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CF allotment thief thread no 4 - Babs’s dodgy solicitor and TV producers looking to cast for the role of Penfold?

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YaMuvva · 09/05/2024 15:24

New thread! Last one was here
www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5049200-cf-allotment-thief-part-3-the-plot-thickens-and-auditions-begin-for-the-west-end-musical?page=38&reply=135136744

So a quick update.

DH dropped me off for my surgery this morning then dropped the kids at school before heading to the allotment. Babs was there gardening as were some other people on their own plots. All her crap was still there

DH went up and reminded her that she needs to be off the plot by the 20th. She said that she is awaiting advice from her solicitor to see if she can challenge us. She also said if the solicitor says she has to be off, she will be gone by the 20th but isn’t giving it up without checking if she has rights first. She did a fair bit of guilt tripping to DH about how she has spent 10 years being part of a community and having a hobby and she now has to give it all up but he held strong and told her, unless she comes back with a legitimate legal claim her property will be off the allotment by the 21st - wether it’s removed by her or by him.

However - enter Penfold stage right

Penfold is what we are calling the allotment neighbour who marched over from the other side of the plots (because that’s who he looks like). He started shouting at DH saying “You’re a bully! Fancy picking on an old lady and taking her allotment off her after all her years of hard work”. He pointed out it’s his allotment now and Penfold said that “just because your name is on a piece of paper it doesn’t give you the right to steal it off it’s rightful owner”. He then start saying “What do you know about gardening pretty boy? These allotments should be for real gardeners not pretty boys like you”

When DH told me this I laughed so hard I thought my stitches may burst 😂 DH IS very pretty but he’s also mid-40’s and hasn’t been called pretty in many many years. We are in semi-rural Yorkshire though and a man wearing a top that isn’t either blue black or white is considered a feminine.

When DH stated he does actually know about gardening, Penfold was all “Yeah right yeah right all you know about is putting your make up on” 🤣🤣 and said how these allotment owners have been around for decades he can’t just barge in and kick people out. DH said he was half expecting Penfold to say “this is a local allotment for local people”.

Then it was BABS of all people who told Penfold to STFU. Not quite those words but she said “oh do calm down Nigel”. The other plot owners just kept their heads down apparently. DH took off in the end but he is considering buying a Danger Mouse t-shirt to wear when he gardens. I’ve told him I can help him apply his make up 😂.

Anyway Babs’s words don’t exactly fill me with confidence but it’s better than flat out refusing to leave I suppose. I’m absolutely confident that legally she hasn’t a leg to stand on, but that doesn’t mean some dodgy solicitor won’t claim otherwise for a bit of easy money off her. Either way unless there is a claim that has legs (highly unlikely) DH will be round on the 21st to set up his stuff. PP were right about insane allotment owners - but we are just gonna have to lump it and not let Penfold ruin our time there.

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Cherrysoup · 22/05/2024 16:52

Allofaflutter · 22/05/2024 14:56

£700 is small claims court money. Not that expensive but what is the likelihood of him having the money to pay?

Given he hasn’t paid 2 months rent, quite high! I dunno, he works in a not brilliant job. What really pisses me off is his poor partner telling me she’d sent him half the rent and he said he’d sent it to us, the bloody liar! He also accepted her half at Christmas when we halved it, I feel like an idiot for not including her in the message, but he was the one who officially paid.

I’d love to know how he’s found somewhere else without a reference. My mam reckons he’s obtained a fake reference but surely they’ll be credit checks?

TinyTear · 22/05/2024 17:06

Hi @Cherrysoup wouldn't you be better off starting your own thread?

We don't want this one to fill up with your issues before @YaMuvva feels better and comes back to update us.

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 22/05/2024 17:19

YaMuvva · 18/05/2024 22:16

Sadly I’m housebound and DH is only going out if absolutely necessary just in case I take a turn for the worst, but I’m DYING to know what it’s like now!

So am I. Absolutely dying to find out what’s happening Grin

I hope @YaMuvva is doing well on her path to recovery Flowers (and that she’ll be backs soon Wink)

Littlestminnow · 22/05/2024 17:28

buys in more popcorn

Cherrysoup · 22/05/2024 17:29

TinyTear · 22/05/2024 17:06

Hi @Cherrysoup wouldn't you be better off starting your own thread?

We don't want this one to fill up with your issues before @YaMuvva feels better and comes back to update us.

I have answered poster’s queries. Is there a limit to how many threads yamuvver can start?! I don’t have any issues. Everything is resolved as far as I’m concerned but I needed to answer you!

Justlivingnextdoor · 22/05/2024 18:01

So what happened OP. Is she gone?!

CountingCrones · 22/05/2024 18:07

Justlivingnextdoor · 22/05/2024 18:01

So what happened OP. Is she gone?!

She's having a bumpy recovery from a serious operation. I'm sure we aren't her principle priority at the moment.

Justlivingnextdoor · 22/05/2024 18:10

@CountingCrones I know I know. I wasn't demanding her to update now! Just when she can!

Oblomov24 · 22/05/2024 18:28

Can't believe this shit weather. Due to rain all next week for 1/2 term. What a pisser. Doubt even OP's Dh nor babs is at the allotment!

artant · 22/05/2024 20:03

Monday was beautiful though. Perfect weather for Babs to move everything back to her own garden.

Justlivingnextdoor · 22/05/2024 21:39

artant · 22/05/2024 20:03

Monday was beautiful though. Perfect weather for Babs to move everything back to her own garden.

