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Curious things your neighbours do...

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swishswashwish · 27/05/2024 17:10

Lighthearted!!

I'm not a curtain twitcher (I promise!) but was vacuuming earlier when I noticed the neighbour opposite was out jetwashing his drive...in the rain! He's now moved on to jetwashing the car (also in the rain). Each to their own, I guess.

But it reminded me of another neighbour who used to come outdoors each night and sweep the pavement in front of his house. Not sure what he was sweeping away (dust? Stones?) but most nights at around 8pm, you'd hear the swish swish of the brush.

Does anyone else have neighbours who do curious things?

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Trunkybum · 28/05/2024 07:28

Our neighbour is another who also keeps her garden immaculate and tends to her plants etc every day, but never ever sits out there. And her kitchen overlooks it so it’s not like she’s enjoying the view from her sofa.

she also closes the windows if she twigs we are outside. Even if I’m out there alone, silently hanging the washing out. If she catches site of me the windows are shut 🤷🏻‍♀️

RishiFinallyDidTheRightThing · 28/05/2024 07:53

I had a neighbour who used to go out into his garden at night and talk out loud to God. Not always respectfully, sometimes God got quite an ear-bashing.

MasterShardlake · 28/05/2024 08:15

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 27/05/2024 17:21

Downstairs has a very nice garden which she treats as a giant potting shed. Potters around, trims a few leaves and goes in after about 10 minutes. She never uses it for sitting outside (which is the point of a garden, IMO).

That neighbour could be me!
I WFH and patio doors and large kitchen windows mean I have a good view of the garden when I'm working and often pop out for a few minutes throughout the day to do a bit of pottering.
Sitting outside for any length of time only happens for the few days a year when it's not raining/too cold/too hot. Even then I'd rather be fiddling about with the plants.

AngelinaFibres · 28/05/2024 09:12

Neighbour opposite used to get both cars out of the garage. Both cars washed and hoovered throughout. Garage hoovered. Its a big space. Took ages. Cars put back . Then driveway hoovered. Not swept with a brush, hoovered with a hoover. It took about 4 hours to do all this every Sunday. He died a few months ago. Now his widow does it, but his car has gone so just one car. Makes me feel a bit sad. She is obviously feeling his loss .

AngelinaFibres · 28/05/2024 09:20

2Old2Tango · 27/05/2024 21:57

My husband used to be the weird one, washing his car every few days. God forbid it got a speck of dirt on it - out came the buckets (2 bucket system), the various cloths and brushes, the handheld dryer thingy for blowing excess water off the car, the umpteen different polishes for bodywork, tyres, dash, windows... I used to wonder what the neighbours thought.

He would also mow the lawn every four or five days and had to have perfect stripes from his petrol mower. Now he's terminally ill and is unable to do these things. He detests that my car is always dirty, but I have other things to do (like being his full time carer) to waste time on washing cars. Besides, it rains too much in the UK. He's constantly "suggesting" I mow the grass again, and I push back as much as I can, because I don't want the neighbours thinking I've succeeded him as the "crazy one" 🤣🤣

He's seeking stability and the normality of what was before his illness. He used to do those things and there is great distress in not being able to do them . He can't convince himself that he isn't ill, because those things are all in place, because they aren't being done so things are not okay and not in place. My dad was just the same when he was dying. Not suggesting you take that on as well as everything else.

SirAlfredSpatchcock · 28/05/2024 09:25

She hoovers her garden? 😂😂😂

Yes, but I rather feel the main question is being deliberately ignored here: does she mow her living room carpet?! Grin

Cherrysoup · 28/05/2024 09:30

letstrythis · 28/05/2024 03:02

My (absolutely lovely and very houseproud) neighbour gets her garden ready for summer by hoovering it every April. This takes 2 days with the hoover going for around 8 hours per day. I honestly don't know how she hasn't burned out the hoover.

I once hoovered the lawn because the puppies had destroyed some toys and left the foam innards spread right across. It was much quicker than picking it up by hand. My neighbours must have thought I was losing it!

