner and close friends. Perhaps there were tensions in the group or with MM and his wife.

Why post this? Why speculate about "tensions" with his wife who is currently going through hell. What's your purpose? I know it's your opinion. But why post something baseless that you know full well would be distressing to the family?

Albergo · 08/06/2024 16:20

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:12

Yes, and the search area changed from a regularly accessed, flattened, widened 20 minute path, to hours worth of unsheltered mountainous terrain.

Wouldn't this be a natural progression though?

I mean, initially working with obvious routes etc. Following the information and subsequent evidence that had before widening the search.

They have clearly exhausted the usual, logical routes and now have to expand the search - which sadly, as the hours pass today, is looking like a recovery mission 😔

Trainday · 08/06/2024 16:21

Westfacing · 08/06/2024 16:18

Where did you get the 30 minutes from? His wife is quoted as saying

It has been three days since Michael left the beach to go for a walk. The longest and most unbearable days for myself and my children.

This is a direct quote from the BBC and The Guardian - no mention of 30 minutes, also no mention that he was unwell as quoted by other posters.

The walk to the town is 20/30 mins. That's where they thought he was going.

Justrelax · 08/06/2024 16:22

dicokno · 08/06/2024 16:19

Don't know why people think it's weird behaviour to leave the group and go off on his own. Not everyone is glued to their group for the entire holiday, or even the first couple of days until everyone starts pissing you off.
First of all it was reported that he'd said he was going back to the villa because he felt ill - not weird behaviour, maybe it was a bit too hot for him, dodgy tummy, whatever - he thinks the walk back will do him good and then he can have a lie down - off he goes (he's then seen somewhere else on CCTV rather than the route he should have been on to get back to the villa).
Then it was reported that his wife said he was going for a walk - again, not weird behaviour, plenty of people don't want to lie around on a beach all day and maybe he just fancied getting a bit of exercise. Not weird behaviour.

I didn't say it was 'weird behaviour' actually - those are your words. I said he'd only be likely to leave and do a walk alone in that kind of heat if he was unwell or unhappy. You think it's unwell. That does seem to be a worrying detail.

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:22

It is unusual to head off for a mountain hike in 40 degrees without water or a map

We don't know he did this. We know he walked to the end of town and went behind a building.

Justrelax · 08/06/2024 16:23

CorylusAgain · 08/06/2024 16:20

Why post this? Why speculate about "tensions" with his wife who is currently going through hell. What's your purpose? I know it's your opinion. But why post something baseless that you know full well would be distressing to the family?

His family have much bigger things to worry about than what people say on here. Why are you policing what other people post?

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:25

I said he'd only be likely to leave and do a walk alone in that kind of heat if he was unwell or unhappy

Yes, and many of us are saying we might do the same, when well and happy @Justrelax Your interpretation of 'likelihood' isn't objective.

Westfacing · 08/06/2024 16:25

Trainday · 08/06/2024 16:21

The walk to the town is 20/30 mins. That's where they thought he was going.

Is she quoted as saying that?

Sunnyandsilly · 08/06/2024 16:25

Justrelax · 08/06/2024 16:19

Literally every single thing on all three of these threads is speculation, as people try to understand what can have happened in a situation where everyone knows basically nothing. All we know for sure is where he was at two or three pinpointed moments in time on CCTV. A lot of locals have also said it's not exactly usual to stroll about in that kind of heat. People don't tend to go 'exploring' in hot weather without a map or phone.

It’s one thing speculating about where he went. It’s a whole other thing to start on saying there is tension in the group etc. it’s pure bullshit

we went on holiday with a group of friends last year. One of the guys can’t sit still for too long. He often went off for walks on his own. No tension in the group. He liked walking , exploring etc. he never took his mobile.

im astounded anyone would stoop so low as to suggest as he went for a walk there is likely something wrong.

ducktapez · 08/06/2024 16:25

The problem with all this is, we dont know if he was out for a walk or if he was heading home cos he wasnt feeling too well. There's a huge difference and it changes the whole dynamics of the mystery.

Even if he was perfectly fine and just out for a walk, as many of us do on holidays, how many of us at that age would decide to scale a mountain that even the locals never go up. Who would go off the beaten track in midday sun, dressed in trainers with only an umbrella.

I urge anyone to take a look at a map or pics of the area where they're searching. Its pretty high and unpassable if ill equipped.

Trainday · 08/06/2024 16:25

I'm not sure why the idea that he's gone deliberately is somehow worse than he's fallen down a cliff or into the sea. If he has gone deliberately there's a chance he's physically well. That's what I'd be hanging onto if I were his wife.

