Yeah my Grandad used to be away for 3 years at a time, WW1 though, we recently found a postcard from him to my Gran when they were courting, he apologises for cancelling their "date" but duty calls (it was the battle of Jutland) in which his ship was hit and 100s killed.
Admiral Beatty is on the cover, resplendent in medals, different world and values & not one Sunak has a clue about.
Don't give a shit about what advice he did or didn't get, he should have wanted to be there with every fibre of his being.