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Michael Mosley missing after disappearing on holiday walk

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 06/06/2024 12:37

Just that really. Will he be found?

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Oaktree55 · 07/06/2024 12:12

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:07

Again we are not just talking about his age.

We were talking about what he was trying to do at this age.

He did something that medical professionals would say is perfectly reasonable to do at his age. Go for a walk

Uh no they wouldn’t jeez we even get warning in uk for elderly and vulnerable to be careful if it ever exceeds 30c here!!

eggplant16 · 07/06/2024 12:13

stressedespresso · 07/06/2024 12:03

Why did he decide to do it? He went for a short walk on a clearly laid out path whilst on holiday, hardly groundbreaking or extreme stuff 🙄

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Of course its perfectly normal to go for a short walk alone. In the heat, after saying you don't feel great, without a phone or water, unwise.

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:14

Oaktree55 · 07/06/2024 12:12

Uh no they wouldn’t jeez we even get warning in uk for elderly and vulnerable to be careful if it ever exceeds 30c here!!

Wheres that?

I've never seen those types of warnings?

That doesn't make sense.

Because people in their 60s+ go on hols to Spain every year. The temperature is high there.

LapinR0se · 07/06/2024 12:14

I just googled and apparently the definition of elderly is in fact over 65. I think that’s crazy, as to me elderly means 80+. But there you go.

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:14

eggplant16 · 07/06/2024 12:13

Of course its perfectly normal to go for a short walk alone. In the heat, after saying you don't feel great, without a phone or water, unwise.

If he was unwell and tired why did he decide to walk back anyway.

It was a long walk wasn't it.

Wouldn't you get a taxi

MyQuaintDog · 07/06/2024 12:16

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 11:49

It's some people who are in their 20s and 30s on here,who seem to think that 67 is elderly.

I read an interesting study once, where it said that young people have a very skewed perception of age.

They have not experienced being older. So they think that people in their 60s are barely able to get out of a chair, and can barely move.

When in fact people in their sixties walk long distances, run marathons and hike mountains.

A woman in her 80s just travelled all round the world by herself recently.

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I am in my sixties. No one is talking about most people in their sixties barely able to move. Simply that as you age adverse events affect your body more. Our bodies are older and that has an impact whether you choose to deny it or not.

eggplant16 · 07/06/2024 12:16

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:14

If he was unwell and tired why did he decide to walk back anyway.

It was a long walk wasn't it.

Wouldn't you get a taxi

It seems this poor person made an unwise choice.

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:16

LapinR0se · 07/06/2024 12:14

I just googled and apparently the definition of elderly is in fact over 65. I think that’s crazy, as to me elderly means 80+. But there you go.

Its Amazing that by some medical definitions "elderly' is 65.

Yet the government says that you're totally fit to work until 67

They don't think you're elderly and unable to do things, when they want you to work!

Oaktree55 · 07/06/2024 12:16

SwingingPonytail · 07/06/2024 11:56

@Oaktree55 you've just said he wasn't healthy himself.

What do you mean?

He's recently reversed his diabetes by losing a lot of weight (well, that was few years ago now.) He's on record as saying he and his wife start the say with squats and lunges, and other exercises.

Is there anything else you know?

I honestly think people are so sucked into selling of lifestyle/health. It was his job/income. A few squats and losing weight does not make you healthy, perhaps healthier than you were before but he seemingly had a family history of heart disease. Quote below from Guardian.

“I did a test recently on Horizon and they found that I had partial blockage in one of my coronary arteries. It was a bit freaky and I’m still aware of it. No male in my family has made it beyond 72.”

He was not someone who should have jumped off a plane from uk and attempted a 2km trek in 40+c. That’s blindingly obvious!

Rubbishconfession · 07/06/2024 12:16

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:14

If he was unwell and tired why did he decide to walk back anyway.

It was a long walk wasn't it.

Wouldn't you get a taxi

Looks there the water taxis are infrequent.

Maybe he didn’t want to wait 2 hours or more for next one.

User14March · 07/06/2024 12:16

The bus stop sighting - was this the same as cafe CCTV sighting ( now discounted )with similar looking man?

  1. Man like him seen in similar clothing with a woman walking. His wife has said not him.
  2. Man like him seen talking to someone at bus stop.

Something in later report makes me think 2 above not yet discounted?

Carly944 · 07/06/2024 12:18

MyQuaintDog · 07/06/2024 12:16

I am in my sixties. No one is talking about most people in their sixties barely able to move. Simply that as you age adverse events affect your body more. Our bodies are older and that has an impact whether you choose to deny it or not.

I'm not even in my sixties

. I've just turned forty.

So theres no need foe me to be in denial about it, personally.

However I disagree that the minute we turn 65, everyone's bodies become weaker.

I've just seen so many 60 and 70 year olds at my hiking groups.

They are bursting with health, climbing up very big hills.

MidnightMeltdown · 07/06/2024 12:19

LapinR0se · 07/06/2024 12:14

I just googled and apparently the definition of elderly is in fact over 65. I think that’s crazy, as to me elderly means 80+. But there you go.

Yes 65 is geriatric in medical terms. I think we've lost sight of that because people are living longer. 65 appears young compared to 85, but it's still elderly.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 07/06/2024 12:19

Oaktree55 · 07/06/2024 12:03

I don’t understand why people don’t use these tragedies (same with Nicola Bully and water safety) to learn from them. Instead you get idiots saying I’m nearly 70 I’d go on a 2 km trek in heat without a phone. Just think gosh how awful what can I learn from this either for me or a family member? Such a silly reaction from so many.