CottageGardens · 08/06/2024 16:26

Just watched the BBC report from the area. Why would any sane person scramble up that barren rocky slope in 40oC heat?

Sunnyandsilly · 08/06/2024 16:26

ducktapez · 08/06/2024 16:25

The problem with all this is, we dont know if he was out for a walk or if he was heading home cos he wasnt feeling too well. There's a huge difference and it changes the whole dynamics of the mystery.

Even if he was perfectly fine and just out for a walk, as many of us do on holidays, how many of us at that age would decide to scale a mountain that even the locals never go up. Who would go off the beaten track in midday sun, dressed in trainers with only an umbrella.

I urge anyone to take a look at a map or pics of the area where they're searching. Its pretty high and unpassable if ill equipped.

To be honest, sadly I know a few blokes who would do this.

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:27

Who would go off the beaten track in midday sun, dressed in trainers with only an umbrella

Someone who didn't intend to go very far up, and wanted to see a higher up view, whilst they waited for the next bus?

nobeans · 08/06/2024 16:28

ducktapez · 08/06/2024 16:16

@Carly944

Ignore their nonsense. We're just discussing the many twists and turns of this bizarre story.

It's not bizarre

Justrelax · 08/06/2024 16:28

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:25

I said he'd only be likely to leave and do a walk alone in that kind of heat if he was unwell or unhappy

Yes, and many of us are saying we might do the same, when well and happy @Justrelax Your interpretation of 'likelihood' isn't objective.

OK, I guess I'm wrong. I find it very surprising that people think it's normal to go off alone on the first morning of a holiday, having gone there by boat, while staying with close friends, in very hot weather with no phone - unless something is wrong mentally or physically to some extent. I guess what's normal in my group of friends and family is different to yours and I accept that.

KitchenAppliance · 08/06/2024 16:29

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NoSourDough · 08/06/2024 16:29

I have this gut feeling he is still alive, that he fell, broke his leg and is sheltering in a cave. He is a GP so knows how to stay alive. Praying I’m right

westisbest1982 · 08/06/2024 16:29

A lot of locals have also said it's not exactly usual to stroll about in that kind of heat. People don't tend to go 'exploring' in hot weather without a map or phone.

Yep - a bartender at the beach he was at who saw him leave the beach is quoted as saying “I thought it was strange to walk when it was so hot”.

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:29

We're all different @Justrelax Your family is only a benchmark for your family.

Conniebygaslight · 08/06/2024 16:30

I’m watching BBC news now & also Sky news and they’re not mentioning it on the banner below the screen. I hope this isn’t a bad sign. 💔💔

Justrelax · 08/06/2024 16:31

Sunnyandsilly · 08/06/2024 16:25

It’s one thing speculating about where he went. It’s a whole other thing to start on saying there is tension in the group etc. it’s pure bullshit

we went on holiday with a group of friends last year. One of the guys can’t sit still for too long. He often went off for walks on his own. No tension in the group. He liked walking , exploring etc. he never took his mobile.

im astounded anyone would stoop so low as to suggest as he went for a walk there is likely something wrong.

How is that 'stooping so low'? Since the first news report it's literally been suggested that there was something wrong ie that he wasn't feeling very well. It's how people have attempted to explain the sequence of events that don't quite add up. There's nothing 'low' about saying someone might have been unwell or unhappy.

Carly944 · 08/06/2024 16:31

NoSourDough · 08/06/2024 16:29

I have this gut feeling he is still alive, that he fell, broke his leg and is sheltering in a cave. He is a GP so knows how to stay alive. Praying I’m right

You never know! I hope so.

And he might have bought a bottle of water in town

ducktapez · 08/06/2024 16:31

Watchkeys · 08/06/2024 16:27

Who would go off the beaten track in midday sun, dressed in trainers with only an umbrella

Someone who didn't intend to go very far up, and wanted to see a higher up view, whilst they waited for the next bus?

Totally fair enough, so in that case i raise you this.... where on earth is he?!

westisbest1982 · 08/06/2024 16:31

ducktapez · 08/06/2024 16:25

The problem with all this is, we dont know if he was out for a walk or if he was heading home cos he wasnt feeling too well. There's a huge difference and it changes the whole dynamics of the mystery.

Even if he was perfectly fine and just out for a walk, as many of us do on holidays, how many of us at that age would decide to scale a mountain that even the locals never go up. Who would go off the beaten track in midday sun, dressed in trainers with only an umbrella.

I urge anyone to take a look at a map or pics of the area where they're searching. Its pretty high and unpassable if ill equipped.

His wife said he went for a walk. I think if he was heading back to the place they were staying in, she would have said so.

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