Tequilamockinbird · 28/05/2024 09:31

My neighbour vacuums her drive every Saturday afternoon. She has one of those little red Henry vacuums and spends about an hour on the drive. I've no idea what she's vacuuming up, or how her back isn't in bits Grin

Sillystrumpet · 28/05/2024 09:35

Mine hides behind the curtains or fence and watches us. It’s both weird and creepy. Mainly as I can see her. As can any visitors or tradespeople ,they always comment your neighbour is watching, often in a nice way. Ie do you think she needs work done too as she’s behind her curtain watching us.

we are not doing anything remotely interesting or unusual,either sitting chatting or gardening etc. just normal stuff.

i don’t like it though if im honest. She must know we can see her. She’s not small. Or invisible. As soon as she knows someone is out there, she’s hiding and watching.

letstrythis · 28/05/2024 10:08

She's out there now! Hoovering up the leaves that have dropped over night.

LadyLavinia · 28/05/2024 10:11

Ihateboris · 27/05/2024 18:25

My female neighbour has LOTS of male visitors...usually for an hour at a time. Yes,I'm a curtain twitcher!

I used to be 'that' neighbor. 😉

Our across the street neighbor, a bored, retired career soldier, was a "curtain twitcher"; I would jokingly call him 'Gladys Kravitz' (the nosy neighbor fron the American TV show "Bewitched".)

Back when I was a senior in high school and in the early years of post-secondary school community/commuter college, I was still living with my parents. This was in the early to mid 1980s, before word processors, affordable home computers, and online language apps. 

To earn money for tuition, books, etc., I would tutor people who were taking English as a Second Language (ESL) classes. These were always one hour sessions. I also would help both native English speakers and ESL students write their class essays and other similar projects, then type them up afterward. The actual writing part of those papers would take hours. However, when they'd return for the typed paper, pick-up was a quick in-and-out. I did all this in the dining room at home, with the full knowledge of my parents. I should add that 85% or more of these people were male. 

 Anyway, "Mr. Kravitz" had had enough of watching the constant parade of people (mainly men) and felt he needed to confront my dad about 'things'.

 "LadyLavinia's Dad, I hate to tell you this,  but are you aware that your daughter is dealing drugs and possibly prostituting herself. I see men here all afternoon and evening. Some come empty-handed and leave immediately with a large envelope. Some come with a backpack and stay for an hour or much longer. I'm going to call the police, but I figured I'd give you a heads-up first." My dad, who could be a bit gruff, started chuckling, which turned into deep, rumbling laughter that could be heard inside the house.

 I was waiting for someone to stop by to pick up a typed paper, so, of course, I had to open the front door to see what was going on. "LadyLavinia, would you come here please?" he asked, "Mr. Kravitz would like to speak with you."

 I went out to the street where the two men were talking. Immediately, Mr. Kravitz started telling me how horrible drugs were, how I shouldn't be taking or selling them, and how I should respect myself more instead of "sleeping around'". Obviously, I had absolutely no clue what he was talking about. I turned and looked at my dad; he explained what Mr. Kravitz had told him. I instantly knew what I needed to do.

 Being a bit cheeky, I turned to Mr. Kravitz explained, "I'm working my way through school by doing two things. Both pay quite well and I'm very good at them." Mr. Kravitz just sputtered. In his eyes, I just confirmed his suspicions, and my dad couldn't hold his laughter any longer. 

 At this time, the student I was waiting for showed up. He parked, came over and greeted my dad and I, and asked, "Is my stuff ready?". I asked him to wait while I went in and grabbed the 'illicit' Manilla envelope.

Under the watchful eye of my dad, and much to the shock of Mr. Kravitz, I handed him the envelope, and he handed me $100.00 and thanked me profusely. "If it wasn't for your little packages like this, I wouldn't be making it through school." Before he left, I reminded him that his research paper was due in six weeks, and since the professor wanted a minimum of 70 pages, not counting the index, bibliography, and proper footnotes, we needed to start on that as soon as possible.