He could’ve got heat stroke/exhaustion/fallen/heart issues/bitten by a snake but hopefully he had water and a snack with him. If he has had any of those then he’ll find it harder to make contact with someone as he has no phone and doesn’t know the island. Also a lot of Greeks don’t speak English but they’d probably get him access to a phone. As I said before as he’s fit and healthy he’s got more chances than someone who’s not fit and healthy. Hopefully he knows first aid too which he could administer to himself.

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Delatron · 07/06/2024 12:21

Some reports are saying it was a 1k walk and 20 minutes but I’ve also read 2.2 miles and an hour and a half. Do we know which is correct? As that would make a huge difference.

If it was such a busy path surely he was spotted by someone on that path?

It’s a small island so it’s unusual that someone matching his description with similar clothes was spotted in the vicinity. But we’ll have to accept that wasn’t him.

Sadly, as someone else said. If it appears as though someone has vanished in to thin air near to water, the likelihood is that they are in the water. That is why they haven’t been found.

I wondered if he jumped in the sea to cool down and maybe suffered cold water shock. But his bag etc would have been found. It does look like something happened to cause him to fall in.

Albergo · 07/06/2024 12:21

I am in Athens and it is stiflingly hot. Symi is similar because its further south.

I keep hoping some kindly yaiya has taken him in and is feeding him up and time has passed them by...

Helloworld56 · 07/06/2024 12:22

I'm 71 and I don't consider myself young any more, despite my sister insisting that I am.
I certainly can't do the things I used to do in my forties and fifties.

The problem is that younger people don't actually know what they will be like in their late sixties. It's a fact that your body slows down.
Of course there is the exception of 80 year olds running marathons, but they are the exception, not the rule.

Very sadly, I think the most likely explanation is that he has suffered some kind of medical emergency and is in the sea. Otherwise, in such a small place, he would have been found by now.

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 07/06/2024 12:24

Albergo · 07/06/2024 12:21

I am in Athens and it is stiflingly hot. Symi is similar because its further south.

I keep hoping some kindly yaiya has taken him in and is feeding him up and time has passed them by...

This is what I'm hoping too. That he might've lost his memory again and been taken in by someone without a TV.

Pelham678 · 07/06/2024 12:24

MidnightMeltdown · 07/06/2024 12:19

Yes 65 is geriatric in medical terms. I think we've lost sight of that because people are living longer. 65 appears young compared to 85, but it's still elderly.

It's not elderly in terms of frail and unable to undertake activities. That's just ridiculous.

If you have underlying health conditions that's different. Clearly as we age we're more likely to have underlying health conditions, in which case we're more frail but I don't think it helps older people to suggest they're elderly and should act like a frail person just because they are 65.

hihelenhi · 07/06/2024 12:25

IDontSleepIDream · 07/06/2024 12:07

If he told his wife he wasn’t well and was going home, it begs the question why didn’t she report him missing until several hours later? I get that she was off doing her own thing but if he wasn’t well wouldn’t she have checked in on him at some point before then?

Probably because she knows him well and knows what is and isn't out of character for him and this presumably didn't seem so (even if feeling a bit unwell? That could mean many things. Just that he was tired after the trip over and needed a sleep, you wouldn't necessarily think that was abnormal). They were out and about, she wouldn't have realised until they got back to where they were staying and you don't know what the other options to get back were, doesn't sound like there were many. She might have tried phoning and not got an answer, since he didn't have his phone, but even then, you wouldn't necessarily instantly think 'oh no, something must have happened' and call the police immediately.

I agree that walking back in the heat without your phone when you're not feeling great is not the best idea though and perhaps a doctor should have known better, but easy to say in retrospect.

Sammy900 · 07/06/2024 12:26

Does anyone know what the particular risks and dangers on that stretch of the walk he did are? It wasn't a very long walk...

Was it high up? Risk of falling down rocks into the sea? Or getting trapped, falling down crevices? Easy to get lost, go off the track?

I hope he is found safe but am sadly doubtful at ths stage...if he is lying injured or trapped somewhere he will be really dehydrated and ill by now, esepcially if he has blood loss

Sendng hope and kind thoughts to him and his family

Oaktree55 · 07/06/2024 12:26

From the British Heart Foundation. These warnings do go out in uk when we have a hot spell.

Michael Mosley missing after disappearing on holiday walk
Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 07/06/2024 12:26

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 07/06/2024 12:24

This is what I'm hoping too. That he might've lost his memory again and been taken in by someone without a TV.

You’d think though he’d get them to ring or find someone with a phone to ring his wife or local authorities if he’s forgotten her number so people know he’s ok especially as he said he was feeling unwell to his wife before he set off.

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RainbowZebraWarrior · 07/06/2024 12:27

LapinR0se · 07/06/2024 12:14

I just googled and apparently the definition of elderly is in fact over 65. I think that’s crazy, as to me elderly means 80+. But there you go.

It's due to pension and medical purposes.

Senior citizens / Elderly = over 60 / 65 (traditionally) for pensionable purposes.

Over 65 is elderly for medical purposes as many risk factors (generally) are greater as we age.

Many years ago, elderly was considered even younger from a medical perspective (when balancing factors such as risk and contraindications for example)

A bit like being diagnosed with Arthritis at 49 is considered to be 'early onset'. Being diagnosed with Arthritis at 51 is considered 'age related wear and tear'.

Albergo · 07/06/2024 12:27

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 07/06/2024 12:24

This is what I'm hoping too. That he might've lost his memory again and been taken in by someone without a TV.

It is actually quite feasible on the islands. I pray it is something like this.

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