Let hope she has moved and not caused OP anymore trouble. 🤞🤞🤞

beenwhereyouare · 22/05/2024 22:07

@Justlivingnextdoor
@CountingCrones

"Sadly I’m housebound and DH is only going out if absolutely necessary just in case I take a turn for the worst, but I’m DYING to know what it’s like now!"

This is from the 18th. It's the last post YaMuvva made on this thread. She posted a few in other topics the next morning, but nothing since then.

Like a lot of you, I am a little too invested in this thread. But @YaMuvva has been making funny, engaging posts for more than 2 weeks. Even the day she had surgery.

Monday or Tuesday was D Day for Babs and no updates. Between this, several days without posting, and the fact that in her last post, she mentioned her DH's concern for her health, I'm worried.

It's not the updates I really care about. But I am concerned that there's something keeping her from posting.

I truly hope YaMuvva is okay and that we hear something from her soon. I hope I AM being silly, and there turns out to be a harmless reason that she's gone quiet.

But in the meantime, I'll send her healing thoughts, light, and prayer.

Sorry I've used up a post; I just wanted to share.

Justlivingnextdoor · 22/05/2024 22:45

beenwhereyouare · 22/05/2024 22:07

@Justlivingnextdoor
@CountingCrones

"Sadly I’m housebound and DH is only going out if absolutely necessary just in case I take a turn for the worst, but I’m DYING to know what it’s like now!"

This is from the 18th. It's the last post YaMuvva made on this thread. She posted a few in other topics the next morning, but nothing since then.

Like a lot of you, I am a little too invested in this thread. But @YaMuvva has been making funny, engaging posts for more than 2 weeks. Even the day she had surgery.

Monday or Tuesday was D Day for Babs and no updates. Between this, several days without posting, and the fact that in her last post, she mentioned her DH's concern for her health, I'm worried.

It's not the updates I really care about. But I am concerned that there's something keeping her from posting.

I truly hope YaMuvva is okay and that we hear something from her soon. I hope I AM being silly, and there turns out to be a harmless reason that she's gone quiet.

But in the meantime, I'll send her healing thoughts, light, and prayer.

Sorry I've used up a post; I just wanted to share.

Gosh yes when you put it like that it is rather worrying. I hadn't been keeping an eye on last post date etc. I hope she's ok 🤞🤞🤞

KnickerlessParsons · 22/05/2024 23:42

Perhaps YaMuvva has gone to try to rescue the lady who's obviously stuck in the tunnel in her partner's house. At least they'll be company for each other.

poetrylover · 23/05/2024 06:58

Hope you are getting better @YaMuvva. Worried we haven't heard from you. Really hope all is well.

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 23/05/2024 07:36

Cherrysoup · 21/05/2024 20:00

I reckon I can do it myself. I just need to check if the My Deposit scheme allows me to keep the deposit in lieu of rent, pretty sure it does. He's getting nothing back, owes 2 month's rent, place is filthy, sink in the bathroom is broken and has been glued back together! No way is he seeing a penny back. Plus he left all the windows open and the doors unlocked. Good job my DH was off today.

Make sure to do a check out inventory complete with plenty of time stamped photos of the state of the place; keep the message where the tenant says they’ve abandoned the property and any receipts from rubbish disposal/cleaning/equipment hire (ozone machine/carpet cleaner)/redecoration etc so that, if there is any dispute about you claiming the tenants deposit in full, you have evidence to show the state of the place and what you needed to do to rid it of his ‘mark’!!

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 23/05/2024 07:49

And yes, I’ve committed the sin of not getting to the rend of the thread before posting a reply - only to see someone else said the same thing 2 days ago 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I’ll blame insomnia, pain and oromorph for not getting till the end of the thread in case I couldn’t find the post I wanted to quote/answer.

I’m also hoping @YaMuvva is ok, having followed the saga from the beginning I was looking forward to this week’s update but am more concerned that her health has taken a downturn and she isn’t in a position to post at the moment.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 23/05/2024 08:58

This reminds me of the crows thread which was amazing and hilarious but where the OP disappeared as we were all so invested.

Latenightreader · 23/05/2024 09:10

Atethehalloweenchocs · 23/05/2024 08:58

This reminds me of the crows thread which was amazing and hilarious but where the OP disappeared as we were all so invested.

It reminded me a lot of the hugely enjoyable door into the garden thread quite a few years ago where there was a great cast of characters (SpanGran), then suddenly the OP vanished just as another deadline approached.

sashh · 23/05/2024 10:27

Oh I loved SpanGran thread.

longapple · 23/05/2024 10:53

Atethehalloweenchocs · 23/05/2024 08:58

This reminds me of the crows thread which was amazing and hilarious but where the OP disappeared as we were all so invested.

I don't feel you communicated the full drama of the crows thread. She didn't just disappear. She disappeared after casually saying she was taking the dogs for a walk IN THE CROW FIELD and she'd be back shortly! AND NEVER RETURNED. THE CROWS GOT HER.

Diplidocus4 · 23/05/2024 11:02

And the CROWS didn't like her !

pollymere · 23/05/2024 11:24

Do you think Babs has murdered her and buried her on the allotment?! 😱

EnglishBluebell · 23/05/2024 14:44

Oh God now I'm really worried. Like a PP said, she was even posting the day of her operation....

CottonCandyLand · 23/05/2024 14:54

Unverified, but someone said they’d heard OP was as ok as could be expected but was taking a few days away from here/this thread.
hopefully that’s the case and OP will come back when she’s good and ready