 I then turned to Mr. Kravitz said, "Yep. Like I was saying, as long as people have issues learning the English language and word processors are not affordable, I'll never be broke or out of two well paying jobs."

Have you ever been around a grown man who blushed so strongly that you could feel the heat radiating from him? How about one who stammered on for almost five minutes apologizing. 

I have, and it was wonderful! 📚 📑 💰 🎓 😉

dizzydizzydizzy · 28/05/2024 10:18

My next door neighbour was on the phone at 4am today.

GOTBrienne · 28/05/2024 10:32

My neighbour growing up mowed her lawn every day in the summer and hoovered her drive. She complained to all the neighbours about leaves from trees blowing onto her property and wanted them all to be cut down.

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 28/05/2024 10:36

PuddlesPityParty · 28/05/2024 07:15

Hahaha I do this - sometimes I even take a video so I have evidence 🤣

I've thought about doing the video thing! Glad it's not just me

the80sweregreat · 28/05/2024 10:38

I'm surprised all these Hoovers survive outside hoovering the lane or the concrete. Mine throws a strop at the carpets if there is a piece of cotton or something is in the way , let alone leaves and stones and snails or whatever. They must have hard core ones I don't know about

the80sweregreat · 28/05/2024 10:39

You can buy leaf blowers that do a good job.
Not sure why they don't

iknowimcoming · 28/05/2024 10:51

A planning permission debacle years ago means that we are civil rather than chummy with our ndn and he does constantly monitor what we're up to, checking what's in our bin/recycling, peering through the hedge when we're in the garden etc but my favourite thing is the Christmas tree!

Every year in early January he goes along the fence line between us 'planting' 18 inch(ish) pieces of Christmas tree which he has presumably spent some time cutting off his Christmas tree, it's a very long boundary and must take him ages! They stay there going dry and brown, until the following year when he puts the next lot in! No idea if he thinks they might grow into a new tree (they haven't so far!) or there's some other reason for it - makes us chuckle every year tho!

RubySloth · 28/05/2024 10:59

PuddlesPityParty · 28/05/2024 07:13

eeeewww this has to be the worst one 😭

It is when you've had mice issues and you are super clean.

KreedKafer · 28/05/2024 11:03

Our next door neighbours constantly leave random stuff in their back garden to rot. They have four kids who take toys out and play with them, and then just leave them there. A couple of years ago, one of them got a bike for Christmas, which was then just put in the back garden until it rusted. This is despite there being a two-storey playhouse thing in the garden, which is completely empty (both doors are wide open) and a shed.

They have an outside table which has had two mugs, a pair of sunglasses and a couple of plates left on it for weeks after they were sitting out there in the sunny weather one afternoon.

Once they went away for a week and then came back and pegged out their kids' sunsuits/paddle board suits to dry on the washing line. They then just left them hanging there for a good six months. At point, the bloke and his dad were building an extension while the suits were still on the line, literally having to duck underneath them each time they went to get tools from the shed or something.

HiddenBooks · 28/05/2024 11:10

Our neighbour passed away a few years ago, but prior to his death he did used to make us laugh when it snowed.

Every time, he'd be out there with his snow shovel... but he wouldn't wait for it to stop snowing first. He'd be out there, shovelling away while it carried on snowing and the driveway was filling back up again behind him! When he'd gone over it once, he'd go back to the start and do it again!

the80sweregreat · 28/05/2024 11:13

I think some people just love being outside even if the actual job is pointless or not making much headway (as below. )
They can't abide sitting indoors

Walkinginthesand · 28/05/2024 11:14

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 27/05/2024 17:21

Downstairs has a very nice garden which she treats as a giant potting shed. Potters around, trims a few leaves and goes in after about 10 minutes. She never uses it for sitting outside (which is the point of a garden, IMO).

Sounds like me. Love to potter and nurture my garden but become totally restless and unable to focus say on a book just sitting out in it, not helped by very light sensitive eyes.

Flyinghighhighinthesky · 28/05/2024 11:19

My single middle-aged office worker neighbour (whose mum comes round to cook his dinners and do his washing) likes to potter round his garden for hours wearing a fully loaded tool belt. He doesn't use any of the tools (his dad does his diy/gardening).

I think he likes feeling "manly"...the kids think he's playing "cowboy".

Ihateboris · 28/05/2024 11:22

LadyLavinia · 28/05/2024 10:11

I used to be 'that' neighbor. 😉

Our across the street neighbor, a bored, retired career soldier, was a "curtain twitcher"; I would jokingly call him 'Gladys Kravitz' (the nosy neighbor fron the American TV show "Bewitched".)

Back when I was a senior in high school and in the early years of post-secondary school community/commuter college, I was still living with my parents. This was in the early to mid 1980s, before word processors, affordable home computers, and online language apps. 

To earn money for tuition, books, etc., I would tutor people who were taking English as a Second Language (ESL) classes. These were always one hour sessions. I also would help both native English speakers and ESL students write their class essays and other similar projects, then type them up afterward. The actual writing part of those papers would take hours. However, when they'd return for the typed paper, pick-up was a quick in-and-out. I did all this in the dining room at home, with the full knowledge of my parents. I should add that 85% or more of these people were male. 

 Anyway, "Mr. Kravitz" had had enough of watching the constant parade of people (mainly men) and felt he needed to confront my dad about 'things'.

 "LadyLavinia's Dad, I hate to tell you this,  but are you aware that your daughter is dealing drugs and possibly prostituting herself. I see men here all afternoon and evening. Some come empty-handed and leave immediately with a large envelope. Some come with a backpack and stay for an hour or much longer. I'm going to call the police, but I figured I'd give you a heads-up first." My dad, who could be a bit gruff, started chuckling, which turned into deep, rumbling laughter that could be heard inside the house.

 I was waiting for someone to stop by to pick up a typed paper, so, of course, I had to open the front door to see what was going on. "LadyLavinia, would you come here please?" he asked, "Mr. Kravitz would like to speak with you."

 I went out to the street where the two men were talking. Immediately, Mr. Kravitz started telling me how horrible drugs were, how I shouldn't be taking or selling them, and how I should respect myself more instead of "sleeping around'". Obviously, I had absolutely no clue what he was talking about. I turned and looked at my dad; he explained what Mr. Kravitz had told him. I instantly knew what I needed to do.

 Being a bit cheeky, I turned to Mr. Kravitz explained, "I'm working my way through school by doing two things. Both pay quite well and I'm very good at them." Mr. Kravitz just sputtered. In his eyes, I just confirmed his suspicions, and my dad couldn't hold his laughter any longer. 

 At this time, the student I was waiting for showed up. He parked, came over and greeted my dad and I, and asked, "Is my stuff ready?". I asked him to wait while I went in and grabbed the 'illicit' Manilla envelope.

Under the watchful eye of my dad, and much to the shock of Mr. Kravitz, I handed him the envelope, and he handed me $100.00 and thanked me profusely. "If it wasn't for your little packages like this, I wouldn't be making it through school." Before he left, I reminded him that his research paper was due in six weeks, and since the professor wanted a minimum of 70 pages, not counting the index, bibliography, and proper footnotes, we needed to start on that as soon as possible.

 I then turned to Mr. Kravitz said, "Yep. Like I was saying, as long as people have issues learning the English language and word processors are not affordable, I'll never be broke or out of two well paying jobs."

Have you ever been around a grown man who blushed so strongly that you could feel the heat radiating from him? How about one who stammered on for almost five minutes apologizing. 

I have, and it was wonderful! 📚 📑 💰 🎓 😉

Oh that is just brilliant. You've made my day!

BellyPork · 28/05/2024 11:28

mathanxiety · 27/05/2024 20:24

Stands outside his back door drinking beer for hours every night, talking to himself in a strange falsetto voice.

that made me lol